Why do most "poor" girls shrink back when they grow up?

I think a large part of the reason comes from inferiority, which is a very common phenomenon now, because inferiority eventually leads to self-distrust, and the family has great influence factors.

We often see on TV that a girl from a poor family finds herself out of place in the city and suddenly comes to a big city from a small place, which is a brand-new world for her. The most common plot of TV series is the experience of girls from rural areas who come to cities to find jobs. First of all, they are looked down upon by city people, which I think further aggravates their inner inferiority. Seeing that girls of her age are versatile in the city, but they can't do anything, because they don't have the conditions to learn these things at home, and seeing that all the students in the class have mobile phones, wear brand-name shoes and brand-name clothes, this comparison phenomenon is the most common in many schools, which will make those children with poor conditions feel more inferior.

Because of my inferiority complex, people who do many things have no confidence and think a lot. For example, do they feel that others are paying attention to themselves and are afraid of being laughed at? Because they are not confident, when they say that they will perform a program on duty, they actually want to participate, but they are afraid that the performance will be laughed at. When they see their confident peers, they are actually envious and want to be as versatile as them and be able to perform on the stage.

But in fact, this mentality can be overcome. You can't change the environment where you were born from childhood, and you can't change your life in the past ten years, but you can change the status quo and try to overcome your mentality. In reality, there are also many people with poor conditions who have changed themselves through their own efforts and lived the life they want. It is the most important thing to overcome your own mentality and strive to achieve your goals.