How to deal with jealousy, isolation, frame-up and madness of workplace villains?

How to deal with jealousy, isolation, frame-up and madness of workplace villains? Believe in yourself, someone is jealous of you, which means you are better than them, and they are jealous of you.

Don't say too much in this case, remember that silence is golden.

Will you be soft-hearted when you meet a villain in the workplace? Of course, you can't be soft-hearted when dealing with such people.

But then again, as the saying goes, "it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain." It is estimated that even if you win this time, the villain will find a chance to retaliate. Therefore, the best way to deal with the villain is to stay away from him.

What should I do if I am framed by my girlfriend's jealousy? Your real best friend wouldn't do that.

This is a bad friend. It can't be a best friend.

Newcomers in the workplace are jealous, but what about cheating colleagues behind love? When Xia Qinggang joined the company, his predecessor had not left, and he had no workstation or computer, so he had to sit in front of the company's evaluation machine to learn the company's systems and processes.

Her predecessor Xiao Nan is a very sociable person. She often brings some delicious food and fun to her colleagues, and she has a good way to get along with leading colleagues in other departments. But her boss, Ruan Lingyu, is also an expert in dealing with people. She worked in this company for nearly 8 years, endured humiliation and won the favor of the general manager. Although Xiao Nan is a very capable person, she is always behind Ruan Lingyu. After working for three years, Xiao Nan finally decided to leave the company. Xia Qing, her replacement, has arrived at the company, and she is very uncomfortable.

And Xiao Nan's close colleagues also put hatred on Xia Qing, making things difficult for her. At first, Xia Qing thought that people in the company bullied the students, but later it was found that this was not the case. Colleagues who joined after her were all very kind to her. Xia Qing is a serious and responsible person. In the face of unreasonable cold treatment from colleagues, she chose patience. She overcame many difficulties and finally achieved success in her work. Ruan Lingyu was originally the person who recruited her to join the company, but she was dissatisfied with the leader because of her tactfulness. Therefore, Xia Qing took over the human resources work in an all-round way. However, in this way, Xia Qing was not only unhappy with her promotion, but also full of troubles. Xia Qing is responsible for all human resources work that Ruan Lingyu has been unwilling to give up. Ruan Ling said to Xia Qing at dinner with Xia Qing, "As a department head, I am better than you in ability and all aspects, right? ! "Xia Qing nodded and said," well, you are better than me. I want to learn more from you! " Ruan Ling went on to say: "I am better than you, and the leaders are still not satisfied with the human resources work I manage. Your ability is not as good as mine. What do you think can be done to satisfy the leaders? " Xia Qing quickly said, "I need a lot of help from my sister Ruan Lingyu in the future, otherwise I can't do my work well."

Later, under pressure, Xia Qing organized the recruitment and training of human resources alone. There are many things and heavy workload, so she works overtime to finish the work. It is already eight or nine o'clock when she gets home every day. She has a belief in her heart that she must make achievements to prove her value. Many things happen. Xia Qing ranks among the best in the country. In the past, when Ruan Lingyu was doing human resources management, he was complained by the business that he could not recruit people, but now he is praised by the business that the human resources work is in place and the recruitment and training of personnel are very good. Xia Qing proved his worth with his own strength.

Ruan Lingyu recruited another HR Zhou Tong as Xia Qing's assistant, but she was partial to Zhou Tong everywhere. Zhou Tong came to the company in the off-season of recruitment at the end of the year. The workload was not much, but she got a lot of rewards. Department dinners, department awards-smart rice cookers are in the bag, catching up with the new year's goods at the end of the year, giving the company a birthday gift, and you can enjoy five days of paid annual leave just after working for one month. I didn't do much work, but I got all the benefits. Zhou Tong didn't replace anyone into the company, so the people around her were also very friendly, and Zhou Tong was so happy that she couldn't keep her mouth shut. Because Zhou Tong was personally recruited by Ruan Ling, Ruan Ling also took care of her. Zhou Tong was late this morning, and Ruan Lingyu gave her a round robin. Zhou Tong was sick and asked for leave, and Ruan Lingyu didn't deduct his salary. Even if he went out for training, Ruan Lingyu agreed that Zhou Tong would go by plane.

And Xia Qing, since coming to this company, has not only never enjoyed a comfortable day, but also faced the supercilious look and cold reception of people close to Xiao Nan. Because Ruan Ling was replaced, although Ruan Ling was promoted to department manager, she lost the right to manage human resources. Besides, Xia Qing did a very good job and won everyone's praise, which made Ruan Lingyu very angry. On the surface, Ruan Lingyu praised Xia Qing, but the jealousy in her heart lingered. Ruan Lingyu vigorously cultivated Zhou Tong, hoping that she could replace Xia Qing.

Faced with this situation, can Xia Qing only complain about others and never have peace?

Indeed, in the face of such a situation, everyone will feel unfair. However, instead of falling into the bad mood caused by unfair treatment every day and making yourself miserable every day, it is better to face it bravely and have a peaceful mind. People can't choose their own circumstances, but they can choose what kind of mood to face life with. Xia Qing was envied by other colleagues for his outstanding ability and hard work. Such talents are real talents and deserve to be reused by enterprises. But this is not the case. We must learn to restrain ourselves and hide our strength. If you are a mediocre person, no one will be jealous. People who may often be capable are more likely to be rejected. However, if you are better than others, you will be jealous. If you are much better than others, those who are jealous can only sigh, fall behind and envy. Someone once said that life is like a race. Only when your opponent can see you can you bear all kinds of obstacles and blows. What can you do if you run out for a distance and they can't catch up with you? If you don't want to be envied, you should strive to upgrade yourself to the realm of Excellence and unsurpassed.

Xia Qing can adjust his state and treat these people and things with more tolerance and generosity. Stick to the right direction and strengthen yourself, including interpersonal skills. When it has won the trust and recognition of most people, even if there are still people who object, it will not become a climate.

How to deal with jealous villains? When I first joined the work, because I graduated from a provincial key high school and the cultural upsurge at that time, I was conspicuous and attracted the envy of many villains. There was a jealous terminal patient who was my leader at that time. He is very uncomfortable with me reading all the time. He often satirizes me, saying that I am not as good as Phoenix, and that if I can fly again, he will die. In the face of this * * * villain, I was secretly cruel and soon admitted to Shenyang Business School. After graduation, he returned to the original unit and was reused, but he was dismissed, making this jealous villain a classic joke of the unit. Later, a little man was jealous of me and dug a hole in my career, which saved me from being a middle-level official. This secret effort, less than a year was admitted to the provincial civil servants. Although I was replaced later, my talent was fully recognized by everyone, and the people who were jealous of me in the unit never dared to underestimate me again. Before I was 30 years old, I defeated the jealous villain twice and turned over in adversity, which laid a solid psychological foundation for me to deal with the obstacles in my career and adapt to the harsh environment confidently, calmly and calmly. Later, I left my job without pay and went to foreign companies and private enterprises to do marketing work. This is a profession that relies on strength to compete. I still often meet leaders who are jealous of villains. Whenever I come here, I will directly ask my boss to give me a market where I can duel with the villains. For the first time, I drove away the branch manager who tried to squeeze me out of the company every day with the absolute advantage of personal sales accounting for 70% of the branch; The second time, I used the sales volume of Shandong small market to beat the sales volume of Beijing big market 10 villain by myself. There will be many times after the strength defeats the jealous villain, and I feel great after each victory. The more depressed, the more excited. You make a wonderful turn by hard work, don't bicker with villains, make progress and achievements by your own talent and diligence, and make you scratch your head with your little-known jealousy by your strength. In this process, you made progress and felt the happiness of the great conqueror. Don't explain to anyone when you meet a villain who is jealous of you, because you won't get everyone's sympathy and the villain will get worse; You can't hide There are too many jealous villains in China. Compromise with a jealous villain, you can't even do this. People's Excellence, such as knowledge, looks, family background and temperament, cannot be changed by modesty. A villain is a villain. It is their instinct to laugh at others, make people angry and make trouble. Compromising with them is tantamount to getting the eggs from the tiger's skin. You only have Huashan, and you are constantly striving for self-improvement It's fun to fight the villains alone. Jealous little people make your life more exciting! This is my experience.

How to deal with a villain? The ancients said, near the villain, far from the gentleman? It means that as long as you are a little unkind to him, the villain will try his best to spoil you, while the gentleman will not spoil you regardless of whether you are kind to him or not. So when necessary, the villain should pretend to coax him.

How do women in the workplace do their job well when they are jealous? There are too many wonderful people in the world, so there is no need to dispute with her.

How to guard against workplace villains? First, don't be tit for tat with the villain. In this way, they will only feel threatened and make more irrational attacks.

Second, if we must confront them head-on, we must make all kinds of preparations in advance and make full preparations for their possible frame-up.

Third, pay more attention to them, find solutions in advance before the conflicts and contradictions between the two sides, and it is best to let the two sides reach an agreement on the direction and create an atmosphere of fair competition or cooperation.

Beware of workplace villains!

Do your own job.

Please adopt O (∩ _ ∩) O. Thank you.

How to prevent being jealous and framed? Don't be too ostentatious, be modest, even if you have made great achievements or got something good, don't show it off everywhere; Usually, help others enthusiastically and get on well with the people around you. Even if you disagree with others, you should say it euphemistically and don't be aggressive.