What should a blind date talk about?

? 1. What should I say on a date? A man and a woman are strangers; Dressed up in disguise, black and pink appear; If you are smart, say what you want, and rest if you want; It is a blind date, not a play, but even the most basic sincerity is a child's play; If one party secretly loves the other and the other party has no feelings at all, it is called a game; If you don't like each other, there is no chance; Get married on the same day at once. It must be a model play set by the gods 500 years ago. Since it is a play, there is no joke. It is true that the success of blind date often depends on other aspects, such as proper collocation, pleasing to the eye, the wordiness of the matchmaker and so on. But who can completely deny that a seemingly insignificant person can also capture each other by the charm of language and humorous expression? Second, show humor moderately. Zhao Benshan said to Song Dandan, I'll tell you a joke, and then I'll open the awkward situation. Appropriate jokes and humor are always a good weapon to open an embarrassing situation. Blind date is a drama, even if it doesn't necessarily have an ending, at least it should be as enjoyable as possible. It should be a comedy rather than a boring drama. But humor is easier said than done. How to grasp the scale is the biggest problem. It is not good to turn it into lip service. For example, Fion A met such a blind date and tried to show humor in front of her, but the result was cold. Fiona asked, where do you work? He said, how do you know my uncle is tall? Fiona said: I like men with taste. He said, oh, I haven't bathed for days. You can smell it. Fiona was so angry that she wanted to leave directly. When the other party talks to you seriously, this self-righteous humorous answer will make the other party feel insincere. Third, boldly evaluate most of each other's blind date plans. Before meeting, they have mastered the basic information of each other, such as education, what job, what personality, family composition and so on. When you meet a conscientious parent or matchmaker, even a few warts on the other person's face are counted from the photo. Therefore, the most important purpose of blind date is to see whether it is pleasing to the eye. The standard of pleasing to the eye seems simple, but it is mysterious and unpredictable. Fortunately, men and women have the most basic curiosity. What does this blind date think of himself, whether it is love at first sight or not? So you should make use of each other's curiosity and speak your comments boldly and to the point at the first time. This is much more nutritious than a lengthy self-introduction and not knowing the so-called topic. It not only looks natural and graceful, but also expresses your sincerity, which can attract the great attention of the other party at the first time. If she is really beautiful, you can say: Nice to meet you, you are beautiful. Remember to be sincere. If she looks average, there is no need to lead her to the United States. You can evaluate her temperament or dress or something. 4. Ruthless self-mockery When dating, some people are used to holding themselves to the clouds in the sky, talking about how capable they are and how many people pursue them, thinking that this will attract each other, but I don't know that this is a sign of guilty conscience. Once the discerning eye sees through it, the taste of falling from the clouds to the bottom of the valley can be unpleasant. A truly confident person is good at self-mockery, and President Lincoln will make fun of himself, especially his appearance: sometimes I feel that I am an ugly person. The ugly man met an old woman in the forest, and the old woman said, you are the ugliest person I have ever seen. The ugly man replied, no way. The old woman replied, no, you have an idea. At least you can stay at home! It's not your fault that you are ugly today, it's your fault to scare people. This is a joke used by President Lincoln to open the embarrassing situation of talking with people, and it is almost invincible. Boasting often makes the other person feel so much, while self-mockery makes the other person feel less bad. This sensory difference can determine the other party's scoring standard for you. On the other hand, people who are good at self-mockery often have strong self-confidence, which will certainly be shown in your measured self-mockery and will also be felt by the other party. In addition, it doesn't hurt to start from yourself, even if you don't have a good proper limit, you can make the other person's attention more naturally on you. 5. What specific and boring personal information to talk about should be clearly understood before the two meet. When dating, you don't have to struggle like an interview. At this time, you should show your personality characteristics, hobbies, what you have seen and heard. In short, you should act like a real person. 1, tell some interesting things about work, which can show that you love your job. 2. Travel experience If you have places that you have all been to and similar experiences, it is naturally the most appropriate topic. The latest movie always looks a bit like gossip, but it is undoubtedly much better to say the latest movie. 4. Hometown People who love their hometown always give people a feeling of reliability, stability and affection. 5. Look forward to your life. Talk about your most desirable life state and paint a future for each other that you will work hard for. 6, personal 3, the latest movie gossip always seems a bit girly, but the latest movie is undoubtedly much better. 4. Hometown People who love their hometown always give people a feeling of reliability, stability and affection. 5. Look forward to your life. Talk about your most desirable life state and paint a future for each other that you will work hard for. 6, personal interests can understand each other's interests when dating, this is a very important topic for the future, but also easy to cause laughter. Pay attention to grasp the scale. 7. Childhood anecdotes Whose childhood has no anecdotes? Speaking out will not affect your glorious image, but also make people think you are kind and lovely. 8. Although there is no baby yet, Xiu En 'ai is all-encompassing. Or you can emphasize your original intention of not having children. 9, love pets can see a person's personality from a person's pet. 10, the interest in life is to live together for a long time in the future. What can we talk about if we don't talk about this?