The words that hurt a man's self-esteem the most

The words that hurt a man's self-esteem the most

1, don't touch me Originally, my boyfriend wanted to express his love, but he met with a pot of cold water. He will be depressed, seriously depressed. Don't think that touching you is just to satisfy your sexual desire, because your boyfriend is not that vulgar.

Don't worry about me. Love you, so I care about you. A sentence that you don't care about me will break a man's heart.

3. The baby is not yours. Nothing hurts a man more than "the child is not yours". Men can tolerate you having an affair and strange strange bedfellows, but they can't tolerate wearing a green hat and helping others raise children. Such a thunderbolt will also be the power of atomic explosion for a good-natured man. If he keeps doing this, there is only one explanation, and he has completely denied you.

Being with you is a joke. Love is your choice together, and he doesn't force you to be together. If you think it was a mistake when you were together, and if you have decided to make a clean break with him, then don't expose a person's scar with jokes. Your vitriol will only arouse his anger. Maybe you don't care, because you have nothing to do in the future, but who can guarantee that you won't meet in any corner? To laugh at him is to deny everything, which is tantamount to a sharp dagger stabbing a man in the heart. If you can't tolerate him, he will worry about you with hatred.

5. You are nothing. "You are not a thing", yes, he is not a thing, because he is a person, a dignified person. If he is not a thing, then what are you? No matter how bad he is, you don't have to use words to clean him up. Naturally, there will be retribution ahead. Don't make a man angry, or he will hate you for life, and some extreme men will give you revenge. Save your heart-wrenching energy, you will plant a kind rose for yourself, otherwise, you will suffer this ruthless revenge at any time.

6. You are not a man. "You are not a man" is as full of extreme irony as "you are not a woman". Men are animals with strong self-esteem. Just because you call him a man doesn't mean others call you a hen who can't lay eggs! Whether he is a man or not, you know better than anyone. There is really no need to criticize your past and present so fiercely. If he is not a person, then what is he? Is it a woman? Then why were you together in the first place? Do you like women? Many times, when you scold others, you are actually cursing yourself. Let others hear, will only attract other people's jokes. The joke is that you are blind and find a man who is not a man. As the saying goes, forgive others and forgive others. Why can't you hear such things as "you are not a good person"? No matter how deep the injury is, remember the previous love.

7. Look at XXX, you are far behind him. A simple sentence can hurt a man's self-esteem, and it is even more inappropriate to describe a boyfriend with this sentence. Remember, others never belong to you, only your boyfriend belongs to you, so cherish your boyfriend.

8. Your mother is not human. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plays a vital role in marriage. If you can serve your mother-in-law or prospective mother-in-law well and please her, then your marriage will be smoother. If your relationship with your mother-in-law is not handled well, then a loving couple will not last long. Therefore, you must be careful to speak ill of your mother-in-law in front of your husband, and you can't say it casually. "Your mother is not human" is extremely lethal, but it plays a great role in men's hearts. Men love their parents very much. After all, the wife can find another one after divorce, but she can't find it without her parents.

9. People have many backgrounds. What do you have? In today's materialistic world, women's demands for materials are getting higher and higher, and it is difficult to resist the temptation of external materials. "People have many backgrounds. What do you have? " It's really hard for a woman to say this. Perhaps, she is attracted by another man with unexpected background and money, but she can't say so herself. Although a man may have no money and no background, it doesn't mean he has nothing. Maybe he has sincere love and feelings for you. You have no right to ask him what he has. Before you question him, ask yourself what you have. You can pursue what you want, but please don't hurt a man's self-esteem, or he will hate you for life.

10, he and I are just ordinary friends, so you are so narrow-minded. Did your boyfriend give up many opportunities to chat with other members of the opposite sex for you? You know, the relationship between men and women is upgraded from ordinary friends. If you simply indulge in the feeling of being spoiled by men, it is really a kind of harm to your boyfriend.

1 1, I choose you, it's really a flower on cow dung. It is a great insult for a woman to say to a man that "flowers are inserted in cow dung" You can think of yourself as a flower, but must it be cow dung? Now flowers are not inserted in cow dung, but nutrients are absorbed from cow dung. Many female friends tend to be arrogant. I always feel that falling in love with my boyfriend has wronged me, but for men, it is a high point. True love can't be disliked, no matter how ugly or poor, if you really love each other, how can you not like it? You are disgusting. It only proves that he is just your transition period. When you find something better, you will dump him without hesitation.

The words that hurt men the most

The words that hurt men the most

There is a saying that "you can eat indiscriminately, but you can't talk nonsense". It's wrong. Just take some medicine. Sometimes the damage caused by one sentence is lifelong. Losing love or breaking up marriage means endless pain not only to women but also to men. Maybe under the cover of their strong appearance, we can't see the broken heart. Some women will say some ugly words in order to break up or divorce with men, just to break their hearts and achieve the purpose of breaking up or divorce. However, remember, get together and part, and if you say it, it will be irreparable for a lifetime and will make men hate it for a lifetime.

1. People have many backgrounds. What do you have?

In today's materialistic world, women's demands for materials are getting higher and higher, and it is difficult to resist the temptation of external materials. "People have many backgrounds. What do you have? " It's really hard for a woman to say this.

Perhaps, she is attracted by another man with unexpected background and money, but she can't say so herself. Although a man may have no money and no background, it doesn't mean he has nothing. Maybe he has sincere love and feelings for you. You have no right to ask him what he has. Before you question him, ask yourself what you have.

You can pursue what you want, but please don't hurt a man's self-esteem, or he will hate you for life.

2. I chose you. It's really a flower on cow dung.

It is a great insult for a woman to say to a man that "flowers are inserted in cow dung" You can think of yourself as a flower, but must it be cow dung? Now flowers are not inserted in cow dung, but nutrients are absorbed from cow dung.

Many female friends tend to be arrogant. I always feel that falling in love with my boyfriend has wronged me, but for men, it is a high point. True love can't be disliked, no matter how ugly or poor, if you really love each other, how can you not like it? You are disgusting. It only proves that he is just your transition period. When you find something better, you will dump him without hesitation.

3. You are not a man

"You are not a man" is as full of extreme irony as "you are not a woman". Men are animals with strong self-esteem. Just because you call him a man doesn't mean others call you a hen who can't lay eggs! Whether he is a man or not, you know better than anyone. There is really no need to criticize your past and present so fiercely.

If he is not a person, then what is he? Is it a woman? Then why were you together in the first place? Do you like women? Many times, when you scold others, you are actually cursing yourself. Let others hear, will only attract other people's jokes. The joke is that you are blind and find a man who is not a man. As the saying goes, forgive others and forgive others. Why can't you hear such things as "you are not a good person"? No matter how deep the injury is, remember the previous love.

4. Your mother is not human

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plays a vital role in marriage. If you can serve your mother-in-law or prospective mother-in-law well and please her, then your marriage will be smoother. If your relationship with your mother-in-law is not handled well, then a loving couple will not last long. Therefore, you must be careful to speak ill of your mother-in-law in front of your husband, and you can't say it casually.

"Your mother is not human" is extremely lethal, but it plays a great role in men's hearts. Men love their parents very much. After all, the wife can find another one after divorce, but she can't find it without her parents.

5. You are not a thing

"You are not a thing", yes, he is not a thing, because he is a person, a dignified person. If he is not a thing, then what are you? No matter how bad he is, you don't have to use words to clean him up. Naturally, there will be retribution ahead.

Don't make a man angry, or he will hate you for life, and some extreme men will give you revenge. Save your heart-wrenching energy, you will plant a kind rose for yourself, otherwise, you will suffer this ruthless revenge at any time.

Being with you is a joke.

Love is your choice together, and he doesn't force you to be together. If you think it was a mistake when you were together, and if you have decided to make a clean break with him, then don't expose a person's scar with jokes. Your vitriol will only arouse his anger. Maybe you don't care, because you have nothing to do in the future, but who can guarantee that you won't meet in any corner?

To laugh at him is to deny everything, which is tantamount to a sharp dagger stabbing a man in the heart. If you can't tolerate him, he will worry about you with hatred.

7. The baby is not yours

Nothing hurts a man more than "the child is not yours". Men can tolerate you having an affair and strange strange bedfellows, but they can't tolerate wearing a green hat and helping others raise children. Such a thunderbolt will also be the power of atomic explosion for a good-natured man. If he keeps doing this, there is only one explanation, and he has completely denied you.

If it hurts men especially,

1, I hate you, stay away from me. If you hate it, why are you still together? Love is a process of mutual tolerance. Don't love if you can't do it. People you don't hate may not be willing to get close to you! )

2, I use you to control me! He doesn't love you. Why should he care? Why does he care about you and nobody else? )

I won't talk to you again. Do you know why it works? Because he loves you! How can you be so cruel, like threatening a child? If you don't listen, throw away his beloved candy and make him afraid. )

4. The baby is not yours. The biggest harm to men is that the child is not you. Men can tolerate you having an affair and strange strange bedfellows, but they can't tolerate wearing a green hat and helping others raise children. Such a thunderbolt will also be the power of atomic explosion for a good-natured man. If he keeps doing this, there is only one explanation, and he has completely denied you. )

I don't need you. Yes, no one needs anyone, but because he loves you, it's as simple as that, and he can take care of you comprehensively. Call him when you need him. Is he your slave? ! )

I only have one friend of the opposite sex. Don't be so narrow-minded Sadly, both male and female friends are born from ordinary friends, and when you associate with a friend of the opposite sex, he may not treat you as a married woman or even tell him that you have a husband, right? Are you just intoxicated by the feeling of being spoiled by several men? Did you get a look at him? Your husband treats you, not to mention chatting with women, and it is impossible to even look at women. Is it because women are narrow-minded that men must be generous and deserve to be cuckolded? )

7. You are no better than anyone. Yes, he is him, not necessarily the best, but he must love you the most! But what does this have to do with you? )

8. Don't touch me. He won't touch you. Who do you want to touch you? He touched you not to show off, nor to show off, nor to satisfy his own desires. He just came to show his love for you. To put it bluntly, the hair salon is not necessarily worse than you, and there is no need to care about and coax for tens of dollars. Don't look at people in vulgar ways. )

9. May I use you? Yes, you may not really need him for a while, but it's easy for him to do it for you, because he loves you! If you do this to him, it will be too late when you want to use him! )

The words that hurt my girlfriend the most

1, can you leave me alone? I'm tired of it. Don't call or write again! Will you let her help you lighten the burden when she is your girlfriend?

If you don't answer my phone, I will break up with you. If you don't reply to the message, I will break up with you. What would you do? "Wait ..." I broke up with you (if you said break up, you wouldn't say so if you loved her. Are you threatening her with a breakup? Girls are fragile! Especially in front of the person you love most, do you think she is strong? Such words hurt their hearts most easily. )

My things are not yours (meaning you want to tell her that you have nothing to do with her. )

4. If you are hungry, go shopping and eat by yourself! She will think that you are inconsiderate and don't love her. )

I don't want to argue with you at all. You forced me. Have you ever thought about how your girlfriend feels? Are you the only one who doesn't want to argue with her? )

6. Why don't you talk when you quarrel? Waste my time! If you are on the phone, why don't you talk? Are you arguing with me? Not happy, are you? Please, I won't call if you don't respond. Are you deliberately wasting my phone bill? My girlfriend doesn't talk because her heart is already in pain and she can't speak at all. Are you going to keep stabbing her in the heart? So she will choose silence, let you vent and let you scold, because she thinks it can at least reduce the quarrel. )

7. Where to go is none of my business. I don't need to report it. I don't mind. Have you ever worried about her? Are you nervous about her? What is none of your business? If it's none of your business, then she's not your girlfriend? )

I won't trust you anymore (shouldn't there be trust between lovers? )

9. Why do we work so hard together (a woman will think that you say that being with her makes you work hard! )

10 Why are you so dark? Why are your legs so black and so big? I do not like it! Look how white XXX's legs are. They are really good at maintaining them. Look at how beautiful they are ... (girlfriends will think that you only look at appearance and like to watch other girls praise other girls. They will try their best to dress them up beautifully, just to make you praise them and like them as well. Therefore, even if they are not beautiful or white, they must finally add: "But I still love you". Please don't say they don't like it. )

1 1, my business is none of your business (is that man his girlfriend? )

12, I won't use what you bought me, don't take it, even if you give it to me, I won't move (don't you know your girlfriend's heart? )

13, look what you did to me! Let's go None of my business! Do whatever you want! I don't care! How can you not trust him? Do you really care about her? Why do you want to wronged her? )

14, are you fighting in the wild? Silly woman! Bitch! How can you scold your girlfriend for being so outrageous? Do you really think she is your girlfriend? )

Take a bus or taxi by yourself! (even if you don't have a car, you have to go for a ride with your girlfriend, right? Your perfunctory words can easily make your girlfriend misunderstand that you don't care about her. Don't worry about her safety. )

16, you can't help me at all, you will only increase my burden, and you will make me feel a lot of pressure (you will make her feel unworthy to be your girlfriend, she will feel inferior and sad, and she just wants you to tell her your troubles and let her share them with you. )

17, you women all like to be rich (what do you think she is? Do you think she is such a person? )

18, divide it if you want, whatever (it's so easy to break up, do you love your girlfriend or not? )

19, you are the most annoying and longest-lasting girlfriend I have ever seen. My former girlfriend is not as annoying as you. I want to tell you that I am safe to go home. Do you think I'm young? They are so angry because they are worried that you are nervous and that you love you. Please don't compare them with your ex-girlfriend, not to mention that your ex-girlfriend is better than them. Because one day, when they stop asking if you are at home? Are you full? They don't love you anymore, and they don't worry about you being nervous about you. )

I will never forgive you (what's the point of being together? )