When is the best time to cultivate children's sense of humor?

The word sense of humor is familiar to everyone, but there may be many questions about how to cultivate children's sense of humor: what is a sense of humor? Can it be cultivated?

What is a sense of humor?

Humor is an important symbol of children's development.

Three minutes is destined for heaven, and seven minutes is cultivated. Children of different ages can get different jokes, which reflects the degree of their cognitive development. Psychologists can judge children's cognitive development level by observing what they see, hear and laugh.

In my opinion, a sense of humor is the ability to make yourself happy and bring joy to the people around you.

Singer Eason Chan said, I use humor to bring happiness.

On June 5438+0 1, a charity concert was held in Hong Kong, which was broadcast live on the Internet to cheer up the entertainment industry damaged by the epidemic with songs.

When singing "Long Live We"? Couples travel around the world, changing luggage in the sun and the moon? I forgot the words in the first half sentence. When he realized that he had sung wrong, he smiled shyly and looked at his funny and lovely appearance. A fan left a message: Thank you very much for making me happier.

Everyone who likes Eason Chan knows that he has a good sense of humor, which is simple? Happy manufacturing machine?

How did he get his sense of humor?

When he was first sent to study in England, he was actually a very clever little boy, even because he was afraid of going out to go to the toilet, he could hold it all night.

Before he went to England, he was afraid of blacks, so it happened that he shared a dormitory with a black man.

That day, Eason Chan wore a new shirt to dinner. Suddenly, the brothers at that table started a food fight, and French fries with tomato sauce were thrown at him.

He was very angry at that time and didn't know how to express his anger. His mind was full of fighting with others.

As a result, the boy made a small movement and he gave up the idea.

What did the boy do?

He raised his hand, pretended that there was a thread, tugged at the corners of his mouth, twitched, and everyone laughed. Then he couldn't type. Later, they often played and fought together.

Eason Chan said that he wouldn't have this sense of humor without this experience, which taught him a very important lesson.

Russian writer Chekhov said: People who don't know how to joke are hopeless. In real life, humor can dilute people's negative emotions, eliminate depression and pain, relieve tension and bring positive energy to themselves and others.

How to cultivate a sense of humor?

As a novice parent, you must know one thing: 0-6 years old is the golden period for children to develop a sense of humor.

1. Child psychology emphasizes that when the baby is still in the mother's womb, the brain has already begun to learn, remember and pay attention; Brain cells are ready before birth.

In a famous maternity hospital experiment, an one-hour-old baby imitated the actions of adults to open their mouths or stick out their tongues. What about when the baby sees it? A deadpan face? Sometimes, they will become restless, and the mother's indifference will also increase the level of pilocarpine, a stress hormone in some babies.

Therefore, parents in this period should always give their children smiling faces so that their babies can grow up without pressure.

1-2-year-old baby, just beginning to learn fine sports. At this time, parents can encourage their children to make progress through a sense of humor.

Babies aged 3 and above have acquired basic language organization skills and know how to express their ideas. Babies take daily inconsistencies as jokes. At this time, parents will give guidance, let the baby know the difference between humor and mischief, and can't base their happiness on the embarrassment and pain of others.

4-year-olds especially like it? Role playing? The most common game is playing house. At this time, when children enter the sensitive period of gender awareness, they will experience gender by assigning the roles of parents and begin to actually master some simple and easy-to-learn life skills. ?

5-6 years old is a special age group. From then on, babies are not only interested in their own lives, but also care about others and the world.

Scholars specializing in humor in western developmental psychology point out that humor is not a single ability, but a comprehensive embodiment of a series of cognitive abilities, which is related to intelligence, self-confidence, language, imagination, creativity and problem-solving ability.

Parents must pay attention to it!