I'm getting a divorce. Is it appropriate to go to my husband's house to pull clothes and quilt on the second day of the Lunar New Year?

From your description, I feel that your husband-wife relationship has existed in name only. Since he is heartless to you, why do you think this is inappropriate?

In fact, in this world, only oneself and parents are really good to themselves. Personally, it is most important to be kind to yourself and your parents. It was two months ago that your husband and wife had emotional problems. Since it has been delayed until now, it is better to put it down and have a comfortable year with my parents. You chose to go back to your husband's house to pull things on the second day of the Lunar New Year, which not only embarrassed your husband's family, but also made your parents feel extremely depressed. Why not wait until years later to deal with things between you!

Of course, this is just my personal opinion.