What are the topics of blind date WeChat chat?

What are the topics of WeChat chat on blind date? Blind date is the first time that two people who have never been masked meet, so if a boy can't chat, he is still easy to be passed by by. What are the topics of chatting with blind date WeChat?

Blind date WeChat chat topic:

1. Talk to each other

Everyone's focus is on themselves, guiding each other to share and show themselves through open-ended questions. For example, you can say, "Hey, what do you like to eat?" The other party will generally reply to several hobbies, and then extend them through the information points replied by the other party. If the other person has the same hobby as you, so much the better. If you find a common topic, you don't have to worry about dating silence.

In fact, there is a very important skill in chatting, that is, grasping the key words in each other's words, because this is the key point for you to chat smoothly and quickly close the relationship. Many brothers didn't know this at all, including me before, of course, but later I happened to see "Jiang Han Lian Bi Shu" on the Internet, from which I learned a lot about picking up girls and divorcing, especially the technology of chatting, which was really an eye-opener. It turns out that I don't have no topic, but I won't continue to expand the topic. To put it bluntly, I just don't understand technology. Later, I practiced carefully according to the book. It is basically no accident that my sister who talked for two days can be taken home by me smoothly, let alone how cool it is. Although I'm not picking up girls now and I'm married, all single brothers should go and see it. Jiang Han's love affair is complete, and there is an electronic version online. After knowing the technology, I won't be so confused as I am now.

Talk about yourself

It is necessary to show yourself properly. Of course, it is forbidden to brag and show off yourself. People who pretend to have X-eyes can tell at a glance. If you are a gentleman and a warm man with enterprising spirit, then the possibility of your subsequent development is very high.

The best way to show yourself is to tell a story, implant details, values and pictures in the story, and arouse the emotional fluctuation of the other party through telling the story. For example, when talking about food, you can tell girls about what you learned to cook. The time, place, dish name and so on should be accurate, so that telling stories can leave a deep impression on girls.

3. Find a topic from the surrounding environment

If you think your topic is dry, you can start with what you can see around you. For example, if you see an advertisement or an endorsement star outside the window, you can talk to girls about this advertisement or star; For example, if you see beggars passing by, you can talk to girls about beggars and the like.

4. Talk about traveling or sightseeing.

Everyone is eager for a trip when they leave. They can talk to girls about where they want to travel, what interesting things are there on the road, and where they plan to travel in the future, so that they can not only show their broad horizons to each other, but also inadvertently reflect their hobbies and tastes.

Appropriate self-mockery

Humorous chat, the topic will naturally not be heavy and depressed. Self-mockery is the highest level of humor. When many boys meet blind date, they usually brag about their own advantages, how successful their career is and how vast the world they have seen, which will only arouse the resentment of blind date.

We might as well laugh at our shortcomings appropriately. For example, when you are chatting in silence, you can laugh at yourself and say, "I'm so straight, I don't know what to say when I'm nervous", so that the other person will think you are humorous and willing to continue dating you.

Of course, if all the topics are used up during the blind date chat, you can also use keywords to extend them. Every time we say a word, we will provide important keywords, such as a simple "it's a nice day", and the weather is the key word of this sentence. As long as we talk about this "weather", we can construct many topics to chat with each other and naturally avoid heavy and depressing topics.

What are the topics of WeChat chat on blind date? There is also the need to know that chatting is a process of interaction between the two parties. You should not only grasp the key words of the other party to construct a dialogue, but also know how to throw your own key words to the other party so that the other party can answer when replying.

For example:

Woman: "It's a beautiful day today".

Man: "Yes, the rain the other day made me depressed. Maybe God heard that we were dating today, so it cleared up on purpose. "

Woman: "Haha, you are really good at talking and knowing God's mind."

Man: "Because I slept last night, it gave me a dream that I would meet a lady with temperament today."