Reject the perfect story

A. there are cases in which celebrities refuse to succeed. Let's go

1, Architect A lady called the architect and said that her bed would shake whenever the train passed by. "This is nonsense," replied the architect. "Let me see." After the architect arrived, his wife suggested that he lie on the bed and experience the feeling when the train passed by. Hardly had the architect gone to bed when his wife's husband came back. Seeing this, he snapped, "What are you doing in my wife's bed?" The architect replied trembling, "I said I was waiting for the train." Would you believe it? " Epiphany some words are true, but they sound false; Some words are false, but there is no doubt. Seduce an English gentleman and a French woman to share a box. This woman wants to seduce this Englishman. After she took off her clothes and lay down, she complained that she was cold. Mr. Wang gave her his quilt, but she kept saying it was cold. "How else can I help you?" Mr. Wang asked in dismay. "When I was a child, my mother always used her body to keep me warm." "Young lady, I can't help you. I can't jump off the train to find your mother, can I? " A man who knows amorous feelings is a good man, and a man who doesn't know amorous feelings is a good man. Mike walked into the restaurant and ordered a soup. The waiter brought it to him right away. As soon as the waiter walked away, Mike shouted, "Sorry, I can't drink this soup." The waiter brought him another soup, but he still said, "Sorry, I can't drink this soup." The waiter had to call the manager. The manager nodded respectfully to Mike and said, "Sir, this dish is our specialty and is very popular with customers. Don't you ... "I mean, where's the spoon?" Correcting mistakes after an epiphany is certainly a good thing. But we often remove the right ones and leave the wrong ones, and the result is wrong and wrong. 4. Wearing the wrong restaurant, an extremely humble person timidly touched another customer, who was wearing a coat. "Excuse me, are you Mr. Pierre?" "No, I'm not." The man replied. "Ah," he breathed a sigh of relief, "then I'm not mistaken. I am him. You are wearing his coat. " It is not easy to be proved in an epiphany. People who are straightforward tend to feel inferior; And unreasonable people, heroes are like cattle. A Scotsman went to London and wanted to visit an old friend, but he forgot the address, so he sent a telegram to my father: "Do you know Thomas' address?" Express 1 On the same day, he received an urgent call back: "I know. "Epiphany When we finally found the most correct answer, we found it was the most useless. 6. Sad Story Three people went to new york for a holiday. They booked a suite on the 45th floor of a high-rise hotel. One night, the elevator in the building broke down and the waiter arranged for them to spend the night in the lobby. After discussion, they decided to walk back to their rooms and agreed to tell jokes, sing songs and tell stories in turn to reduce the fatigue of going upstairs. After telling jokes and singing songs, we finally climbed to the 34th floor and everyone felt exhausted. " Well, Peter, tell a humorous story. Peter said, "the story is not long, but it is extremely sad: I left my room key in the hall." "Epiphany is our pain, so humor; We are humorous, so we are happy. 7. Selling Books A famous writer is going to visit a bookstore. The bookstore owner was flattered and quickly removed all the books and replaced them with writers' books. When the writer came to the bookstore, he was very happy to ask, "Does your store only sell my books?" "Of course not." The bookstore owner replied, "Other books are selling well, and they are all sold out." I suddenly realized that "flattery" is a strange word: you seem to flatter him and insult him. 8. In the lobby of the post office, an old lady walked up to a middle-aged man and said politely, "Sir, would you please write my address on the postcard for me?" "Of course." The middle-aged man did as the old man asked. The old lady said, "write me another short paragraph, will you?" Thank you! " "all right." After writing according to the old lady's words, the middle-aged man smiled and asked, "Is there anything else I can do for you?" "Well, there's one little thing." The old lady looked at the postcard and said, "Please help me add another sentence below: I'm sorry for the scrawl." If you don't help, people will hate you for a week. If the help is not perfect, it is best. ...

B. Prove that people are not perfect stories

People looking for happiness

C. A short story with the word 100.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, GongSunYi was the prime minister of Lu, and she liked eating fish very much. People in Lu gave him fish, but he refused. Gong Yixiu's family asked him inexplicably: "You like fish, why do you refuse others to send fish?" He replied, "It is precisely because I like to eat fish that I refuse other people's fish. If I accept fish from others, it is inevitable that I will speak for others and do things for them. As the saying goes, if you are soft-hearted, you will inevitably bend the law and help the fish delivery people. If you break the law, you will be dismissed. Who will send you fish to eat after you become an official? ! If people don't send it, my salary will be gone, and I can't eat fish anymore. Although I refuse fish from others, I have a salary, and I can buy fish myself. There will always be fish to eat. I accepted the gift from others, and although it temporarily satisfied my appetite, I may never eat fish again. "

D. examples or stories where perfection is not desirable and perfectionism is not desirable.

Long life transferred from Xici was published at: 2003-1-1521:48: 30.

There is such a fairy tale, which is very enlightening.

There was a circle, a small part was cut off, and I felt very inferior. He wants to find a complete self, so he looks for his own chess pieces everywhere. Because he was incomplete, he rolled slowly when looking for it. Along the way, it mingled with flowers, talked with insects and fully enjoyed the happiness of life.

It found many pieces, but it was not the one it dropped, but he was not discouraged and kept looking. . . . . . . . . . . . Finally, one day, he found the fragments as he wished. And make yourself a complete circle again. But he rolled so fast that he missed the blooming season, ignored the whispering of insects and couldn't feel the happiness of life. Later, it realized this and resolutely threw away the fast fragments that it had worked so hard to find.

The American writer Cushing wrote an article [[You don't have to be perfect]] and wrote such a story; He felt very guilty because he made a mistake in front of the children. He thinks that his beautiful behavior in the eyes of children has been destroyed. He is afraid that children will not love him, so he doesn't want to take the initiative to admit his mistake. Under the inner torment, he has a hard time every day. Finally, one day, he couldn't help but take the initiative to apologize to the child and admit his mistake. He was surprised to find that the children loved him more than before. He was surprised at this; People are bound to make mistakes. People who often make mistakes are lovely, and no one expects you to be a saint.

A perfect person, in a sense, is also a poor person, who can't feel his pursuit and hope in life. Because of his perfect positioning, he can't realize that he has always been happy to pursue something.

Therefore, we don't have to demand perfection.

Hawking, an outstanding scientist, is a paralyzed disabled person. Beethoven, a great musician, couldn't hear his own songs, but his whole body was more happy than painful.

Life is like a team, the best team will lose points, and the worst team will have glorious moments. Our goal is to make ourselves gain more than lose as much as possible. . . . . . . . . .

Don't demand perfection, you don't have much time left in this life!

There was a great sculptor whose art was so perfect that when he finished a statue, he could hardly tell which was a real person and which was a statue. One day, the astrologer told the sculptor that his death was coming. The sculptor was very sad. He's getting scared. Like everyone else, he wants to avoid death. He thought hard and finally came up with a way. He made 1 1 statues for himself. When death knocked at the door, he hid among eleven statues and held his breath.

Death is confusing. He couldn't believe his eyes. This has never happened! I have never heard that God created two identical people. His creation is always unique. God never believes in any convention, everything is unique.

What the hell is going on? Twelve identical people? Now, which one should he take He can only take one ... death can't make a decision. Confused, he went back and asked God, "What did you do?" ? There will be twelve identical people, and only one I want to bring back. How should I choose? "

God smiled and called death to his side, whispering a way in his ear, a way to find the real thing in the "fake". He gave death a password. He said, "You go to the room where the artist is hiding and say this code."

Death asked, "Is it really useful?" God said, "Don't worry, just try."

With doubt, death left. He went into the room, looked around and said, "Sir, everything is perfect except one little thing. You did a good job, but you forgot one thing, so there is still a small flaw. "

The sculptor completely forgot that he had to hide. He jumped out and asked, "What flaw?"

Death smiled and said, "I caught you." This is the flaw-I can't forget myself. There is nothing perfect in the sky, let alone on the earth. Stop talking nonsense and come with me! "

E. A short story about rejection is urgently needed.

Before the release of "Looking Beautiful", we discussed to interview Wang Shuo. Wang Xiaoshan, an online celebrity, said that Wang Shuo was the best writer of vernacular Chinese in the past 100 years. At that time, my brain suddenly shorted out and I asked, "What about Cao Xueqin?" He scolded me angrily: "Is that a hundred-year-old Cao Xueqin?" I'm really disappointed in your magazine! "

It's really not a good reason to convince him that it looks beautiful. First of all, when it is used as a publication, its sales can't be compared with Wang Shuo's past novels. Moreover, Wang Shuo's own stunt is much bigger than this movie, and he also disdains hype. Since I entered the business, I have hardly seen his old man speak in the media, especially in literature, except for occasionally writing a swearing "I see Jin Yong". I heard that the reporter couldn't find him at all. His mobile phone has been changing all the time, and he usually only goes to the "Wang Bar" he opened. But my colleagues encouraged me to make a phone call, because the harder it is to chew, the more interesting it is to chew.

I didn't expect the phone to be connected as soon as it was dialed I'm hopeless, surprised and happy, and I don't know how to put it. Aside from the previous self-introduction, the following is roughly my conversation with him:

Wang: I don't give interviews to the media.

Are you not going to be interviewed by any media or just by us?

Wang: Basically, I don't give interviews to the media.

People miss you very much. You haven't been out for a long time. Don't you want to say something to them?

Wang: Hey, where are you? Who are they?

How on earth will you interview?

Wang: When I need publicity.

When do you need publicity?

Wang: Maybe when the new book is published.

I heard that you have written two new books and have hidden them for your daughter's dowry, right? There is also a script called "Days in the Palace", which is said to be extremely well written. Will it promote the film?

Wang: Who did you hear that? Who told you that?

If you are willing to be interviewed one day, can you give priority to our magazine?

W: Why? Why should I give priority to you?

Because you wrote us a column a few years ago, we have a good relationship.

Wang: Well, you have a much better relationship with me. Can I give priority to all of them?

Well, if you really don't want to, I won't force it.

Wang: Then I have to thank you for not pushing me.

Because it has been several weeks, I really can't remember a word of the conversation. It must be much longer than what I wrote. In the past, celebrities refused to interview, such as ZhangFeng yi, who would say in a very fierce tone, "Who called me?" Knowing that it was a reporter, I hung up the phone immediately without saying anything. Another example is Wang Anyi. Two of my colleagues got the same answer: "How did you get my phone number? Who told you that? " In fact, the wording is nothing, but the tone is obviously impatient. "Fans" always say that journalists don't understand celebrities, leaving them nowhere to hide. Even Faye Wong has to hide at home to have a baby. However, without the pursuit of these consumers, is it necessary for journalists to suffer from such timidity? I wouldn't have gone if I hadn't been begged to meet a celebrity for work. What does it matter to me that they have children and earn their money? The so-called causal cycle, with the public's selfish desires, naturally there are annoying reporters to disturb celebrities.

Back to Wang Shuo, he is one of the funniest celebrities I have harassed. In fact, he can simply refuse you, but he talked to me patiently and there was no anger in his tone. He was only joking with you. If celebrities are like him, journalists will not feel depressed, but they will be in a good mood after being rejected.

F. Ask God for help with a short story about "imperfection and perfection"

Think of a philosophical story I once read: a circle with a missing corner, trying to find the missing part. Therefore, it tries to scroll forward. Because of its defects, it walks very slowly and always stops step by step. It is precisely because of its slow rolling that it can discover calmly, think calmly, stop to enjoy the scenery along the way, but it is also comfortable and happy. Finally, one day, it found the missing corner and turned itself into a complete circle. Now, it thinks, I can stop to rest my feet and catch my breath. However, it involuntarily, under the traction of an inexplicable powerful force, rolled forward at a speed of ten times or even dozens of times, and never stopped for a moment. It's like a wound top, spinning and spinning, and the line of sight is blurred ... yeah, isn't it the same for people? When we are young, we are eager to mature; When we are poor, we are eager to be rich; When we are ignorant, we are eager for knowledge; When we are humble, we are eager for honor ... We once had so many longings and desires, but when we deserve it, when we are "successful", we can no longer control ourselves and let ourselves stay-stop to think quietly, stop to savor slowly, stop to listen to our inner voice, stop to comb our tired wings, stop to enjoy a cup of green tea, stop to enjoy a flower ... because of the pursuit of perfection. It suddenly occurred to me that life is a trip without a return trip. What matters is not the destination, but the scenery along the way. ...

G. A short story of seeking philosophy tells the story of a circle looking for fragments.

This philosophy tells you to face up to giving up, rejecting perfection and making us complete.

There is no perfection in life, and perfection only exists in ideals. There are regrets everywhere in life, which is the real life. Therefore, people should not be depressed in the pursuit of perfection, which may leave us more regrets. In fact, too many regrets in life are caused by excessive pursuit of people.

H. distinguish right from wrong or learn to refuse.

for instance

Guan Yu refused Cao Cao's reward to his senior official, Hou Lu, and returned to Liu Bei after five passes, gaining the reputation of loyalty.

Li Bai refused to "ruin his eyebrows and bend down to serve the powerful", and finally he was able to "laugh in the sky" and drink and write poems, which made him a prosperous Tang Dynasty.

Zhu Ziqing turned down American food aid when he was in extreme poverty and became a democracy fighter.

* * * rejected Chiang Kai-shek's plan to govern the river, bravely pursued the poor bandits, and realized national reunification.

Pushkin refused the luxurious and corrupt aristocratic life and left many immortal poems in a quiet small village.

Bruno refused to give up the truth, preferring to choose the stake to make the truth known to the world, making great contributions to the scientific development of all mankind and becoming the greatest hero in the eyes of all mankind.

Bai Juyi, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said, "If you don't drink turbid spring water, you will never bend trees. Everything is unjust, and the dung is ten million gold. "

Xu Beihong who painted cats and gave horses to support the Anti-Japanese War.

Cheng, this person would rather die under the gun than sing a volunteer play for the enemy and puppet.

Countless examples

Ma Yinchu refused to take bribes.

Ma Yinchu was a famous economist and social activist in modern China. Before liberation, he was the finance director of Zhejiang Province. One day, a man who wanted to be a county magistrate in Deqing County entrusted Ma Yinchu with 1,000 yuan and asked Ma Yinchu to open the back door and let him be a county magistrate. Ma Yinchu flew into a rage and scolded, "Shameless thing, this kind of person can hit his joints with money today. If he really becomes a county magistrate, he must be a corrupt official. With this one, he can't be a county magistrate. Immediately ordered the money back.

In the era of frequent wars, Einstein yearned for peace and tranquility. He once rejected a big speech on TV and an invitation from the Israeli Prime Minister. He lives frugally and refuses fame and fortune. It is such a scientist who has made great contributions to the development of physics. It is such an angel who has devoted himself to his life that we have captured the eternal glory of human nature in his refusal.

A scientist once destroyed his home for an experiment and almost lost his life. He is the Nobel Prize, and he left us the Nobel Prize-an award that inspired mankind to keep moving forward. After he invented explosives, many people advised him to apply for a patent, but he refused. He dedicated his invention to mankind and set up the Nobel Prize with all his property. Nobel's resounding name tells an eternal truth: rejecting vanity and accepting the mission of truth, goodness and beauty, we will certainly get a just position endowed by history.

Under the leisurely Nanshan Mountain, a poet is picking chrysanthemums. His simple clothes and thin back seem to reveal a trace of desolation. His spirit of not bending over five buckets of rice is praised by later generations. In fact, Tao Yuanming refused more than five dou meters. What he refused was a muddy dust net. He is a beautiful lotus, quietly blooming in the corner of the pond, even if ordinary, but can find peace of mind; Even if you are lonely, you can sublimate your life in a difficult situation. Reject secularism, accept poverty, and peacefully protect the pure land of the soul.

Xiu Yuan's life is full of thorns, but this can't stop our faith to move forward. At every stop in life, we can find our own goals, so we learn to refuse temptation and compromise, and we learn to accept beliefs and challenges. Every traveler with noble personality will learn to accept the truth.

A short story of witty refusal

Roosevelt held an important position in the navy before he was elected president of the United States. One day, a good friend asked him about the navy's plan to build a submarine base on an island in the Galle Sea. Roosevelt looked around and whispered, "Can you keep a secret?" The other party replied: "Of course." "Well," Roosevelt said with a smile, "so can I."

J. excessive pursuit of perfection leads to failure, short stories ... Please help.

? Once upon a time, there was a fisherman who went out to sea to fish? Take out a big pearl from the sea. This pearl is crystal clear and round? Fisherman can't put it down. But the only fly in the ointment is that. There is a small black spot on the pearl. The fisherman thought? What if we can get rid of the little black spots? Pearls are flawless? Will become priceless. So what? He began to peel black spots patiently. But remove a layer? Black spots still exist? Remove another layer? Black spots still exist? Remove another layer? Finally got rid of it? But? Pathetic? This huge pearl no longer exists.