The woman who once said "I won't marry without a bride price of 500,000 yuan" now posts 500,000 yuan. Does anyone want it?

Love is a luxury based on material life. When it transits to marriage, it has to face the problem of talking about money.

Good love can be without money, but there must be a premise that both parties have no money and can not worry about all the problems that need to be solved with money in marriage life.

But in reality, ordinary people are the majority, and they can't do without the scraps of rice, oil and salt. As the days passed, they had to talk about money.

When it comes to marriage, women will talk to men about money and ask for a bride price. When it comes to money, many men will say that women worship money, and money has become the most sensitive topic between them.

Xu Xia talked about her first love for five years. At the age of 33, she has been living with her boyfriend for several years. She is not a husband and wife, living a married life, but she has no marriage certificate, is not bound by marriage and is not protected by law.

When talking about marriage, her parents demanded a bride price of 200 thousand. Her boyfriend's family has money, and this money can be taken out. Parents mean to make his family uncomfortable, and the daughter-in-law who paid the price will know how to cherish it later.

However, the parents of her boyfriend's family disagreed, saying that she was so old and had been with her son for so long, so she certainly didn't dare to go back on her word and get married, so she said that there was no bride price and she loved to marry or not.

Even before he got married, he was deliberately made things difficult, and his boyfriend didn't speak for himself. She also felt that it was not easy for his parents to save some money, suggesting that she was not sensible.

Xu Xia was indignant when her marriage broke down. She thinks she has a decent job. Although she doesn't earn much money, teaching is the best career for many people to choose a spouse.

In order to make her boyfriend regret it, she said to the outside world that if someone wants to marry her, it is best to get a bride price of 500 thousand, otherwise they will not marry.

After all, she said angry words, but what she said is like spilled water, which can't be taken back. She doesn't know that many people are waiting to see her jokes.

After that, she kissed many times. When the blind date man knew that she was a woman who wanted a bride price of 500,000 yuan, he either found an excuse to slip away or laughed at her for not being worth 500,000 yuan, saying that her family wanted to make a fortune through the bride price.

A bolder man will bargain with her directly, as if she were an object, and then decide whether to lose or not by seeing how much she is worth.

One of them is a divorced man in the tea business. He said he could give her a bride price of 500 thousand, and then he invited her to dinner several times.

Xu Xia summed up the blind date experience in these years. When a man has money and no money, she can watch 7788. The tea man in front of him is rich, but stingy, spending all his money on the cutting edge.

It is said that she can be given a bride price of 500 thousand, but there is a premise that she should get a marriage certificate first, which looks more like talking about business.

The tea man's approach is more direct and unobtrusive, but she has a little affection and is a more understanding person. She doesn't have to beat around the bush and get along well.

When she was going to marry, the tea man said that his business was losing money and he didn't have that much spare money. He paid100000 bride price first, and then paid the rest when he had money.

Xu Xia was awakened by a basin of cold water again. The man was unwilling to give a bride price of 500,000 in the end. Without money, his business can grow, his connections and skills are extraordinary, and he has the ability to deal with problems, so money will not be an unsolvable problem, so it is just a question of whether he is willing or not.

This routine is very common. When she talks about money with men, men bargain. Either I have no money now, or I have to wait until I get married, or I have no money when I buy a house. ...

These are just excuses and can't be taken seriously. An unfulfilled promise is a bad check, and there is no possibility of cashing it.

Seeing her disapproval, the tea man quickly cut off contact with her, saying that she was really ashamed to be a little girl because she didn't look at her age.

Xu Xia lost confidence after several failures. She wanted a high bride price before, but it was just to annoy her ex-boyfriend and let him see if she could marry a man who was willing to give a bride price.

However, she has no confidence now, and even doubts whether it is a mistake to ask for a bride price. Why is no man willing to marry her?

After the blind date, she lowered the conditions again and again, but the questions asked by men became more and more realistic. Some men will politely ask, and some men will directly embarrass her and ask her if she can have children.

Whenever this time, she wants to go up and slap a man to show disrespect. Such a man certainly has no reason to keep in touch.

Therefore, she is still not married, which makes her parents very anxious. In order to get her married as soon as possible, she had to tell the outside world that the family was willing to pay the down payment of the wedding room, not the bride price.

At this time, many people come to propose marriage every day, but all of them are crooked melons and cracked dates, and others left them. They are either poor at home or divorced with their ten-year-old children. No matter what bad habits they have, they will be exposed as long as they ask.

I'm tired, but I haven't chosen the right person yet. After all this, Xu Xia has some feelings. If I can find a good man in the most beautiful years, I won't waste my time at this age and be selected as an object by men. No one wants to post it myself.

Thinking about the past and the future, she made herself what she is today. Don't know people, don't know how to stop loss in time. I stayed with my ex-boyfriend for five years, but I didn't see clearly that he didn't love her.

In retaliation, she pushed herself into trouble again. Asking for a sky-high bride price does not prove that she is loved, but only proves how stupid she is. It's a pity that she didn't understand this truth at that time, and now it's too late to regret it.

When a woman wants a bride price, she is actually talking about money with a man.

With good feelings, men will take the initiative to talk to women about money. When a woman wants a bride price, she talks about not only money, but also attitude and cognition, which is a person's ability and method to solve problems when encountering things.

Bridal money is the first touchstone in front of marriage. Whether they are suitable or not and what problems they will encounter in the future can be seen in solving the bride price problem.

Men will give women the most direct reaction and result in solving the bride price problem, so women should be rational and look at it objectively.

So you can ask for bride price money, but it depends on the actual situation of the man. Don't talk big, but know how to negotiate and measure, otherwise men will see your own problems.