Why do parents force their children to get married?

Those who got married in a hurry because their parents urged them to get married did not have a good life later. This is mainly because of ignorance and other reasons. So the consequences of urging marriage are very serious. Let's take a look at the relevant knowledge.

1, one knows his face, but he doesn't know his heart

It is the most difficult problem to know people's faces but not their hearts. Maybe someone is very kind to you on the surface, but in private it is another face, which is also terrible. When choosing the other half, you can't choose this kind of person, otherwise you will be hurt the most. Just like a boy I met on a blind date, it took me a while to know that this boy was unreliable and chose to break up. This is also a wise choice. Otherwise, the man betrays the woman after marriage, which is really not worth the candle.

It's really hard to fathom a person's heart. Some people have lived together for most of their lives and can't understand each other's thoughts, let alone blind date. Therefore, in the face of parents' forced marriage, we must adhere to our own principles, don't get married for the sake of marriage, and it is better to polish our eyes than anything else.

Children are afraid and unwilling to go home.

Parents' forced marriage will make children unwilling to go home because of fear. There are many such things. Whether it's Mid-Autumn Festival or Chinese New Year, everyone wants the family to stay happily together, but some young people don't want to go home, mainly because they don't have a partner and don't want to listen to relatives and friends. When they get home, they will face the fate of blind date. It is better to stay alone, don't worry about those things, even if you are forced to get married, you can't control yourself.

Originally, a person's income was not high. Finding a partner, having a house and a car, and raising a child after marriage are all very realistic problems. Getting married is not a simple matter. It is not enough for two people to really love each other. A happy marriage should also be built on a certain material basis, and a basic survival should be maintained, not because marriage makes one's life more bitter.

3. Disrupt the children's plans

In the eyes of many parents, the best filial piety for children is to find a good home, but they never think about their inner thoughts. Maybe the children want to get married after their career is established, and then consider getting married after they have achieved certain results. However, due to forced marriage by parents, the plan was disrupted and many uncertain factors were faced. They think there is a layer of fog ahead and need the sun to come out to disperse it.

Marriage has nothing to do with age. Some people don't feel what they lack until they reach middle age, so as parents, don't push their children too hard, otherwise it will be counterproductive, because their future depends on them. If you choose to compromise because of forced marriage, you will be complained if you are unhappy after marriage. Why bother?