The child's surname is "Gong", and the teacher is afraid to call his full name in class, but the students are chasing and shouting.

For many parents-to-be, one important thing they need to accomplish is to choose a name. In society, a name is a "business card". A nice and meaningful name can make children stand out from the crowd. Many stars will deliberately change their names after their debut, so that everyone can remember them.

But sometimes it's not a good thing to remember too easily. Why do you say that? What I want to talk about here is a child named Gong.

I have a friend who is a teacher at school. There is a child surnamed Gong in their class. Speaking of this surname, it is also relatively common. It should be easy to choose a name.

But the father of this classmate Gong doesn't think so. In order to make the child's name "literate", Bao Da specially chose the word "bow" in the Book of Songs Xiaoya: "Fu Gong Fu Qin, Fu Min Fu Xin".

He hopes that his children will do everything in the future, which is a good wish, but the bad thing is that his father's surname is Gong. Isn't this Gong and Gong together a "grandfather"?

Therefore, teachers in all subjects are afraid to call the children's names in class. Instead, the students in the class chase this "Gong" classmate all day and call him "Gonggong" every day, which makes the children cry several times and clamor to change their names.

when dad learned about this, he also regretted it. He thought it was too hasty to name the child at first, so he found a naming expert, Master Lin, who named the child "Gong Chuyu" according to birthdates. "Chu" was taken from the idiom Chuchu Extraordinary, and "Chongqing" was taken in combination with the lack of water in the five elements of the child. The combination of two words is much better than the original "Gong Gong". Master Lin's full name is Lin Zixiang. He has been working for more than 2 years and has a solid foundation in learning. He is good at naming babies, shops, companies and trademarks. He has always insisted on naming by hand. A good name will benefit people all his life. The master advocates that we should not follow the map, but should do one person and one skill, and decide the name idea according to the specific characteristics of each customer, so as to be as famous as the person.

In addition, Master Lin has three suggestions about naming children:

1. Parents must avoid "homophonic stalks" when naming their babies.

Many people like to use homophonic stalks. Homophonic stalks can really add fun to our lives, but what if this joy is exchanged for children's "pain"? Because of a "homophonic terrier", how many children have been ridiculed throughout their student lives, and even after entering the society, this ridicule will not decrease.

Parents should never think that this is a trivial matter. After the baby is 2 years old, self-awareness has awakened and self-esteem has begun.

Children don't have a strong heart like adults. They can't face such ridicule. Children who have been ridiculed for a long time can easily form inferiority and cowardice, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth. Therefore, parents must avoid homophonic stalks when naming their children, and pay attention to homophonic stalks in English as well as Chinese.

2. Parents should pay attention to "duplicate names" when choosing names except homophonic stalks.

Although there are more than 18, surnames in China, there are only more than 4 common surnames, some of which can even reach tens of millions.

the sixth national census shows that there are nearly 4 million people in the five major surnames, among which Li is as high as 95.3 million, accounting for 7.94% of the total population.

If parents' surnames are more common, then we should work hard on names, and we can start with ancient poems and get a meaningful and elegant name.

3. Parents should also be careful not to use "uncommon words" when choosing names.

Some parents choose their names too casually, while others are too serious. I look for "uncommon words" from ancient books that everyone doesn't know. Some parents even said that they didn't find this word when they registered their children's accounts. In the end, they could only write it on paper first, and then professionals would enter it into the system. Although everyone's cultural level has improved now, the text employment system has hardly changed, and such a name will bring a lot of troubles to children.

4. Finally, pay attention to the gender of the child when naming the child.

Some boys are called Xue and Xuan. Although they all mean beauty, they are inevitably teased by other children. Moreover, some girls' names are too masculine, which will also bring troubles to girls, especially when children grow up. Such too masculine names may also affect their mate selection.