Like making things difficult for your relatives and elders?

You can always hear such questions when you visit relatives in the New Year. For those who have traveled abroad for many years, due to the long-term lack of contact with relatives and friends, the language of * * * is relatively lacking. Using these questions as the opening remarks can also alleviate the embarrassment of having nothing to say.

However, for those who are keen to catch up with the competition and like to base their happiness on the suffering of others, these questions will become a sharp weapon for them to ridicule others.

Friends who have seen the news "Students studying in the United States at Peking University 12 Break up with their parents and don't go home" should still remember what Wang Meng mentioned in a long article.

The Spring Festival in 2005 was the last Spring Festival Wang Meng spent at home. When I was a child, I often made fun of Wang Meng's relatives for not peeling eggs. When I saw Wang Meng making a plastic model, I said to Wang Meng in a self-deprecating way: "It turns out that your hands-on ability will not be so bad only when you play with the model."

Wang Meng, who has chosen patience for a long time, didn't hold back this time and stood up and glared at her relatives.

Wang Meng's parents didn't protect him or say "no" to his relatives.

Children are teased and teased by relatives, and parents ignore their children's feelings, fail to protect their children and acquiesce in their relatives' behavior. The psychological harm caused by this practice to children is unimaginable to dad.

Then, if your child is teased and laughed at by his relatives, will you choose to stand by and do nothing in order not to hurt peace? Dad asked two friends around him, and they answered.

@ 丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫丫: Some relatives have played such a joke with my family Dabao before. Relatives said, "After your mother gave birth to your sister, your parents stopped loving you." After I heard it, I directly showed them my attitude and told them not to hear such jokes again, otherwise don't blame me for disowning people.

@ID is a unicorn: If my loved ones are in trouble, why should I choose patience? Protecting the baby is what parents should do. I won't give in to a question of principle provoked by my relatives.

During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends say these words, and parents should stop them in time:

You were picked up by your parents;

Your parents don't want you when they have a younger brother/sister;

Your parents will not take you home, but will leave you here;

Do you like your father or your mother better?

Sing a song, this red envelope can be given to you;

Tell the baby that pepper is sweet and wine is delicious.