Nanjing man was temporarily raised by his mother-in-law. What is the attitude of the bride?

The bride is very calm at the moment, and treats the dispute in front of her with coldness, just watching, saying nothing and counting money. It seems that there is a fierce conflict in front of us, which has nothing to do with yourself.

This happened in Nanjing, Jiangsu.

Recently, a groom in Nanjing was maliciously harassed by his mother-in-law and turned against him on the spot. The reason is that the mother-in-law suspected that the man gave less money and asked the new son-in-law to raise the price on the spot. He won't let his daughter go out without extra money. Prior to this, the woman had received 800,000 bride price money from the man. Wedding date, does the woman follow the custom? Bridal fee? The man took out a red envelope of 18000 yuan, but the mother-in-law thought that the man was stingy and didn't give his daughter enough face to go out. No matter how the matchmaker and many relatives persuaded her, her mother-in-law demanded that the money must be increased according to her wishes. It seems that if the man doesn't agree, the marriage can't go on.

Everyone is noisy and watching her mother-in-law's performance. The bride, one of the most important parties, is quite indifferent to the farce in front of her, saying nothing and counting money with her head down. This attitude is really hard to understand.

According to the truth, 18000 yuan red envelopes are already quite a lot. Since we agree to this marriage, the daughter will be in-laws after marriage, and the son-in-law will be half a son, which means a family. Doing so on the big day will attract the ridicule of relatives and friends, and will also make the son-in-law feel cold. I only think about money. Is this marrying my daughter? What's the difference between this and trading? The mother-in-law is so arrogant, not to win face for the woman, but to lose face and the face of the whole family, so that her daughter will look down on the man's family in the future.

The bride's performance is more exciting. If she loves her husband, her mother will make things difficult for her lover. Although the palm of your hand is covered with meat, it can't stop her, and she will cry in despair. Look at this bride. She is still in the mood to count money. What do you mean? Do you think your mother's attitude is correct, or do you not want to get married? Interestingly, this kind of family is rare.

Marrying a daughter and asking the man for a bride price is a bad habit handed down from feudal society in China. With the development of society, it has disappeared in some cities. However, some areas still exist. It is believed that the more bride price, the more face the woman has. Regardless of the actual situation, asking for a bride price is unbearable for some men and they have to cancel the wedding. This kind of thing happens all the time.

Of course, it is difficult to change people's old ideas at once, and it is not realistic to cancel the bride price money. But if you marry your daughter sincerely, everything should be considered from the perspective of her happiness, and asking for a bride price should also be measured according to the man's family conditions. For example, this Nanjing mother-in-law gave a bride price of 800,000 yuan before, and later gave it to 18000. Is it interesting to raise the price on the spot? Is this still called marrying a daughter?

If you do this, you will definitely be accused by netizens. Even if the man is forced to give enough money, the bride's performance at the wedding is likely to be looked down upon by the man's family, and the husband's family will also attract various discussions.

This is not a reasonable mother-in-law, who only recognizes money but not people.