Why hide private money after marriage?

Why do boys and girls hide some private money after marriage? This is because between husband and wife, one party is strong and has the right to speak economically. Everything is harsh, everything is haggle over every ounce, and one party has zero constraint on the other's economic dominance. The disadvantaged party has no right to economic freedom, and people live in a big family of society and cannot be isolated from the world.

For example, boys only earn money, regardless of money, and pay all the money, including wages, commissions, bonuses and all legal income. If you don't have self-esteem after pasting, you will also have inferiority complex and be depressed in social activities. Without any money control ... life is hard.

Making money but can't control the sadness. In order to support the family, it is not wrong to hand over all the hard-earned money and assume the responsibilities and obligations of the family. However, it is easier to give money than to ask for it. It's like entering a gourd hole, but not getting out. Everything depends on the wife's face.

Is the wife too stingy? Boys can't freely control the money they earn from working, how to spend money on things, how to honor their parents, smoke and drink, and so on. Is it too much? ..... Any man will be depressed. So do girls. When you buy a dress and a lipstick, you have to beg for it.

For some henpecked men, it is a last resort to hide private money. Especially for girls who value money very much, they control the use of money by boys. What should I do if I want to socialize with dignity? Only by stimulating the determination of boys to hide private money.

Boys hide their private money for their own convenience, such as buying cigarettes and going out for drinks with friends, without looking at their wives' faces ... so as not to cause unnecessary trouble.

Some girls regard their parents' family as lovers and their husband's family as enemies. What should boys do to honor their parents? I have to hide my private money. You can't have a crisis because of a little money.

Most girls don't like their in-laws, don't want to be filial, and prevent their husbands from being filial. The man was depressed because he was caught in the middle. For the sake of family stability, not affecting the feelings of husband and wife, and secretly filial to his parents, he decided to hide his private money.

There should be no private money after marriage. Money should be shared and managed. Anyone who uses money should say so, and it is not harsh on each other. This is an ideal state, which is impossible in reality. Therefore, I personally think that there should be private money after marriage, and it must be done.