I want to get rid of my bad temper.

1. It's urgent. Speak slowly. In case of emergency, if you can calm down and think, and then make things clear in a leisurely manner, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you. Small things, said humorously. In particular, some kind reminders, told in a joke, will not make the listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.

3. If you are not sure, say it cautiously. For those things that you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it in strict terms, people will feel that you are a trustworthy person.

4. Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen. People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, people will think that you are mature, cultivated and conscientious.

5. Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do. As the saying goes, "Without Jin Gangzuan, don't do porcelain work". If you don't easily promise what you can't do, you will make the listener feel that you are a person who "keeps your word and does what you do" and is willing to believe you.

6. Don't talk about things that hurt people. It is not easy to hurt others with words, especially among people who are close to each other. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

7. Don't tell sad things to everyone. When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to people, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed and doubt and alienate you. At the same time, you will give the impression that you don't think of others and want to pass on the pain to others.

8. Speak carefully about other people's affairs. Everyone needs a safe distance, and not commenting and spreading other people's affairs easily will give people a sense of security in communication.

9. Do your own thing and listen to what others say. Listen to the opinions of outsiders more about your own affairs, one can give people a modest impression; Second, people will think that you are a reasonable person.

1. Listen more and talk less about respecting your elders. Older people often don't like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they will think that you are not a respectful, modest and studious person.

11. Talk about the husband and wife. Between husband and wife, the most fearful thing is to blame each other when encountering things, and discussing with each other will have the effect of "* * *", which can enhance the feelings of husband and wife.

12. Tell me about the children. Adolescent children, in particular, are very rebellious. Adopting a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them can not only make children have a good impression on you, but also make them willing to be friends with you, and can also play a persuasive role.