Where is the joke?

The purpose of a joke is to "play". Don't go too far. If making a joke makes people feel ridiculed and "teased", it will be too much, or it will cause contradictions and losses.

When acquaintances get along, it is inevitable to make some jokes, which can harmonize relations, enliven the atmosphere and enhance unity. However, everything should be measured and jokes should be appropriate. If you go too far and do something impolite, the effect will be counterproductive.

1, just kidding about the time.

When others encounter misfortunes and troubles in life, they feel depressed and often need comfort and help. If you tease and laugh at this time, it is not appropriate. If not, people will think you are gloating. Even the same person will have different emotions at different times. For example: work is not smooth, being criticized by leaders, family conflicts, and so on, the mood will be low. At this time, joking is not appropriate.

2, joking depends on the object.

People have different personalities, some are lively and cheerful, some are silent, some are open-minded and generous, and some are cautious and suspicious. People with different personalities should be treated differently. The same joke can be played on some people, but not on others. If we don't pay attention to everyone's characteristics and tolerance, it will hurt others' self-esteem and affect their feelings.