What topic should I find to chat with my ex after breaking up?

Start the chat and end the communication between you in a few words. If you have nothing to say to each other at first, don't hold it back.

Even if you reply for a long time, it doesn't matter. Don't force chat to continue your topic, because under normal circumstances, the other party keeps your information, and you chat very little. TA won't delete you. However, if you send something to the other party repeatedly, the other party will undoubtedly delete you.

Second, don't chat quietly. When you re-add the other person as a friend, this is a signal that TA is willing to give you a chance to reconnect.

However, if you have the mentality of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, it will seriously reduce your charm index. Confident people are the most attractive. If you put yourself in a low-key angle to talk about feelings with each other, it is easy to become a spare tire. Just put yourself in the position of a normal person, don't look up to each other and don't look down on each other, just communicate in the language of normal people and don't talk about feelings.

Third, don't over-interpret. Many female friends often make this mistake when saving money. Once they add each other's WeChat and what kind of information the other party sends, she will think about whether it is related to herself.

For example, I made a particularly sad remark. Does it mean that my ex has me in her heart? They will over-interpret it. In fact, when you two break up, you should treat each other as someone who has nothing to do with you. What he did and said was probably not personal.