What should I do if my face is thin?

The first thing to do is to abandon the old cognition and re-establish your own ideas and cognition. So what exactly do we need to do? First of all, we should correctly realize that thick skin is an advantage. If you don't admit this behavior, you can't get rid of the thin skin. We can't deny that in many cases, it also has its advantages. For example, don't worry about making mistakes, but you should have the cheek to think that this mistake can make you grow up, and then avoid making similar mistakes next time. You have to form a habit slowly to get rid of the shackles of thin skin, calm down at ordinary times and remind yourself more that in real life, face is not the most important thing! Practice saying no when facing unreasonable demands, and laugh when making a fool of yourself. When you have a conflict with others, practice speaking well and break the deadlock. In short, you should keep practicing. When you do these things that you have never done before, then this is the beginning of your breakthrough.

Second, we should lose narcissism, dare not ask for it, and dare not take the initiative to fight for it. Being afraid of this and worrying about being thin-skinned will make life full of helplessness and self-blame. Give yourself a correct position. You are afraid of negative comments from others, and you are afraid of gossip from others. In fact, it is the deviation of self-cognition, which wrongly magnifies its influence on others. In fact, everyone will put their own affairs first, and no one will put too much energy and thoughts on others. So don't worry that some of your actions will leave a bad impression on others, try to put it down or look at the problem from another angle.

Third, accept yourself and make yourself confident. Acceptance is very important, so important that if you don't accept yourself, you may never know where your value lies and how wide your self-boundary can extend. People with thin eyelids have strong self-esteem, while most people with strong self-esteem feel inferior, so it is particularly important for people with thin skin to improve their self-confidence appropriately. Fully accepting yourself can make you truly confident.

What can I do to accept myself? Every trait of oneself, no matter what, is regarded as a part of oneself, recognized, embraced and lived in harmony with it. When you do the above, you can gradually get rid of the thin-skinned state. Of course, teaching you to overcome your thin skin is not to make you stop thinking about making progress, but to let you learn to take the initiative to fight for opportunities for yourself at the right time, and to be less entangled and confused in life.