Why are some girls vulnerable to domestic violence?

first, it may be influenced by family of origin.

In family of origin, a mother or a person who has suffered from domestic violence for a long time will be subjected to domestic violence again in her future marriage. This kind of domestic violence is not because the other person is a domestic violence type, but because of the influence of the woman family of origin, who lacks love since childhood and is abused by her family. When the woman is in conflict with the man, she will inspire the man and keep on verbal stimulation, such as "Come on, hit me if you can", and then the domestic violence will begin. This is the root cause problem, which cannot be solved by divorce.

Second: Because children

After having children, women will become extremely strong, and they will endure to the end for their children. If they have no financial resources and depend on the man to make a living, they can only bear it. They didn't realize the importance of women's independence and didn't have the strength to come out.

third: I'm afraid to face the outside gossip.

When you are injured, you definitely don't want your relatives and friends to see you, hold your head up in front of them, be afraid of being laughed at, or be afraid of being looked down upon or sympathized with. They cover their own pain, show people with a smile, pretend as if nothing has happened, and endure it strongly.

fourth: threatened

It may be controlled and threatened by the man, fearing to hurt his family or other innocent people. You can only choose to be wronged and bear.

No matter what the reason, I hope that women will understand that domestic violence is just like cheating, only times and countless times. When you suffer from domestic violence, you should bravely come out, otherwise it will affect the children behind, as analyzed in the first article above. If you are suffering from domestic violence, then your child's family of origin is a domestic violence type, which will have an impact on his future marriage and even his children. If you don't come out, it will only be a cycle of evil deeds.