Are two sons really unhappy?

Nowadays, the social concept of son preference is getting weaker and weaker, and more and more parents think that if they have a daughter, she will be lovely, gentle and considerate, and the happiest for their parents. It is often said that having a son is a day's joy and a lifetime's pain; It's hard to have a daughter, but it's fun for life. For a family with a son, it is extremely lucky to have a son on the first day, and after having a son, it is necessary to work hard to make money. And the family that gave birth to a daughter, although did not realize the dream of giving birth to a son, but the daughter spent less money and parents worried less in the future, it was really a happy rest of my life.

But whether we want to have a boy or a girl is not what we want. Look at those families where the first child is a boy and the second child is a boy. How do they feel? 1. Netizen Fish

I once thought about having a son, but my daughter-in-law finally gave birth to a big fat boy for me. The whole family is so happy. When my son was two years old, his wife got pregnant unexpectedly. I thought it was God's retribution to abort the child, so I stayed. I thought it would be nice to have a son and a daughter, but my daughter-in-law gave birth to another son. Since my wife gave birth to a son, I have been unhappy, thinking about how to support my two sons when they grow up and get married, which makes me feel great pressure and can only make money hard.

2. Netizens raise children

I was a son when I was born, and later I discussed with my husband and wanted to have another child. Whether it is a boy or a girl, the two children will not be too lonely in the future. When the second child was born, it was actually a boy. Although there is no one son and one daughter, I am also very happy to see the happy growth of my two sons. Many people will ask me if I want to prepare two houses and two bride price for my children when they grow up. Maybe I have a big heart and a different concept of parenting. I think it is more important to educate them from an early age, and I will do my best for them for the future. More importantly, let them harvest happiness through my own hands.

In fact, many families don't want to have two sons in their lives, which is unlucky. In fact, it is more important to train and educate them from an early age, rather than having two houses and two bride prices as others say. It is normal for many young people to buy a house and marry through their own efforts. It is more important to cultivate children's growth and give them more spiritual food, not just one-sided things such as buying a house and marrying a wife.