Is it a joke that girls joke about chasing girls?

Of course. What would you do if it were you? If your boyfriend keeps breaking up with you, you may be ready to break up, which is not the most important thing. The point is, as long as you have such psychological preparation, the relationship between the two will be separated.

I think there are some remedies, such as communicating well and telling him that you broke up because you didn't want to lose him, hoping to get his approval. If you really have any dissatisfaction with each other, you should think clearly and express it concretely, not in a word. The meaning of breaking up is too vague and easy to hurt feelings.

In the martial arts novels, have you ever heard of a master who fights with others with his best skill as the first move, unless Xiao Li knows that he is unparalleled in kung fu, so as to save trouble quickly? So do people. Breaking up is the last resort, not always on the lips, but at a critical moment. Just like "I love you" can't be said casually.

In short, if everyone can understand that feelings are for caring, then there is no nonsense. You are immature. If your boyfriend is mature enough, that's fine, but it's unlikely. Therefore, you should pay more attention to your words and deeds.