Daughter-in-law scold mother-in-law the most incisive words _ 10 mother-in-law said to her mother-in-law (2)

My mother-in-law said 10 to her mother-in-law. Your son is just an ordinary man, not as great as you think. He married your daughter-in-law, not because other girls climbed into your house, so he cherished her.

We mothers all know how lazy our son is. Don't say that your son is busy and you want your daughter-in-law to do housework. He is busy chatting QQ and playing games. You actually know it in your heart.

Don't let your daughter-in-law take care of your son like you do. He is your son and your wife's husband. Her daughter-in-law will only treat him as a husband, not as a son.

Don't speak ill of your daughter-in-law in front of your son. If you do this, you will only make them quarrel endlessly. Finally, the last straw is divorce. If you divorce because of you, you will be guilty.

When your daughter-in-law gives birth to a child and takes care of the child, you can say that you have no obligation, but please remember, when you need to take care of her, please don't think about her. Your daughter-in-law has no obligation.

Don't think that your daughter-in-law wronged your son by asking him to do some housework. The family belongs to two people, and he has the obligation to share it.

7, don't always say whose daughter-in-law is good, no matter how good it is, it is also someone else's, you can't think of it. If you want a good wife, you must first be a good mother-in-law.

8. Don't think your daughter-in-law owes you just because you are kind to your son. Even if you collect debts, you should find the right creditor. If you want your daughter-in-law to be filial and care about you, please be kind to your daughter-in-law. It's not your request, you must ask others to satisfy you.

9. Don't always worry about how much money and room your daughter-in-law has. No matter how much, it doesn't matter to you. It's not your turn.

10. Daughter-in-law goes back to her parents' home to buy things for her parents. Please don't be jealous, because they have done more for her.

When a woman marries, she is a guest at her parents' house and an outsider at her in-laws' house. You have nothing. Finally, you get someone who can get the certificate with you.

If this person can't love you, love you and protect you, then you will become a helpless orphan.

And that person will often say to his wife, be nice to my mother, it is not easy for my mother to raise me.

But no man will say, mom, be nice to my wife. It's not easy for my wife to come to our house without her parents. We should treat her well.

How do mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live in harmony? 1. Your son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, so you must not go in to stop the fight. It's no big deal for couples to quarrel. At the same time, in order not to leave a terrible psychological shadow when parents and grandchildren quarrel, you can take your grandson out, or go shopping with him, or buy him something to eat and play, and then take him back when you estimate that your son and daughter-in-law are exhausted or it is time to turn off the fire. When a son and daughter-in-law quarrel without an audience, naturally there will be no high interest in fighting a protracted war; Secondly, the quarrel between husband and wife is originally a quarrel at the end of the bed. If you persuade, you will get burned; Third, take your grandson out for a walk, you can be quiet, out of sight, out of mind.

2. If your son and daughter-in-law come back to your house for dinner, no matter how busy you are, don't complain if your daughter-in-law doesn't take the initiative to help you, and don't criticize her for being lazy, otherwise there will be fewer and fewer people coming later. At the same time, you must remember, don't instruct your husband to help you with your work in front of your daughter-in-law, don't instruct his husband to help you pick vegetables and wash dishes, and don't instruct his husband to help you prepare meals. Especially in front of your daughter-in-law, you must never tell your husband what to do, let alone insult and belittle your husband at will, because parents are the best teaching materials, and your daughter-in-law will definitely copy what you have done to your precious son.

If your son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, you can't avoid it. You'd better take the simplest, most direct and most effective method, that is, severely criticize your child. You don't care if your children are right or if your daughter-in-law is right. There is no absolute right or wrong in quarreling between husband and wife. You just need to take a clear-cut stand to help your daughter-in-law, as long as you can make her calm down first. At the same time, in this way, you can let your children know the importance of mutual humility between husband and wife, let your daughter-in-law feel that she has not been discriminated against or treated unfairly in your family, and let her feel the important position in this family. Perhaps your criticism can make her daughter-in-law feel that she is obviously biased towards herself. Because no matter how wronged the son is, it will never lead to the separation of their husband and wife.

You should feel very happy if your daughter-in-law is willing to let you take care of their children. Generally speaking, if your daughter-in-law is in trouble, she will always ask her mother for help. She will never ask you for help unless she has to. Therefore, in this case, you should be duty-bound to help your daughter-in-law solve practical difficulties, and don't make excuses to refuse, so as not to cause a lifelong gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, if your daughter-in-law doesn't want you to take care of their children at all, or she doesn't think it's necessary to worry about your fatigue, then you don't need to volunteer to avoid a thankless and disharmonious ending.

Never criticize your son in front of your daughter-in-law, especially how lazy he is at home, lacking due diligence, the necessary sense of responsibility, filial piety, self-motivation, mutual humility, and his insecurity will make his daughter-in-law unhappy. You know, your daughter-in-law will marry your son just because she thinks he is good. Therefore, although you criticize your son, your daughter-in-law will think that you are talking nonsense, which will create a psychological gap between your daughter-in-law and you that will never be eliminated.

6. Never interfere with the consumption concept of your son and daughter-in-law. You know, they spend their own money, and they are also accumulating and cultivating their feelings through eating, drinking and having fun. It should be understandable that they enjoy their lives. So, if they occasionally lose control of their plans, you can help them if you can, and keep your mouth shut if you can't. You should let them solve the economic crisis by themselves, and you should let them bear the planning mistakes themselves.

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