Appreciate education and let every child bathe in the sunshine

In the early morning of January 1, 2020, I received the first blessing of the New Year from Wang Xing, a student who graduated last year. In addition to blessings, he also told me good news about my recent progress in study. I really Be happy for him. I was also surprised to be the first to receive blessings from this child. In my first impression, he was a very shy boy. I usually study very diligently, but I can't ask questions when I study hard. I just write blindly if I don't know how to do it, and I never raise my hand to speak, so my grades are average. He usually talks very little and doesn't play much with his classmates. Occasionally, the teacher will ask him questions. If he can't answer, he will immediately lie on the table and cry. For this reason, most teachers don't dare to ask him more questions!

At that time, I was really worried about his psychological problems, so I usually paid more attention to him, took the initiative to talk to him, and asked him about his life and study. I learned that he was the only child in the family, but his parents both worked in nearby factories. They prepared three simple meals for him in advance every day. He left before he woke up in the morning and didn't come back until evening, so he spent the whole day at home. He was almost alone at night. I found that in addition to lacking the company and communication of his family, he also lacked self-confidence. At first, he only gave polite and simple answers to some of my questions. I also wrote a few more words of encouragement for him in his homework every time. It took a long time for him to start greeting me.

One weekend, he took the initiative to add me on WeChat, saying that this was his WeChat account for reading and communicating in the reading group. However, he did not dare to read in the group because he was worried that his classmates would laugh at him if he could not read well, so he was cautious. He asked me if he could read it to me alone, and I readily agreed! Reading this matter, my classmates counted it every day, but I never heard his voice. I also talked to him and his parents many times, but his mother always thought that this child was stupid and had a stubborn temper, and they didn't There’s a way!

This time the child took the initiative to ask for reading, which should be the beginning of his transformation. So, it became our agreement that he would read to me alone every day and I would leave messages to correct his mistakes. I know that it doesn't matter how well he reads at this moment. The important thing is to help him build up his self-confidence, so I will tell him every day that he has improved today compared to yesterday! Occasionally, he would send me pictures of the chores he did after finishing his homework. I remember one time it snowed, and he cleaned up the snow in the entire courtyard, and then told me that this was his surprise for his parents today. , I found that this child had a fiery heart under his cold appearance. I left him a message, "You are such a capable and filial child, the teacher praises you!" Later he wrote this matter in his composition, Because it was an expression of true feelings, the essay was well received by the whole class, and he became more confident.

One day, he confidently told me that he would study in the class reading group in the future. I quickly replied to him: "Teacher is really happy for you. I believe you will read better in the group and will definitely become a role model for everyone!" In the days to come, his reading continued uninterrupted. He also began to be active in various class activities, and his mother also quietly told me that she found that her child had become more optimistic and cheerful... On the eve of graduation, he sent a simple sentence: Thank you teacher for your encouragement, which made me feel that I have nothing to do. So stupid, I will continue to work hard, please rest assured, teacher!

As a teacher, I have only done a small part of what I should do. I am just unwilling to give up any child and give each child more appreciation and attention. But it is so precious to children.

Teacher Yu Yi once said: "A good teacher must be able to enter the living world and spiritual world of students. Education must not be condescending. It must be 'looking at others'." In fact, , every child is a seed that needs careful watering by sunshine, rain and dew. Need to moisten things silently and infiltrate the soul. As an educator, we must treat every child with appreciation, focus on details, pay attention to individual differences, meet different needs, and let every child bathe in the sunshine and grow up healthily!