Those sad, one day you can say with a smile.

Some time ago, I watched a speech program by Xú Zhēng, who talked about his bald experience. At the age of 20, he always dreamed of becoming an actor, and he began to lose his hair crazily in his sophomore year. He described his sad course with such a passage.

"Do you know the difference between baldness at the age of 20 and baldness at the age of 45?" If you start to go bald at the age of 45, others will think you are a gentle gentleman, but when you are bald at the age of 20, you are a sneaky little man. "

Therefore, in the ranks of actors, Xu zhēng was cautious at that time, which was a scar that he could not touch. She said that she still remembered when he accidentally hit the hair tonic on the table, and the classmate joked, "Do you think this table will grow hairy?" "No, just look at his head." The scar she carefully protected was torn open by violence at that moment. What kind of pain this should be. He also recalled that since he discovered his hair loss problem, he began to buy all kinds of hats and refused to go out even without a hat. He shared that once when he was waiting for a traffic light, a strong wind blew his hat off, and a young cyclist was frightened. He pretended to pick up his hat as if nothing had happened, but his inner self-esteem could no longer be picked up. Looking at Xu zhēng joking on the stage and talking about his own experience, I think he should put it down. Like telling jokes, you will laugh at those sorrows one day.

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? Yes, once those tears, silently hold back the sadness, one day you will tell them with a smile. And those people in life, there are always those people who laugh at you without scruple and mercilessly expose the scars you don't want to show. When you look gloomy, they will only say, "I'm kidding. Why are you so sad?" And I want to say that poking others' pain without scruple is the most uncultured embodiment.

? I once saw someone on the Zhihu list some rules for joking.

Don't make fun of people's beliefs.

(2) Don't make fun of other people's shortcomings.

Don't make fun of other people's taboos.

? When you are satisfied with your entertainment, please look at the person being teased. Is he really happy? When you laugh, do you think he will find you humorous? Some bottom lines should not be touched, really don't touch them. Xu zhēng, 45, can still clearly remember the ridicule of his classmates more than 20 years ago. It is conceivable that your reckless jokes will do great harm to a person.

And we, you should always believe that those words that hurt you will be said with a smile one day. Don't indulge in pain and sadness too much. They can make fun of you. To keep you from indulging in it Only when you grow up slowly, become stronger slowly, let go slowly and let go slowly will you have greater courage, stand on a higher stage and say those sad words with a smile. In those painful and sad days, we might as well take it as an exercise, slowly accumulate nutrients, and then bloom beautiful flowers in a sunny day in the future.

As Gu Cheng said, "The night gave me black eyes, but I used them to find light." I hope everyone who read this article can smile and tell the sadness of the past one day in the future, which is enough.