If your parents often fight and you cry suppressedly, your parents will ignore you and scold you for being crazy. They will say to you: You are so crazy? what would your reaction be

First, keep a cool head.

Many times, some people will feel particularly irritable when they see their parents quarreling, so they vent their irritability to their parents. At this time, things will become more serious. The parents' quarrel has not been resolved, and he has added some conflicts, making the whole situation very embarrassing.

So, if we want to continue to maintain this family, as children, we first need to calm down our minds, and then have the ability to analyze this matter and resolve this conflict. We should not Vent your emotions casually, but don't care about anything.

Second, we must learn to protect ourselves wisely.

Many times, the trigger of quarrels between parents is not some big thing, but some very small and trivial things. As a child, if you see that the quarrel between them is not very intense, there is no need to intervene in management. Let them figure it out on their own, because couples will inevitably have arguments and they will have their own solutions. The children can quietly watch the development of the matter from the side. In many cases, the parents only quarrel occasionally, and it will be fine after an hour or two.

Third, divert attention.

In life, many parents choose to have a cold war after quarreling. The atmosphere in the whole family will become particularly strange. While eating, everyone was silent, even watching TV, there was no communication. I believe many people would be devastated in this situation. Therefore, this requires diverting their attention, and you can mention some other things to get them to start chatting actively.

This way you can get rid of a very embarrassing situation at home. Of course, if there are some lively and optimistic people, you can tell a joke or give both of them a step up so that they can both save their own face and be willing to reconcile.

Fourth, don’t take sides.

Many times, as children, we don’t know much about things between parents, and we don’t know how to deal with them. When they are quarreling very seriously, it is recommended not to interrupt casually or to favor one party. If you don't understand the development of this matter, you will unintentionally become an accomplice, and you may even get yourself into trouble. For your own sake and for the sake of the stability of this family, don't gravitate to one side casually, but maintain a neutral attitude.