What kind of woman is simple and generous?

Female refers to female human beings, as opposed to male human beings (that is, men). The word female is used to indicate biological gender division or cultural gender role, or both.

Women usually refer to women who are in transition from girls to the next period, as opposed to men. But women can sometimes be used to refer to all women. When a girl grows up, she becomes a so-called woman. But sometimes it is also used in spoken language to refer to young adult women.

What is a woman?

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There are two explanations about women: one is a woman and the other is a wife;

1, female: generally refers to adult female, female.

2. Lover: refers to the wife.

First of all, I can say in general: women evolved from girls. They shoulder the heavy responsibility of breeding the next generation (although men are indispensable, women have paid too much in this "play". )

Secondly, from the perspective. A woman who is a "good woman" is a real woman.

Once upon a time, the good women we talked about were virtuous, loyal, loyal, gentle, tenacious and generous.

You can't be ambitious (a woman without talent is virtue)

A good woman should listen to men in everything, and men's opinions should be her code of conduct. The greatest achievement of a good woman in life is to find a good home.

A good woman can wait for a changed husband to wake up.

A good woman should not have herself. You should stay indoors.

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With the changes of the times, we call for liberation. However, not everything in ancient times should not be used and inherited, and good things should be kept.

For example, a woman should be virtuous, chaste, gentle, tenacious and generous. Speaking of which, some people may laugh at me for being old-fashioned, but I still don't want to "keep my virginity". What time is it now? This is an era of sexual openness, and we still don't keep chastity. This is the confusion that all of us don't really understand what the two concepts of "sexual openness" and "sex" are.

"Sexual openness" is not random and chaotic sex. If so, from the perspective of interpersonal relationship, ethics will be confused. From a natural point of view, it will make us humans degenerate into the animal kingdom again.

"Sex" should be said to be a kind of physical exercise, a means of reproduction, and an unwise way to relieve the psychological pressure brought by physiological needs. Is the highest sublimation of love. If there is no love, why talk about sex?

But in the real world, there are many young people in love who live together before marriage and have children before marriage. In fact, it seems nothing, but young men and women, have you ever thought that our love really existed before living together and having sex? We didn't do it on a whim, did we? Can you promise anything for each other? Can you take responsibility? ...

Besides, women don't have to find a good home to be fine. More importantly, we should be able to create and maintain this beautiful home. This is the meaning of being a woman.

A good family is made up of men and women. A good family atmosphere is the basic condition of a good family. To be a good woman forever, you must know his heart.

I remember reading a book, which is very practical and can be said to be in a man's heart.

It says: The three gifts that men need most are:

1: A top hat. Send him a hat from time to time, praise him, praise him and worship him.

2. the eyes of faith, even if he does a very stupid thing, you still have to send such eyes.

3. Comfort of life, let him know that you share joys and sorrows with him, and you are the stability of his mind.

For example, if you spend a lot of money on a man's birthday, you might as well knit him a sweater.

When a man goes to work, a woman gives her clothes and tells him in a caring tone, be careful on the road, come back early from work, and then gently kiss each other's face. Make a cup of fragrant hot tea for your beloved after work. In the evening, the two embraced each other, exchanged life feelings and comforted each other's hearts. ……

Will someone not cherish such a family atmosphere?

In addition, I would like to advise ladies that men's hearts are also very fragile, and they actually need the coaxing of the woman they love more. -men need to be coaxed more.

Women are flesh and blood made of water, which has long been concluded, and I don't need to go into details. What I want to say is that water has various forms, just like colorful women in the world.

You are destined to fall in love with a woman made of water, and you can't escape.

The cutest woman

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The most pleasing thing is a woman like dew. Crystal clear and pure as morning dew, delicate and tiny as morning dew, which makes people worry that she will evaporate and melt. Qiong Yao likes to describe such a woman without a trace of fireworks. Therefore, it is not established.

The truth is that morning dew is always so fragile, and many women have had a short morning dew stage in their lives. At that time, she was pure and spotless. Until she grew up, some gray things in her life gradually precipitated and were no longer fresh in the past.

She was lucky to meet her when she was in the morning dew, usually our first love.

Some women are the sea, with the richest appearance and amorous feelings. She is boundless and changeable, and you can never catch the storm or tenderness in her chest. Her gentleness is surging, and her ferocity is unstoppable.

Falling in love with a woman like the sea is unpredictable. On the one hand, you may fall in love with eight women at the same time, and you are always fresh and enjoy it; On the other hand, you are fully prepared for the war, nervous and tired, ready to be shattered at any time.

No one can control the sea, you can only try to understand it. Moreover, generally speaking, it is her business to know the sea and then rise and fall with it.

Some women are icebergs. Leng Yan, arrogant, kept people away, and 99 people who met him had their heads cut off. The only exception is that it may melt ice. Once the iceberg melted, the dam collapsed and the Seventh Army was flooded. That kind of enthusiasm and momentum may be a disaster, and you will die together.

Most women are a glass of warm water. When we are hungry, thirsty and sick, nothing can comfort us more than a glass of warm water. Most suitable for ordinary people's stomachs. However, when you are alive and kicking, who will miss a cup of bland warm water?

My favorite form of water is waterfall.

When the waterfall is not a waterfall, it is just a stream in the mountain stream, clear, cheerful and comfortable. When she met a key area with a big gap, she suddenly jumped and flew down. At that time, in addition to her true colors and freshness, she also had a magnificent momentum, which was both rigid and flexible and beautiful. Later, after the glory of flying beads and splashing jade, the waterfall turned into a pool of clear water, exquisite and unfathomable.

The beauty of the waterfall will last a lifetime.

A waterfall woman must be surrounded by men who are not bad. In fact, every man will have traces left by the woman he has been with for a long time, from personality to living habits.

If you have heard the story of water dripping on a stone, you will know the tenacity and softness of water. The power of water is far beyond ordinary people's imagination. The so-called good woman is a school, so is the bad woman. As long as you love a woman like water, you will eventually be shaped by water, more or less.

Ten characteristics of women

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First, treating parents and elders is the same as loving them, regardless of thickness. They won't punish the elderly for their interests. They know how to make old people feel valued and make them happy. They should try to explain their unreasonable demands. Even if you fail, you can't fly into a rage. Old people, like children, sometimes get angry. It takes a process to educate children, and it takes time and methods to communicate with them. Try to go home for the New Year.

Second, the kind temperament from the inside out, like a warm spring breeze, is kind to people and things around you, not hysterical, not pursuing, not asking questions, not crying or hanging; If you don't hurt others, you won't deliberately show off and compare with others. Leave room for others at any time. Don't make fun of others endlessly, but you still find it humorous. In fact, there are virtuous gentlemen who are strict with themselves and lenient with others, and the same is true for women. Moreover, women have more contact with women, and unintentional jokes may bury the curse in the future, so be kind to others from the heart and ensure that you can advance and retreat at any time.

Third, clean women's looks are innate, and there is little chance of change unless they have plastic surgery. However, a woman's cleanliness can definitely add a lot of color to her ordinary appearance. Bright eyes and clean fingers, neat hair and decent clothes can be pleasing to the eye, make her eyes bright, including her own living environment and the articles she uses, and keep them clean at any time, showing good education and skilled handling ability.

Fourth, no matter what level of education, we should study properly. On the premise of not affecting one's identity and role, one should constantly improve one's connotation, reading books, listening to music, watching news, learning foreign languages, using computers and driving cars. Don't let yourself become antique or outdated clothes. New knowledge is one of the main sources of inner temperament.

Five, at least have the ability to live. Whether to be a full-time wife or not is not the key. The key is to be able to guarantee your own survival at any time. When something goes wrong, you can share weal and woe with your lover and be a virtuous wife and career assistant. Or family structure changes, don't let your quality of life plummet, don't squander money, don't be shabby without money, have your own hobbies and pursuits spiritually, and have your own income and contacts economically. Of course, this does not hinder the ability and loyalty of trusting your lover.

6. Smart women don't ask men about their income and whereabouts. You can observe or wait. If he wants to lie, you can give him a chance to correct it. If you lie again and again, you should consider whether the quality of your feelings will pass. His loyalty is related to a woman's charm and moral character. Except for a few idiots, most people are willing to share their happiness and difficulties with their women. His whereabouts are in his eyes, you can know his income if you want to know it, otherwise it's no use asking. Trust him, but also ask yourself to be worthy of his dependence.

Seven, simple without too many calculations and means, in fact, there is no trick to win. Which man wants his wife at home to be an electronic polygraph with more knowledge than sex? As long as he is serious and sincere, he will feel it for the good of his family and for the good of each other. In Infernal Affairs, Carina Lau said: Actually, I am a simple woman. I hope my man is good. Therefore, women's confusion is more lovely than false intelligence. A simple fool is a safe haven at home.

8. Restrain your irritability and emotions, and restrain the degree of reflection on gossip. Everything can be done quietly in private, there is no need to make a big noise. Even if something out of control happens, you should be calm and cry, but you should not be unkempt. At the same time, we should restrain the frequency and intensity of our anger, that is, what makes each other angry, and treat them differently according to their nature and severity. Negotiate calmly, persuade gentle drizzle, cook and wash clothes for each other at a cold station, and don't force him to sleep on the sofa. Just ignore him, let him reflect and give him a chance to see what will happen in the future.

Nine, craft women should have several good dishes and soups, which are good for themselves, their families, their elders and their careers. Don't underestimate this, thinking that a beautiful woman in the new era can't enter the kitchen without being a big wife. Is it easy to have a little wife? Waiting for others to be happy at any time, still ready to go out or the first wife scratching her face, earning two or three thousand a month, but also giving people a good face at any time, how can youth be geometric? How many stupid men have left their wives and married children? Except for others, most of them are normal, as long as their wives are not too bad.

10. Be confident that women aged 20-40 are all the same and have the same educational level. Don't sell yourself short, and don't compare yourself with movie stars and beautiful girl soldiers. I believe that I am beautiful and elegant, and only I take it for granted. I am well dressed and generous. Whether it's plain makeup or light makeup, as long as you don't lose your identity and dignity because of heavy makeup, you have every reason to cheer for yourself. Don't think that you have to go to a beauty salon or plastic surgery to get a chance to spell Kim Hee Seon or a sexy model, which is basically incomparable. Dessert can't be eaten as a meal, and everyone knows it.

The advantage of women

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A woman is a creature that loves beauty. She needs compliments. If her boyfriend praises her less, she will look for this feeling from other men. Is that weird? In fact, we often say that women are more attractive than men. Women are treated as pets. If you lose most of her pets, she will find someone else to replace them. Got it!

Be a woman who can't live without you and make men dizzy. Women know what they want and express their needs in time. So the result is often that such a woman can finally win the favor of men as she wishes.

1, keep

It doesn't matter whether she is the CEO or the waitress in the restaurant. She has the most sincere life. She has her own honor, and she doesn't live by begging.

Step 2 don't pester each other

The stars, the moon and the sun all have their own trajectories. Similarly, she will not run around him. When her horoscope shows that his Mercury is moving away from her Venus, she will not date him again. She won't pester him or spy on him. He is not the center of the universe.

3. Mysterious

There is a difference between honesty and frankness. She is honest, but that doesn't mean she needs to confess everything. She put her card on the table not clearly. She knows that being close is inferior-being too close will sow the seeds of disrespect and even boredom.

She will make him impatient.

She doesn't need to see him every night, and she won't leave long messages on his plane. Her name is not at the top of the weekly plan arranged by his secretary. In fact, men are also eager for love. The feeling of longing is also very good.

5. Don't let him see himself.

She tries not to communicate with him when she is confused, and tries not to communicate with him when she is upset. When his thinking is clear, he can express it in a concise way.

6. Arrange your own time independently

She deliberately slowed down, especially when he couldn't wait. She acted at her own pace instead of following the other person's footsteps to avoid being pushed around by him.

7. She keeps a sense of humor.

Her humor can make the other person feel her thoughts. However, she won't laugh at him or disrespect him.

She is quite confident.

When he praises her, she will say "thank you". She won't stop his praise. She won't ask him what his ex-girlfriend looks like, and she won't be jealous of other women.

9. Her enthusiasm for some things exceeds her need for him.

When he thinks she is not "once you have it, you want nothing more", he thinks she is full of charm. She won't be angry at not seeing him, because she has something to do. In her mind, he has no privilege, no "fixed parking space" and no "dedicated passage". All he got was a "temporary parking space" next to the "parking lot exit".

10, she loves her health.

She pays attention to her appearance and health. How a person maintains his appearance can reflect the degree of self-esteem. If he tells her that he doesn't like red lipstick and it makes her feel good, she will still use it.

Be a woman with personality and let men be chronically poisoned. When a man's drug addiction is provoked, will you be proud of your intelligence and personality? To catch a man, you should not only know the answer, but also have your own personality. Such a woman is the most attractive.

Woman: A human being who can secrete estrogen.

In some cases, it is just a title for women who are mature both physically and mentally.

Some external manifestations of women:

1. Amy: This is the sexual characteristic of all women, regardless of age or race.

2, fickle: sometimes fierce, sometimes gentle, but when it changes, men will never know.

3. Weaknesses: So some people use water to describe women.

The physiological structure of women

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In the function of bearing children, women undertake complicated tasks such as pregnancy, childbirth and feeding babies. Therefore, her reproductive system is much more complicated than that of men in structure and physiology. The female reproductive system includes exposed parts such as clitoris, hymen and mouth, and internal parts such as fallopian tubes and ovaries hidden at the lower end of abdominal cavity.

1.: In front of the pubic bone, there is a bulge formed by adipose tissue. The upper part is connected with the abdominal wall, and the lower part is connected with the big one. For adult women, pubic hair is clustered on the epidermis.

2. Big: Big refers to the fat tissue protruding from one side to the other, surrounding the mouth, and the back ends of both sides meet in front. The surface is covered by skin, with pubic hair outside, and there is a small gland called vestibular gland on both sides of the upper and lower ends. Each gland has a catheter, which opens on the inside of the small and the side of the hymen. When you are sexually excited, the secretions of two glands are discharged from the catheter, making the vulva smooth.

3. Small: In the big one, one is on the left and the other is on the right. It is a pair of skin wrinkles, brown in color and different in size, with many wrinkles on the surface and sensitive feeling.

4. Clitoris: The clitoris is a small columnar organ that can erect, located below the joint of the small upper ends on both sides. Sensory nerve is very rich, which is the most sensitive part of female reproductive organs.

5. Hymen: There is an annular mucosal tissue around the mouth in the middle of the small inner side, which is the hymen. The normal hymen has cracks, and menstrual blood flows out from the hymen hole. There are few people with imperforate hymen, which is an abnormal phenomenon. If this happens, it is necessary to perform surgical resection, otherwise menstrual blood will not flow out during adolescence, which will lead to disharmony in menstrual blood retention.

6. urethral orifice: above the mouth and below the clitoris, there is a small hole, which is the opening of the urethra. The female urethra is very short, located above and parallel to the bladder.

7.: It is a tubular organ connecting the outside world, with a length of about 8 ~ 10 cm and strong elasticity. The walls are pink and wrinkled. At ordinary times, the front and rear walls are attached together, and at the top, there is a neck and mouth exposed. The neck is the lower end. There are urethra and bladder in front and rectum in the back. It has three functions: (1) is the way to discharge menstrual blood; (2) organs; (3) The path taken by the fetus during delivery.

8.: It is a pear-shaped organ with a thick wall and a large cavity. Everyone's body shape is slightly different. Adults are about 8 cm long, 5 cm wide and 3 cm thick. The surface is covered with a smooth film. The main part of the wall is made up of muscles. The lower end is slightly thinner, called the neck, and half of the neck is exposed at the top. The middle cavity is triangular, the cavity is very small, and the lower end is communicated with the neck cavity. The upper end and left and right corners of the cavity are communicated with the fallopian tube cavity. The cavity of the deputy officer is covered with a layer of mucosa called intima. Periodic shedding of endometrium is menstruation. It has three functions: (1) is the place where fertilized eggs grow and develop into fetuses; (2) Provide nutrition for the growing fetus through blood circulation, and transport the metabolic waste of the fetus; (3) During childbirth, contractility forces the fetus to give birth.

9. Fallopian tube: There is a tube about 8- 14 cm on both sides of the upper end. The root of the tube is connected with the tube, the other end is opened with an umbrella, and the lumen covers the mucosa. The fallopian tube is where the eggs meet and combine, which is where fertilization takes place. In addition, the fallopian tube also has the function of transporting eggs to the official cavity. If the fallopian tube cavity is closed, it will hinder fertility.

10. Ovary: Fallopian tubes located on the left and right sides and below, with one ovary on each side. The ovary is ovoid, about 3 cm long, 65438 0.5 cm wide and 65438 0 cm thick. There are many egg cells in the ovary. Although the egg cell is relatively large, it needs to be enlarged to be visible. The function of ovary is to lay eggs and secrete estrogen. This hormone has the function of maintaining the unique physiological phenomenon of women.

The perfect woman in men's eyes

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What do men expect from the woman they love? Figure, appearance, ability, family background, personality? Maybe all this is possible, but in reality, finding a perfect woman with all kinds of advantages is a bit ridiculous. Since ancient times, men's dreams of a good wife have been based on the so-called "beautiful women who can get out of the palace and into the kitchen". So in the eyes of contemporary men, what is the woman who is most eager to be his wife?

1, she'd better be elegant and charming forever.

Whether it's a friend's party or your New Year's party, her clothes can be inconspicuous, but the bottom line is not to embarrass you in front of everyone. Based on the principle of both internal and external training, she'd better be decent, educated, knowledgeable and tasteful. In addition, if you have white hair, you should dye your hair in time. Don't make yourself too fat to lose weight. Don't use old and cheap underwear to match a cashmere coat with thousands of dollars. Don't be coquettish when making out with you, be neat-please don't let me see your underwear burst or break a hole.

Step 2 pay attention

She is not a luxurious woman, but don't be so calm and take husband and wife seriously. She has a healthy sexual concept, knows how to take the initiative and can communicate with you frankly.

3. Pay attention to family atmosphere

Don't make phone calls outside every day. I will learn some special dishes from my mother and cook for you when I am not busy at work. It doesn't matter whether there is candlelight or not. Knowing a little sewing, your button has dropped, and she can sew it soon. There is love. After the child is born, he insists on breastfeeding and is not afraid of being out of shape.

4. Develop the habit of reading.

Most married women only read popular or fashionable books, which is normal. It's just that some men have some romantic feelings, like poetry and songs, and hope their other half has the same elegance. Reading is a good thing, of course, reading is not for window dressing. Reading saves her from the sin of ignorance, makes her have more topics with you, and improves her temperament. On the whole, it is still an interesting and beneficial effort.

5. Dream with you occasionally

In the life of necessities, men occasionally overflow some unrealistic dreams. Even if it is too illusory, don't laugh at you mercilessly. When she is in the mood, she will dream with you. Don't worry too much. What normal man is stupid enough to think that a dream will never wake up?

Step 6 be humorous

The gentleness and kindness of a woman is sugar, but if she is sweet blindly, she will kill a man one day. Humor temperament is salt, which is rarely distributed in women's bodies, but once it exists, it can bring out a unique taste-women who can tell one or two adult jokes are certainly more interesting than those who cover their ears when listening to adult jokes.

7. Love me, love my dog

Love you and take the initiative to care about your family. On your parents' birthday, she sent money or gifts early; Your brother and sister have something to do, and she is more anxious than you; Poor relatives from your hometown, she won't show disdain, because to despise your relatives is to despise your past and despise you.

8. Full of confidence

Don't be nervous about your relationship with your female friends. I just think you are having an affair and want to abandon her. A confident woman will never be a policeman sniffing behind her husband, and she doesn't know what it means to be abandoned. Even if you really have an affair, she is confident that she can drag you back to her-if she still wants you.

9. tolerate his ordinary.

Don't expect too much from you, and give maximum tolerance to your ordinary and plain. You are not rich or successful, but she is willing to live an ordinary life with you. She is tolerant and well-informed, and won't nag and complain that you are stupid and can't make a lot of money-you know, this is what men are most afraid and annoyed about.

She is very strong

Some men like women to be innocent girl, which can protect them. More men like women with spirit, don't cry all the time, and don't stick to him all day, so that there will be no friends in her world to chat with except you. Men like to have their own space, in fact, you also hope you have your own space. She is strong and the most beautiful in your heart.

There is no love for no reason in the world. A man is finally willing to give up his ring finger and take a woman to the red carpet with joy. This woman probably has some animals that he can cherish. So: it is the best to marry home!

Women must learn the "nourishing blood method"

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If women are not good at nourishing blood, they are prone to symptoms of blood deficiency such as sallow complexion, pale lips and nails, dry limbs, dizziness, fatigue and shortness of breath.

People with severe anemia are also prone to premature aging symptoms such as wrinkles, white hair, tooth loss and stumbling. Sufficient qi and blood can make the skin ruddy and the complexion shiny. If women want to pursue a beautiful face and slim figure, they must pay attention to nourishing blood and pay attention to the following aspects:

1, Shenyang: Cheerful personality can not only enhance the body's immunity, but also be beneficial to physical and mental health. At the same time, it can also promote the hematopoietic function of bone marrow in the body bones and make the skin ruddy and shiny. Therefore, we should always be optimistic.

2, sleep: to ensure adequate sleep and abundant energy and physical strength, so that the combination of daily life, entertainment and rest. We should learn to live scientifically, develop a modern scientific and healthy lifestyle, and avoid staying up late, eating partial eclipse, eating snacks, quitting smoking and limiting alcohol, and inequality in special physiological stages such as menstrual period or puerperium.

3. Exercise: Take part in physical exercise regularly, especially for women who have given birth, and often take part in some physical exercise and outdoor activities within their power, at least half an hour every day. Such as aerobics, running, walking, playing ball, swimming and dancing, can enhance physical strength and hematopoietic function.

4. Food and nutrition: Women should eat more and be rich in&; Uot hematopoietic raw materials &; Uot high-quality protein, essential trace elements (iron, copper, etc. ), folic acid and vitamin B 12 are nutritious foods. Such as animal liver, kidney, blood, fish, shrimp, eggs, bean products, black fungus, black sesame, red dates, peanuts, fresh vegetables and fruits.

5, medicine: anemia should be tonic medicated diet. Codonopsis pilosula 15g and jujube 15g can be used as decoction instead of tea. You can also use 60 grams of maltose and 20 red dates, and add some water to eat; You can also eat 20 grams of Polygonum Multiflori Radix, 20 grams of Lycium barbarum, 60 grams of japonica rice, 65,438+05 red dates, and fairy porridge cooked in brown sugar, which has the effect of enriching blood and nourishing blood; Patients with severe anemia can take ferrous sulfate tablets.

Besides, the bleeding should be cured. When women have menorrhagia, menstrual disorder, intestinal parasitic diseases, atrophic gastritis, upper gastrointestinal ulcers, hemorrhoids or recurrent nosebleeds, they should seek medical treatment as soon as possible and be cured as soon as possible. It can consume a lot of blood less, which is also an important condition for women to keep fit.

How should single women nourish themselves?

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First of all, you must be confident. Every morning after washing and dressing, I read aloud to the graceful woman in the mirror: "I'm fine!" " "Psychologists say that this is one of the means of self-potential!

Second, tolerance. Allow different life concepts to exist. New and new women should be tolerant, know how to respect others' choices and identify with others' lifestyles.

Third, the complete self. New women should have a complete personality. Economically, never rely on anyone; Mentally, never depend on anyone.

Fourth, full of energy. New and new women should take care of their careers with full spirit. Even if it's just a job, you should run it with enthusiasm for your career.

Fifth, make a little progress every day. New and new women should constantly enrich themselves and improve their knowledge and skills.

Sixth, balance family and career. New and new women should be experts in walking a tightrope and strike a balance between family and career. What scene, what role, unambiguous.

Seventh, always pursue beauty. Women's love for beauty is a manifestation of loving life and maintaining self-esteem.

Eighth, give yourself more demands. Be a "moist" woman!

How to be an attractive woman?

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"Don't lament for me", women are always old, but their charm is not necessarily blowing in the wind, because men appreciate women's keen sense of touch, and can also appreciate many characteristics of women's appearance, and regard it as women's continuous attraction. When a woman laments that her youth has passed away, she must remember: smart men know that no matter how beautiful a woman is, she will grow old, instead of just focusing on a young girl's face and using the second word. Older women will become more and more attractive.

Therefore, it is not enough for a woman to have a beautiful face, but also to have her own unique temperament and acquired personality cultivation. Beauty and charm cannot be compared. Beauty will disappear with the passage of time, but charm can be continued through the promotion of personality, appropriate makeup, appropriate clothing and self-cultivation.

The perfection of personality includes a woman's self-improvement, self-esteem, self-confidence, self-love and having a simple and kind heart.