When you face the people who love to show off in life, which is better?

A person who shows off his knowledge or knowledge is a person who has neither knowledge nor knowledge? This is Hemingway's evaluation of people who love to show off.

Indeed, in real life, we will always meet some people who love to show off. They are used to showing their uniqueness to show their superiority. But as long as you know more about it, you will know that most of the ostentation is just a paper tiger.

If you don't get along with such people, you will inevitably fall into the strange circle of envy and comparison, let people and things that have nothing to do with you interfere with your heart, and even quarrel or even disagree with the people you love the most, and your fate will change accordingly.

Go in one ear and out the other. Don't take it personally.

People who love to show off are mostly mediocre in ability and financial resources. The reason why they try their best to show off their skills in front of everyone is just vanity.

In the workplace, some people, as long as they make some achievements, publicize how they can stand on various occasions, just like telling stories, making the whole process thrilling and fascinating. Give people a kind of? Performing? Hallucinations. Over time, everyone is familiar with this routine, which is normal and used to it.

Jane is the driver of the unit, only in her thirties, and has been driving for five or six years. Just because I am a contract worker, my salary has never kept up. Compared with other people who drive for the first place, he always feels that he has lost all his face.

So, patchwork, and others started a tea company, he is responsible for running the business, and other partners are responsible for grasping production. After a few years, I finally became famous.

Jane also began to cry roast meat. Wherever he went, as long as one end of the tea was served, he began to talk endlessly about how good his tea was and how bad it was now.

Everyone knows that Jane's tea has a certain market, mostly because of the face of the top leader and buying a little. And the real market, even online sales, sales are extremely limited.

In addition to mirth to answer Jane, no one is too lazy to talk about tea. Over time, Jane also felt boring, and only when she met an outsider could she not help talking a lot.

In the face of people who love to show off, never be tit for tat and get to the bottom of it. If you take it seriously, you are adding to your troubles. People's various rhetoric is dizzying. Pretend to listen, and when he finished, it blew away like a gust of wind, leaving no trace.

Be honest with each other and help once.

Some people love to show off because their horizons are not wide enough, but they really think they are the best at present.

A Ying remembers that the most precious thing when she was a child was the white shoes used for the Children's Day performance. They must have been washed, and she usually doesn't want to take them out to wear.

In order to keep white as new, A Ying will wash and dry her shoes carefully after each shoe shine. In order to make the shoes white, she also used the method taught by her classmates, that is, painted white chalk on the vamp.

Ying feels that every time she draws white chalk, her shoes are brand new. Once, she couldn't help putting this? Secret? Told cousin Xiuqun. After hearing this, Xiuqun thanked Ying seriously, but told her that she needed a bottle of bleach to make those old yellow shoes look brand-new. Soon after, Xiuqun bought a bottle of bleach for Aying with her pocket money.

Ingrid realized how ignorant she used to be. But I can't blame her. After all, even the washing powder at home is cost-effective, and there is no extra money to buy bleach.

From then on, Ingrid never showed off casually, because she knew that the world in her eyes was just a small world. The only way out of this small circle is to study hard.

She is very grateful to her cousin Xiuqun. Xiuqun's parents were both employees at that time, with good family conditions and many extracurricular books. As a result, A Ying often ignores shyness, regards Xiuqun's home as a library, and borrows and returns books every week. Xiuqun is always ready to help her.

Many years later, when Ying recalled this past, she was always filled with emotion. Poverty limits one's imagination. Fortunately, she met a cousin who really cherished herself and spared no effort to help her go further and further on her way to school, which made her successful. Now she can stand in the provincial capital.

In fact, those who love to show off expect sincere help from others from the bottom of their hearts. However, more people just regard them as a joke and have nothing but ridicule. And if you lend a helping hand when the other party needs it most, even if you really listen to their voices, you will gain a true feeling and keep it in your heart.

Always be vigilant to prevent yourself from becoming one of them? Show off? People.

Lao Tzu said:? It's useless to kill yourself, and it's not long to cry roast meat. ? When we are always looking at others, our minds are extremely clear. Always look at yourself? Just on this mountain? , not very clear.

Look at the people around you. Everyone seems to show off, which reflects your heart. Don't you want to show off?

After the divorce, A Honghua spent a long time chatting with colleagues and friends, especially how other people's husbands care about their wives, love their children and take care of their families. It seems that people tell it to themselves on purpose to remind them again and again that they are losers in marriage and don't even have a home.

Later, Ah Hong gradually came out of the shadows and met a man who really loved him. She found that what everyone said was that the husband cared about his wife's various performances, not melodramatic or ostentatious, but true, just like the boyfriend who took good care of himself at present. This kind of joy naturally wants to tell others.

However, Hong couldn't say anything. After all, loving and not being loved is a very personal matter. Once she announces her love in a high-profile way, if the ending of love is breaking up, she is not sure how to bear it.

Just because I was injured once, I taught Ah Hong, just know what I know, there is no need to show off, let people envy and make fun of me.

In the face of people who love to show off, be more tolerant and less complaining, and treat them correctly with a compassionate heart.

Don't make fun of it and don't complain. Everyone has his own way of living, and always ask his own heart. Just don't let yourself become that annoying appearance!