How to educate your son to be obedient?

It is not easy to teach my son to obey. As parents, it is particularly important to try our best to make children better and better.

According to my years of educational experience, it can be generally divided into three ways.

The first thing is to move with emotion, understand with reason, influence the child with true feelings, make him obedient, and realize his own problems. But this often doesn't work, it will only make children feel bored, and the left ear goes in and the right ear goes out.

The second is scolding, using the power of language to deter children. This is effective, but the effect is limited. This is only temporary. After a long time, children don't care what you say.

Finally, it is to use violence to make children succumb to their authority. To tell the truth, I agreed with this point before, because some children are unreasonable and can't talk about him. Only by starting work and making him feel pain will he remember for a long time.

But to be honest, this is not a good way of education. Because he didn't really understand this truth, but because of violence, he temporarily hid his true thoughts.

To tell the truth, I'm not afraid of jokes. My son is fifteen years old this year. He may be disobedient during the rebellious period. Not only did he not study hard, but he also fell in love early. The most important thing is that I don't learn to play mobile phone seriously in class, and I also contradict the teacher, which makes me fight with my classmates the most exasperating thing. But when I think about it carefully, after all, I am my own flesh and blood. I can't beat him and don't want to scold him, so I have to reason with him. Children are also smarter, and it is not easy to know their parents' troubles, so I am also trying to change. Later, after some persuasion, the child also understood some truth and became better and better.

Therefore, it is a long-term and arduous task for parents to educate their children. There are still many things to do and many roads to go. Even if the child is disobedient during the rebellious period, parents should calm down and tell the child what to do and what not to do, instead of taking those extremely violent ways. Otherwise, it will only make children worse and worse, so there are still many things parents need to do.