Why do girls get bored with people who get along with each other day and night? They don't like what they do, they like themselves.

First, multiple-choice questions (2 points for each question, ***40 points)

1. On holidays, many migrant workers in Zhangpu County trudged back to their hometown. This is because ()

They are too tired to go out and want to have a rest.

They can't adapt to life in the coastal areas.

C. They have relatives at home and family ties.

D. they want to look around.

2. Among the following students, () reflects parents' understanding and concern.

"Mom just needs me to study hard, and now I don't need to do anything else."

2 "It's my parents' responsibility to raise me, so I can buy me whatever I like. "

My parents want to talk to me, but I am too busy studying. How can I have time to chat? "

4 "I will go home after school, and my parents will worry if I am late."

A.①②③④ B.④ C.①③④ D.①②③

Hong Zhou is a little annoyed recently, and doesn't want to talk to anyone. Her parents want to know why. Zhou Hong's correct approach is ().

A. close the door and ignore them

B.don't tell them what's bothering them, lest they worry.

C. Run away from home and find a friend to solve it

D. communicate with them actively and ask parents to help find a way to solve the problem.

4, do you think the following belongs to the appropriate communication between male and female students is ()

A. Xiao Ting is a lively girl who often makes friends and fights with boys.

Xiaomei and Xiao Qiang appreciate each other. They often avoid group activities and associate alone.

C Fan Xiao is an excellent student, and she seldom associates with boys.

Xiao Yu and Liang Xiao are both class cadres. They often organize and plan class activities together.

5, about "how to treat the teacher's criticism correctly", the following four students don't understand correctly is ().

A. A: The teacher's criticism is also a kind of love.

B.b.: if you have it, change it, and if you don't, encourage it.

C.C.: Empathy, can understand the teacher's criticism.

D: The teacher's criticism can only be accepted.

6. After class, the teacher didn't understand a question in class. At this time, you will ()

A. Because of saving face, I am embarrassed to speak, for fear of being laughed at by other students.

B. Tell the teacher your questions frankly and honestly.

C. Don't seek a solution, let's talk about it later.

D. Sorry to ask, let my classmate ask for me.

7. In class, the teacher mistakenly thought that you violated discipline and made severe criticism. You can ()

(1) bears a grudge against the teacher and deliberately opposes the teacher in class in the future.

(2) Take the initiative to ask the teacher to admit his mistake and ask the teacher to forgive him.

(3) consciously alienate teachers and avoid conflicts again.

Choose a suitable opportunity and take the initiative to ask the teacher to clarify the problem.

A.①③ B.②③ C.②④ D.③④

8. Of all the ancient cultures in the world, only one has never stopped and has continued to this day. It is ()

A. Egyptian culture

B. Babylonian culture

C. Indian culture

D. China culture

9. Zheng Xiao used to be addicted to online games, and now she has become a campus star in the field of computer webpage production. This shows that ()

A. We should resist the bad temptations on the Internet, be good at using network technology and do useful things.

B. Everything on the Internet is a bad temptation.

C. the network communication is wonderful.

D. Network communication is very dangerous

10, at the weekend, your classmates' parents invited you to be a guest at home. You should ()

(1) Wear clean and decent clothes.

② Pay attention to polite language.

③ Respect the parents of classmates.

(4) Don't pay special attention, whatever you do at home is the same.

A.①②③④ B.④ C.①③④ D.①②③

1 1. The example of "rudeness -Wuli" in the textbook is intriguing. It tells us the following truth ()

(1) Politeness and etiquette are the most direct external forms of personal cultivation and the premise of communication.

(2) Politeness is the premise of winning the respect of others, and it is also one of the conditions for successful communication.

③ People need respect, and politeness is the concrete expression of respect.

If we are impolite to others, we will do harm to others and hinder our communication with others.

A.①②③ B.①②④ C.①③④ D.①②③④

12, harmonious interpersonal relationship is what everyone longs for, and the establishment of this kind of interpersonal relationship must start from. ( )

A. Understanding B. Tolerance C. Understanding D. Understanding

13, select a group different from other groups in the following ()

A. "Please pay more attention", "Please", "Thank you for your concern" and "Thank you for your trouble"

B. "I'm sorry", "I'm so sorry", "Stop screaming, it's annoying" and "Please forgive me"

C. "Have a nice day", "Wish you success" and "Wish you health"

D "Welcome", "We are honored that you can come" and "I hope you will enjoy your stay here"

14, the following are several students' attitudes towards competition, which one do you think is correct ()?

A. Xiaogang never discusses with others in his studies, nor does he lend others any study materials.

B. Chen Lin runs very fast, but at the sports meeting, she thought the squat was too unsightly and gave up.

C Wang Bin often helps others in their studies and never hides secrets.

D. The child is very afraid of the exam. During the mid-term exam, he pretended to be ill to avoid the exam.

15, 8 years (1) There was a stuttering classmate in the class, and some people jokingly called him "the stuttering prince". What's your attitude towards this?

(1) It hurts self-esteem to stop the behavior of such students.

(2) Learn to respect others, treat others with an equal attitude, and don't make jokes about discriminating against others.

(3) Offending other people's dignity is easy to produce contradictions. Ask the teacher to stop it.

Call for the removal of insulting nicknames from campus.

A.②③④ B.①②③ C.①②③④ D.①③④

16. What is dishonest in the following situations is ()

A. the privacy of not telling friends

B. Do good deeds without leaving a name.

C. Do a good deed and never admit it

D. keep the secret of classmates going to internet cafes.

17, about honesty and lies, the following statement is true ()

A. honesty and lies are not contradictory

B. An honest person should not lie at any time.

C. The less you lie, the more honest you are.

D. white lies do not violate honest morality.

18, the following cartoon tells us ().

Honesty and trustworthiness is the moral responsibility of every citizen.

Honesty and trustworthiness require us to match our words with our deeds.

We should learn to say different things in front of different people on different occasions.

(4) Honesty is only a moral norm, which has no mandatory binding force on citizens' behavior.

A.①② B.①③④ C.②③④ D、①②④

19, it is inevitable that some unpleasant frictions will occur when students get along with each other day and night. So it should be ()

A. if you learn to understand and tolerate, you don't need to pay attention to any principles.

B. learn to hide your thoughts,

C. learn to understand and tolerate, don't haggle over every ounce.

D. don't entangle right and wrong, just talk about "buddy loyalty."

20. All men are born equal. Equality between people, concentrated in ()

A. everyone's living standard is the same.

B: Everyone has the same level of knowledge.

C. Everyone is equal in personality and legal status

D. Everyone has the same money and status.

Second, short answer questions

2 1, learn to be grateful

As the saying goes, it is difficult to repay the kindness of parents. After reading the cartoon "kowtowing to parents", I thought about the following questions:

(1) Do you agree with the practice of kowtowing to parents? (4 points)

(2) As an eighth grade student, what do you think is the way to thank your parents now? (6 points)

Respect for differences

There is such a multiple-choice question. When my daughter came home, she saw that her mother was going to get something that was put on the high ground:

Daughter: Mom, I'll get it.

Mom: (a) No, thanks!

Ok, thank you!

All right, you take it.

The dialogue is simple, and the language itself has no obstacles. But when choosing the answer, most people in China choose C, and most foreigners choose B. Excuse me:

(1) Faced with the same problem, why do China people and foreigners make different choices? (2 points)

(2) How to understand and treat this difference? (8 points)

23, so ask the way.

A student asked an old man with a cane for directions on the road.

Student: "Hey! Old man, how far is it from the town government? "

Grandpa: "And crutches!"

Student: "There is only theory in the road, how can there be crutches?"

Grandpa: "Lun Li, you should call me grandpa."

Please think:

(1) What does this story mean? (4 points)

(2) Please rewrite this story according to what you learned in "Friendly Communication Etiquette First". (6 points)

24. Ideal competition

In today's society, all levels of life are full of competition, the field of competition is expanding day by day, the degree of competition is becoming increasingly fierce, and competition has had a profound impact on people's lives.

Please answer:

(1) What do you think is the best result of the competition? (4 points)

(2) How can we achieve the above effect? Do you have any good ideas? (6 points)

Three, practice and inquiry (20 points)

25. There is such a sketch performance in a thinking activity class. Please have a look and discuss several issues together.

Xiao Qiang: (carrying a schoolbag and playing casually) Xiao Tuan, where is the "mountain pig"?

Tuan: What's your name?

Xiao Qiang: Big and fat children!

Duan: How could you do that? Yesterday you called him "Fat Man", today you call him "Mountain Pig".

Xiao Qiang: Just kidding. Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. Hey, I heard that you and Lingling are a little interesting, right?

Jun: You are so boring. (End)

Xiaogang: (looking up while reading) You are talking nonsense again, driving all your classmates away.

Xiao Qiang: You deserve it. Who told them not to let me copy my homework, and told the teacher that the teacher gave me a lesson on this matter, and I haven't finished with them yet. (Xiaogang has no choice but to shake his head and leave)

Xiao Qiang: Hey, don't go, talk to me ... (Alone, shaking his head helplessly, talking to himself) Why did they all leave?

(1) Please analyze the reason. What makes Xiao Qiang "lonely"? (2 points)

(2) Please give advice to a group of Xiao Qiang, so that he is no longer "lonely". (3 points)

(3) Please analyze it. What does Xiao Qiang mean when he says "Xiao Tuan and Lingling are a little interesting"? The opposite sex classmates associate? (3 points)

(4) Please talk about your feelings about making friends (including the opposite sex). Please write a paragraph with the materials described and the knowledge you have learned. (10)

Participate in answering

I. Multiple choice questions

Topic 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Option c b d d d b c

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Option D B B C C D A A C C

Second, short answer questions

2 1, (You can agree or disagree as long as it is reasonable. The reasons for opposition are as follows: kowtowing to parents does not mean filial piety, not kowtowing does not mean unfilial, and kowtowing is worthless without a grateful heart; People in an era have specific ways to express gratitude and implement gratitude. It is inappropriate to "arrange" students to kowtow to their parents. The reasons for approval are as follows: kowtowing to the elders is a traditional etiquette of the Chinese nation and is slowly being forgotten; The expression of gratitude can still be expressed through kowtowing, a traditional cultural form. "Filial piety is the foundation of virtue, and filial piety is the first." In China, filial piety has been an important standard to measure the virtue of human nature since ancient times. It cannot be said that kowtowing belongs to feudal superstition. China has such a tradition since ancient times, which is an important part of our Chinese culture. With the help of this ancient and solemn form, it is helpful to recall the tradition of students thanking their parents.

22.( 1) A: Because of different cultural backgrounds, people will treat things differently.

(2) Answer: We should have an open mind, adopt an objective and equal attitude and respect the behavioral differences brought about by different cultures. (3 points) B. Learn the advantages and advantages of other cultures with an open mind. (2 points) C. We should respect both the value of our own national culture and the value of other national cultures, and exchange and learn from each other on an equal footing. (3 points)

23.( 1) If you don't respect others, you won't be respected, so use polite language.

(2) Omission

24.( 1) The ideal result of competition is a win-win situation.

(2) Good cooperation creates a win-win situation in the competition. (2) To compete in accordance with the principles of equality, fairness, honesty and credibility within the scope permitted by law and morality. (3) In the process of competition, both sides should encourage each other, help each other, learn from each other's strengths and improve together.

Third, practice and exploration.

25.( 1) Because Xiao Qiang doesn't know how to respect others.

(2) In normal study and life, we should learn to be kind to friends, be considerate of friends, respect friends, and think of them from their standpoint, so as to win the respect and trust of others and make ourselves more friends.

(3) Love or admiration for the opposite sex. The communication between students of the opposite sex can enhance our understanding of the opposite sex, learn from each other's strengths, improve our personality and promote the healthy development of body and mind; Can expand the scope of communication and exercise communication ability; Wait a minute.

(4) From the principles and qualities of making friends (politeness, tolerance and honesty), we should also point out the respect between friends and the normal communication between the opposite sex in thought.