People around us generally feel that their physical condition is not as good as when they gave birth to a second child. Why?

Giving birth to a baby in October is not only a physical burden for women, but also a great challenge to women's physical strength and energy after giving birth to a baby. Therefore, many treasure mothers obviously feel that their physical condition is not as good as before after having a second child.

I believe many people have heard of "one year in the baby's brain for three years". The "stupidity" here is actually a summary of the great physical and psychological changes after giving birth to the baby, especially for the second child.

Why is the physical condition after giving birth to the second child worse than that after giving birth to the first child? I think there are several main reasons:

Once again, the body is hollowed out, leading to weakness and lack of qi and blood. Having a baby is like robbery. Science shows that giving birth to a baby will make you look older than your peers, and when giving birth to a second baby, you will be worse than the first one in both age and physical condition.

If the body is hollowed out again, it will lead to Ma Bao's weakness and lack of qi and blood. If she doesn't pay attention to conditioning, her health will be worse than before.

Therefore, after giving birth to a second child, we should pay more attention to physical conditioning to avoid poor physical condition caused by physical weakness, which will be more serious when we get old.

I didn't pay attention to confinement when I gave birth to my second child. It is said that the first baby is raised by books and the second baby is raised by pigs. In fact, the first confinement is more concerned and more sad. When the second baby was born, I felt a little experienced and obviously didn't care about confinement.

When I gave birth to Dabao in the second month, everything was very careful, especially listening to my mother. I was a little self-righteous when I gave birth to my second child, and I didn't even stop playing with my mobile phone for a whole month. So, after the second month, my eyes have been growing "sty".

Health is the capital of revolution. If you want to love your baby and family better, you must love yourself and take care of your body.

Raising two babies is obviously lacking in energy. After you have no time to take care of your second child, the whole family will be more anxious, and taking care of two children will be exhausted. As a treasure mother, I can't find time to take care of myself.

After giving birth to the second child, even if Ma Bao has an exercise plan, I'm afraid it can only be an empty plan, because it is difficult for the two babies to have their own time. Being trapped at home to take care of children every day, whether it is energy or physical strength, will be obviously insufficient.

When I returned to work after giving birth to my second child, a colleague once said that my color didn't get better after giving birth to Dabao. I think the eyes of the masses are discerning. After the second child, it has been 5 1 kg, which is five or six kilograms lighter than the first child. This can also explain this problem.

Those who dare to have a second child are great, selfless and respectable people. May the years be gentle, and may every husband be kind to his wife, because her husband's love also determines her appearance. Besides, women should take good care of themselves and love themselves, because only in good health can they love their children, their families and the world better!

I am a 90-year-old nanny with two children. I look forward to walking with you on the road of parenting. Welcome to @ Gone with the Wind.

I wrote an article about having no money to have a second child. The protagonist in the article is 36 years old, not old among mothers with a second child. Many people are surprised. Isn't 36 old enough?

The 36-year-old is definitely an older woman, but among the mothers who are still struggling for a second child in their forties, she is really young. It is important to decide whether to have a second child according to their own situation. Giving birth is not shopping. If you don't want it, you can return it. Children have no choice. If parents choose them, they will be responsible for their lives.

Before elderly women choose whether to have a second child, I think there are several issues that must be considered and agreed with their families:

1, is the body allowed? Elderly women's functional degradation, pregnancy preparation and pregnancy need a long-term process. In this process, we must maintain a healthy physique. After giving birth to a child, we must also ensure that we have enough energy to support the child. The elderly second-born mother around her, in the state of being unable to sleep for a while every day, is a lot of irritability and collapse, which can be seen in the circle of friends and can only be hugged.

2. Are economic conditions allowed? Needless to say, don't say that the second child has nothing to do with money unless you are a local tyrant.

3. Do you bring it yourself, the elderly or the nanny? A very realistic problem is that once a child is born, eating, drinking and sleeping are inseparable from the care of adults.

4. Do you have a husband who loves you and understands you? The most important thing is that you won't be relaxed without the support of your husband and second child.

I am also a mother with a second child, and I feel that my health is really worse with a second child. I think there are three reasons:

One is the age problem. Ma Bao is generally less than 30 years old, and some children are even less than 25 years old. She is young and healthy, and has no or even few pregnancy reactions, so Ma Bao generally feels relaxed. In the second-child era, because the policy was only released in the past two years, the second-child mothers are generally 30+ years old, and some even have a second child at the age of 35+40+. As an elderly woman, I naturally feel heavy and exhausted.

The second is to take care of Dabao. When pregnant with Dabao, Ma Bao only needs to take care of himself. Because this is the first time, the elders and husbands at home will do their best to take care of Ma Bao, so Ma Bao just needs to eat, drink and sleep well. In the second child era, Ma Bao still needs to devote a lot of energy to take care of Dabao. Many paunchy Ma Bao has to take Dabao to and from school and go to the hospital for a physical examination, which is even more difficult.

The third is the concept of family. When I was pregnant for the first time, the whole family was expecting it, so I would pay special attention. By the second child, everyone is used to it, thinking that pregnant women are the second time. With experience, they pay less attention to it. Some families also pay less attention to women with a second child because of their preference for boys.

This is a false proposition.

I gave birth to a second child at the age of 38, and I am 39 this year.

After giving birth, I feel particularly young. I feel that I am in my twenties and very happy.

My sister, with her child by her side, looked distressed and said that I was too tired. I really don't think so: a little angel loves me completely, trusts me and depends on me! Extreme happiness! Give it to me10 billion, and I won't change it!

Many people spend money to raise children, thinking that they can take good care of them. If so, the rich will always have money and high-quality offspring? But usually three generations are not rich!

My parents are poor. They have six children. Now we are as good as everyone else. Four bosses, a graduate student from a prestigious university in Imperial Capital, and a brother died at the age of 24. It's good for the old father to visit his children's home every year. On the contrary, YINGYING ZHANG's parents had only one excellent child, and they lost their only child.

The mortality rate of China people before the age of 55 is 1/8, so roughly speaking, the probability of losing their only child is1/830 million families, and 60 million parents who have lost their parents are helpless in their later years.

To tell the truth, even if I am a nanny, I will not take care of the elderly who have lost their independence, because the atmosphere is depressing unless the value given is really high. I believe many people will choose this way. Besides, they are basically only children. Where can there be so many children as nannies? There are 30 million widowed family nannies and 30 million normal family nannies. There are no such young people at all!

It is better to spend money on raising children than to raise children with your heart. People who raise a child well can also raise a group well, because there are more methods and more experience.

Having a second child now is a bit like shopping. At work or at home, one or two colleagues or relatives gave birth to a second child, and others began to stir.

It is not good to follow suit. Everyone's physical quality and comprehensive strength are different. Having a second child should not be a temporary idea, but should be considered comprehensively.

Judging from the age of parents, parents who are too old are not suitable for having a second child, because when the second child grows up, it needs a lot of help from parents. They go from primary school to university, and their parents of the same age as grandparents have no experience to take care of their children's various life and learning needs. Then at this time, it is to increase the burden of the boss at home. He doesn't know how to live and study by himself, and he has to take care of his brother or sister.

Even if the parents are of the right age, it depends on the mother's physical condition. After giving birth, the body will definitely lose money. If you give birth to a second child before recovery, it is difficult for your body to make up for it, because giving birth to a child is not only a financial investment, but more importantly, an increase in mental burden and psychological pressure.

Raising children is not like raising puppies. As the saying goes, it takes ten years to plant trees and a hundred years to cultivate people.

Friends who want to have a second child should really be considerate, and don't affect the quality of life of the whole family in the later period because of a temporary impulse.

Time is a butcher's knife, really no joke.

Once the policy is liberalized, too many people will have a second child. My daughter is seven years old this year. Of the 57 students in her class, at least half have brothers and sisters. If you say that your physical condition is not as good as that of a child, you should feel that you have lived once and are not too particular. Plus two children are really hard, so sometimes your body will be overwhelmed. I think it's better to have a second child early if you can, and bring up the child unconsciously when you are young, but if you are old, you will definitely feel very tired and exhausted.

Building your own little human is a systematic project. The first is the self-correction behavior of your personal environmental problems.

The physical condition of both sides is one of them, and they never say that they are too busy to exercise.

Both sides should improve their bad habits, such as smoking, staying up late surfing the Internet, getting drunk and so on.

The stress in the heart is also one of the crowd problems now. The third is that couples who want to have children now feel older and older, and then they don't pay attention to maintaining their health after giving birth. It is conceivable that the baby's physical quality can be comparable to your first child because of your various reasons?

Therefore, if you want to have a healthy baby, you should consider all the problems before making a great baby plan, and there will be a healthy baby waiting for you.

Let go of the second child to regenerate this group of people, most of whom are slightly older! I was 27 when I had a boss at home, and I am 34 this year! Obviously, I feel physically inferior to my boss! There are many sisters who are pregnant together, which is worse than physical strength! Having a second child around the age of 30 is almost physical. The biggest headache is to watch the boss study, manage the second child to eat and drink Lazar, and it is better to take the boss himself physically!

Happy dad thinks this is not absolute, but in most cases, the physical condition of the second child is not as good as that of the first child. Why my mother's physical condition will get worse is actually obvious.

Personally, the mothers who gave birth to the second child are mostly older pregnant women, with an average age of 30, which is no longer the golden age for giving birth to the first child. Even some time ago, Happy Dad answered the question of whether a mother over 45 should have a second child. When I am old, my natural constitution is not as good as before. You used to fly on a full stomach, but now you can only walk slowly. Although I reacted a little before, I am still young.

From the family situation, even if she is pregnant, Dabao still needs to take care of her, and as a mother, she has to take care of her boss's emotions carefully. If Dabao is ill, it will be even harder. In the long run, his physical condition will naturally be worse than before.

Of course, sometimes because of the experience of my first child, I can face morning sickness, prenatal education and common problems more soberly and calmly. Generally speaking, it is better to have a second child than to have a child.