Do you still have to kowtow to get married now?

the ancestral system has been changed. At the wedding scene in my hometown now, the bride and groom don't have to kneel down and kowtow to their elders. This ceremony was changed to both the bride and groom offering tea to their parents.

As soon as the young couple served tea to their parents, the title of "uncle or aunt makes a hundred mothers" became "mom and dad". At this time, they will receive four red envelopes from their parents, commonly known as "changing their mouths". The amount of each red envelope is generally not less than 1 yuan. As for the other elders in the family, or in-laws in the family, they are all exempted.

This reform stems from the improvement of living standards and the acceleration of life festivals. Most people do not hold weddings at home, but choose hotels in urban areas, and parents of both men and women hold wedding banquets for their children together. The ostentation and extravagance of Gao Da Shang had to get rid of some stereotypes and bad habits, and at the same time saved the time of three days of newlyweds.

In the early 198s, kowtowing and bowing to parents at the wedding ceremony was not only a measure for the bride and groom to express their gratitude, but in fact, to a great extent, it was a slap in the face for the young couple to be sensible and filial, and not to get carried away. At that time, don't talk about red envelopes! It is not a man who goes to a woman's house to be a door-to-door son-in-law. Weddings are held in the man's house. You must worship heaven and earth, ancestors, parents, and then husband and wife. After the young couple kowtowed, they were not served tea for three times, so no one answered the tea. Moreover, when serving tea, you should learn to hold people or guests and tell some silly jokes. Not to mention the bridal chamber. I can't help it. It doesn't matter if I get married for three days.

well, social civilization has taken a big step. Fashion, fashion and reasonable service are the theme of the wedding.

In this good background, without vulgar culture, the bride and groom need not kneel down, but they must have a grateful heart. It was your parents who gave you a warm home! You should cherish him!