Ask you, how to make my girlfriend accept my treat and help with peace of mind?

When two people communicate as boyfriend and girlfriend, they are somewhat reserved at first, especially some girls from poor families, who have strong self-esteem and don't want to appear stingy and shabby in front of their boyfriends. They will scramble to pay the bill or share it with you AA. Your girlfriend is different from many girls now. Most girls like boys to spend money on themselves, some are vain, and even try to find boys to buy things for themselves. You are lucky to meet her.

Another possibility is that she is fighting for money, that is, she doesn't want to have in-depth contacts with you, have anything to do with you financially, and don't want to owe you money. But from your description, that's not the case.

At first, just follow her. After a long time, the relationship between the two people will go further, and she will naturally accept your contribution to her. If she still wants to do this at that time, you can pretend to be tough and tell her. If you don't accept it, you won't be her boyfriend! It looks cool. If she is afraid, she will listen to you later.

Now you can treat her or help her in another way. For example, if you want to invite her to a movie, if you have an appointment, you can buy a ticket in advance and lie to her that it was sent by the unit for an activity or by someone else. If you buy something for her, you can also make up an excuse for her to accept it.

These days, it's time for you to have fun when you meet a woman who can be financially independent.