Why did my girlfriend pawn the necklace her ex-boyfriend gave her?

As a good ex, the relationship must be sorted out.

How to be a good ex?

Don’t blame others. When two people break up, it’s not just one person’s fault. Even if they break up because of betrayal or something like that, the other person is also to blame, because love is always the fault of two people. matter. A good ex never blames all the fault of relationship failure on others. This is respect for each other and a reflection of good cultivation.

Don’t blame your ex endlessly after a breakup. This type of ex is everywhere. Whether they are lovers, lovers, or ambiguous, as long as they separate, they will blame the other party endlessly, such as not caring enough about themselves, such as not being good enough to themselves. Be careful and so on. But a well-educated ex will never be like this. If they break up, they will break up. Making accusations and so on is just to show off themselves.

Don’t devalue the person you once loved deeply. Even if you are separated, you will always be in love with each other. The person you once loved so much, the person you thought was the best in the world, was devalued by yourself as worthless after the breakup. This is really a joke. A good ex won't do this, because he understands that devaluing the person he once loved is devaluing himself.

He is a standard villain who does not flaunt his nobility everywhere. Regardless of men or women, this type of ex is everywhere. After separation, no matter where you are, you will show off how considerate, gentle, generous and excellent you are. In short, I am the best lover. The implication is: If you let down such a good me, who are you? A good ex won't be like this. You don't have to flaunt yourself whether you are excellent or not.

I don’t keep talking about my hurt. This is like Xianglin’s feeling. There is also a heavier selfishness in it, which is to constantly remind others that I am the weak one who has been hurt. The other party is a heinous and evil person. A good ex won't do this, because this kind of approach just makes others think that it is right to leave you.