Why are there so many unmarried single young ladies after 8?

Self-awareness is unclear, emotional intelligence is low, and there are wrong views on love and marriage.

1. I think marriage is a choice, not a necessity, but this premise is that even if I can choose a good partner, I will choose to be single; Even if I can have children, I will choose Dink, which is my choice.

But many people describe me as "unwilling to make do" and "unwilling to compromise". I think this is a forced compromise. It is not a voluntary choice, but a forced choice.

I don't think, forced = choice.

2. I believe that people who really think clearly and choose not to get married are a minority, definitely not a majority, and they choose voluntarily, not forced to choose the rest.

For women, I hold the view that

anyone who wants to marry can marry, which is nothing more than a matter of dissatisfaction.

only men can't get married, and no woman can't get married.

3. Some people may say that they are "delayed by love rat" and "unwilling to settle" for singles. I will treat this part as a cognitive problem. As long as a girl wants to get married and can't get married, it is a cognitive problem, which is definitely not a condition.

She thinks she is a 7-point girl in the marriage and love market, but in the eyes of her target group, she may only get 4 points.

The difference in scores among them should be understood by those who are willing to understand it.

To emphasize my point again, the problem of older women, as long as they want to get married and can't get married, is all a cognitive problem, not a condition problem.

No matter how bad the conditions are, you can get married. If you don't believe me, look around you. Are those who are not as good as you married?