24-year-old female college students' marriage requirements: bride price of 300,000 yuan, garage with my name. Will you get married?

As a witness to the establishment of the marriage relationship between the two parties, it is normal for men and women to exchange bride price and dowry before marriage. However, in today's society, the development of the times has not made many girls become independent, and even many girls like to talk big before marriage, hoping to let boys prove their love and sincerity with unrealistic requirements.

In fact, love and marriage should keep the most primitive and simple meaning. After all, it's priceless, and it's rare to have a lover. It is not easy to meet someone who makes you feel comfortable emotionally, but many people don't understand this truth. They think that life will be better after a rich bride price before marriage, and they only pay attention to immediate interests. I don't know that life won't get worse as long as you put your heart into it.

When he was young, Li Qi talked about a girlfriend in the south. When I am on vacation, he will tell me how nice, gentle and considerate she is. He likes this girl and believes that the other person loves him. There is no impurity in love during reading, and it will only be willing to be good to each other, leaving no room.

The other party is a student, and if he reaches out for money from his parents, he will be ashamed to buy things for the other party. In order to meet the needs of his girlfriend, Li Qi works part-time in all his spare time at school.

From lipstick to water emulsion, he is responsible for all the expenses when two people are together. In Li Qi's view, it is a kind of happiness for him to try his best to make the person he likes live a relaxed and happy life whenever possible.

He threw himself into it, hoping to go to the end with each other. He fantasized about their future more than once. In order to reassure his girlfriend, he studied hard and worked hard.

He doesn't want to talk only about the future. In the four years of college, Li Qi has always been the best in the school. From the monitor to the remedial class, the relationship with his girlfriend is also very stable and enviable.

From sophomore to senior, from summer to winter, he showed his love in front of me again and again, and even told me that he must take her home after graduation.

It's just that when I came home in senior three, there was no one around me.

He thought that if he paid enough sincerity, he could get it back. He thinks that as long as two people work together, they will get better in the future. However, he did not expect that more than a thousand days of love and sincerity would be worthless in front of money.

At the end of graduation, they sat together and talked about where to work in the future. Li Qi felt that his hometown was developing well in all aspects, including economy and entertainment, so he asked the other party if he would like to go home with him.

At that time, the girl promised very well that she would be there wherever he was. However, just after Li Qi told his parents, the girl clearly told him that it would take 300,000 bride price and his name on the RV to go home and get married with him.

To tell the truth, Li Qi never wanted to let his girlfriend marry him with nothing, but he didn't want to put so much pressure on his parents after graduation.

He told his girlfriend that he hoped they would work hard for a while and then ask their parents to help them pay a down payment. As for the bride price of 300,000 yuan, it is indeed a bit much, because marriage costs money everywhere, and he doesn't want his parents to spend all their savings because of themselves, but he also hopes that his girlfriend can rest assured that he will give anything decent.

Who wants the other party to blow up as soon as you hear it, saying that a young girl like me is married to your home to give birth to your child and take care of your home, and you still bargain with me? You just don't love me! If you really love me, my name must be in the garage, or we will break up.

Perhaps the tone of the other party is too tough, and Li Qicai, who has already suffered tremendous pressure, hastily agreed to break up.

When he mentioned it to me, he had regrets on his face but no regrets. He said I would not hesitate to give her what I could, but I couldn't force my parents to do the same. There is no point in my parents coming. If I can't share weal and woe and walk side by side, it may still be that fate is not enough.

Up to now, too many couples have broken up because of the bride price. There are many things like "360,000 as a bride price, sorry, this marriage is too expensive for me to get married". Many girls think that I will marry you, give birth to your children, take care of your family, and I will be with you in the future. My parents raised me this big. What's wrong with you giving hundreds of thousands?

It is human nature to get married with a bride price, but we should do what we can. Some women take "you love me" as a bargaining chip and ask the man for a high price bride price, which is really excessive.

It's good to have two surnames when you get married. In marriage, women do pay much more than men, but children are not only men's, but also women's own. Marriage is not just a business where the man earns and the woman loses, so this is something that every woman should understand in marriage. After all, only by giving love and bread can two people be equal in marriage and live happily.

Love you and love yourself. Being able to share weal and woe is the most desirable marriage attitude of women, because only in this way can couples have children and will not make big emotional jokes because of the disharmony of the bride price before marriage.