How many children have adults hurt for so-called "fun"

Please stop verbal violence against children. Children can't tell which jokes are true, and adults' teasing will make them feel at a loss and even make extreme reactions.

Situation 1: The child told his family that his father was swimming naked. After the family burst into laughter, he deliberately teased the child: "Are you swimming with your clothes on?" The child was speechless.

Situation 2: The mother asks the child to call the guest "Sister", and the guest insists on calling the child "Grandma". The child is at a loss.

Scene 3: I met an aunt in the street. Auntie teased the child and said, "Give your superman to Auntie", scaring the child into hiding. Aunt said the child was "a real cheapskate".

Situation 4: Take the children to the class reunion. An adult crumpled the cigarette paper and told the children that there was sugar in it. Let the children say "Dad is a rogue" and tell them. When the children told them, the whole table burst into laughter.

Situation 5: The child is eating snacks, and the guest says, "It seems delicious. Give me some! " ! The child reached out and handed the snack to the other party. The other party said, "I won't eat it if you are so generous." The child is puzzled.

These situations make adults happy, but their happiness is based on the pain of their children. Although these actions of adults are not malicious, most of them just want to play a joke on children, and make adults laugh when children naively follow them by making them do some inappropriate behaviors or Doby children. Although the atmosphere was created, the child was hurt.

What are the bad effects of teasing children?

1 The child feels insecure.

In the pure world of children, they are very serious about everything adults say, and they will feel scared when they hear bad words, such as "Mom doesn't want you", "Dad doesn't go home" and "Grandma only loves her sister". Their first reaction is fear, helplessness and anger. They lose their sense of security and even express their anxiety through aggressive behavior, such as hurting themselves or others.

Children become distrustful of adults.

After a child is born, there is no concept of "cheating" or "falsehood". When they hear adults asking for sharing, they will make generous or reluctant moves. They never think that adults act for fun. Adults' teasing will make them feel cheated, teased and hurt their self-esteem. They may become distrustful of others and be alert to the people around them, which is not conducive to children's interpersonal communication.

Children play tricks seriously.

Have you ever seen a child talking on the phone with relatives or other adults, and relatives said they would take the child to an amusement park or a fun place? When the child is excitedly packing things, he hears his parents say that the other party is making you happy. The child looks unbelievable and disappointed? Don't defile the child's innocent heart at will. When you find that the child's heart is no longer pure, there is a great contribution from adults.

Children may get used to pleasing others.

It is very disrespectful to ask children to "sing a song, dance and recite a poem for their uncles and aunts" when they often see many family guests. Some children don't want adults to force them to be circus performers. Another serious consequence of this practice is that children may focus all their attention on pleasing others when they grow up, and it will be a great blow if they are not recognized by others in the future.

It is the responsibility of parents to protect their children from teasing.