The prejudice of the human heart is a mountain.

Text/Su Ziyou

20 19 saw an animated film "Nezha". I can't remember the plot of the movie, but one of Shen's lines was impressive. "Prejudice in people's hearts is like a mountain. No matter how hard you try, there is nothing you can do. "

The prejudice of the human heart is a mountain.

In fact, prejudice is pervasive. From individuals to countries, we just live in prejudice.

Some people say, can you escape?

There is a line in the movie Dong Fangbubai starring Jet Li and Brigitte Lin: "I want to quit the Jianghu and never ask the Jianghu again." Ren Woxing: "Where there are people in this world, there are grievances. Where there are grievances, there are rivers and lakes. People are Jianghu. How did you quit? "

Social psychology believes that prejudice is an unfair and unreasonable negative attitude towards a certain person or group. It is people's negative understanding and attitude towards people and things that are divorced from objective facts. In most cases, prejudice is an attitude towards members of certain social groups only based on membership, and it is often an incorrect negative or hostile attitude.

When I was 8 years old, I moved to Jiangsu from a mountain corner on the border of southern Jiangxi. At that time, the family conditions were not good, my father worked outside all the year round, and my mother worked at home. My brother and I are both studying, and my mother works hard inside and outside. My mother has a strong hometown accent. People in the village often laugh at our two brothers and call us "little scorpions"

Mother comforted us, no matter what others think of us, we should not look down on ourselves, we should study hard and go out.

Prejudice will change with the passage of time and personal changes.

Now, my brother and I have found jobs and got married. Nobody calls us "Kuazi" to our face. We can't change others' views on ourselves, but we can change ourselves to go further and fly higher.

In life, we are more or less biased towards certain things. When we see beautiful things, we naturally love them, while when we treat ugly things, we always take it for granted from our own perspective, and so should others.

If a person lives in a depressed space for a long time, he will be prejudiced against positive and noisy things; If a person has been living in an environment of saving money without spending money, he will be disgusted with spending money indiscriminately and become addicted to money. If a person is neat in morality or life, it is easy to ask people in reality to meet his standards.

Laozi said in the Tao Te Ching: "Everyone in the world knows that beauty is beauty and evil does something; Everyone knows that good is good and bad is bad. " Things are always interdependent. Only by jumping out of the absolute concepts of good and bad, beauty and ugliness can we look at the world comprehensively.

There is no empathy in this world. Don't persuade others to be good, don't suffer others. We just do what we think is right within our own cognitive range.

Our prejudice against one thing is actually an obsession, thinking that it is right and should be so. We are so paranoid about ourselves, but we don't know that everything is like a flower in the mirror. To let go of prejudice is actually to let go of ourselves and face the changing world with a tolerant and compassionate attitude.

Prosperity or adversity, normal heart, no sadness or joy, every day is good.

Qi Wei class, No.9 in 22 years, 1040 words, a total of 20680 words.