How to eliminate lewd thoughts

Human behavior includes body, mouth and mind, so we should also get rid of lewd thoughts from these three aspects:

The first thing is to live an honest and clean life. The sexual life between husband and wife should be temperate and there should be no other sexual relations.

Secondly, we should pay attention to language expression. Don't tell dirty jokes, dirty jokes, or anything that can make you have erotic thoughts with others. Some people just get excited after hearing these low-level obscene words, and gradually embark on the road of making mistakes and even committing crimes.

The hardest thing to get rid of is people's psychosexuality. Psychosexuality is produced by lust rooted in human consciousness (the first two behaviors are also produced by lust). Psychosexuality sometimes doesn't exist, it lives with the environment and dies with the environment. When it comes into being, people are often addicted to it and unable to extricate themselves and prevent themselves; No one knows when the elimination will end, so people with a clear conscience and weak people often indulge in it. Some people may have had shame and fear, but they are all fleeting. At the same time, some people think that I'm just thinking about it, and I haven't done anything or harmed anyone. What does it matter? It is easy for people to indulge themselves and not realize the harm of psychosexuality. In fact, psychosexuality is very harmful to people. If you often indulge yourself and don't resist it or eliminate it when you have psychosexuality, in the long run, psychosexuality will take root in your consciousness more and more deeply and will be expressed in obscene language on some occasions. Gradually, you will think that there is no harm in actually doing it, and you will gradually embark on the road of making mistakes and even committing crimes. Such examples are not uncommon. In fact, many people also know that psychosexuality is not good, but they are confident that they will control it well and will not make mistakes. They don't realize that psychosexuality is extremely corrosive to people's will.

Psychosexuality is also very harmful to human health. The classic of traditional Chinese medicine "Jing Yue Quan Shu" said: "The heart is the monarch fire, and the kidney is the phase fire. When the heart moves, the kidney will react. " It is said in the book "The Direct Sense of Tai Shang": "Because the essence of the human body is scattered in the triple energizer (referring to the heart and lung, spleen and stomach, liver and kidney, large intestine and bladder meridian), it is radiant, and the desire for fire, gathering and walking all come out from the life gate (attached to the kidney), which is extremely terrible." Psychosexuality leads to the leakage of essence, and in the long run, it will also lead to kidney deficiency, which is why some young people who are not married or have no sexual life will also have kidney deficiency. You should cut it bravely as soon as you think of it, without any hesitation or emotion; The so-called heaven and hell was decided at this time! If at this time, a little unclear, can not see through, can not firmly and resolutely stand firm; It will grow and spread in an instant, and it will drift into the ocean of psychosexuality unconsciously. This is really too dangerous! )

In the Ming Dynasty, the maintainer once said, "When a person sees beauty, he lusts after it, which makes him feel excited.". Sleeping in bed late at night, longing for the company of beautiful women, so the thought of lust is like fire, which is called inner desire. Anyone who is greedy for beauty, physically and mentally lingering, hurts the essence most, so it is easy to get sick. If you can stay away from lust, then the essence will not leak out, and the kidney water will naturally breed and give it to your heart. If you don't think about beauty, your heart will always be clear, that is, you can keep your heart from getting angry and go down to your kidneys. Fire and water can be adjusted, and all diseases of body and mind can be eliminated. This is called good physical and mental adjustment, and Huo Ran's disease can be cured without drugs. "

"Her life, malicious lingering, if see a woman, then can't self sustaining and adultery. In order to put an end to erotic thoughts, we should be careful at ordinary times, and don't get close to evil friends who play and chase debauchery all day. Don't follow people into restaurants, teahouses, dance halls, prostitutes and other attractive places. ┅┅ Because bad friends are close, good friends who keep integrity will become more and more alienated. But if you are often close to your bad friends, you will naturally be tempted by the dye and will eventually be moved by your bad friends. As for the evil that attracts people's thoughts, if you often enter, your mind will be hard to suppress, and you will eventually be unable to control it, and you will commit adultery and regret it when you wake up. "

It can be seen that the root of our lust, lust and all kinds of promiscuity is the lust that exists in our consciousness. Once erotic thoughts are generated, they will always exist in the depths of consciousness. When encountering different situations, it will show three forms: body, mouth and heart. Therefore, it is most important to eradicate evil thoughts in consciousness.

We should carefully check our behavior in daily life and get rid of this bad habit completely. Xunzi said, "A gentleman is knowledgeable and participates in Japan. (3) Self-help is clear, and inaction is nothing. " Even if you can't reflect on yourself three times a day, you should always reflect on yourself and check yourself from three aspects: body, mouth and heart. If the shoe fits, wear it. With such perseverance, the lust gradually fades away until it is eliminated. With the elimination of lust, all kinds of promiscuity will no longer happen, and other bad habits will be gradually eliminated, and finally return to the right path of being a man.

Hong Yingming said: When you are full, the taste is gone. After sex, you will feel obscene, so men and women will see everything. An old friend often repents afterwards and breaks his obsession with temporary things, so he is determined and acts without exception. Yes, the salty taste of the food disappeared after eating. Recalling the lust for sex, the impulse to the opposite sex is gone at all. Therefore, if people often use regret afterwards to break their previous obsession, then they can keep their mentality stable and their actions will not be irregular. I hope people don't put themselves under heavy mental shackles just to satisfy temporary desires! Many human mistakes are caused by the strong demand to satisfy desires. Eat food and sex, but people don't need it after they are satisfied. But the pursuit of spirit is infinite. It is not as sweet as material desires, but it smells far and clear.