What should I do if I always feel unsociable?

Being gregarious does not affect a person's development.

Yu Hua wrote a passage: I no longer pretend to have many friends, but return to loneliness and start a lonely life with the real me.

It's very kind of you to spend a lot of time and energy, but it's no use.

Like-minded friends are attracted, and it is more important to enrich yourself than to please others.

I used to have a classmate named Cai S. She was well-known among her classmates because many things in school were not understood and impressed by other students.

At first, I met a girl in a skirt together one day, and everyone hit it off. Only Cai S refused to allow others to take turns to do ideological work for her. She didn't give in. She insisted that wearing skirts was not convenient for exercise and was not used to it. The next day, when other girls came to class in skirts, all the boys were surprised, but Cai S's unique sweatpants surprised all the boys and girls.

Since then, Cai S has gradually been crowned with an unsociable impression.

Cai s, on the other hand, ignores his own preferences, doesn't care about other people's pointing fingers, and only follows his own choices.

Classmates have dinner, and when the girl is ordering fruit juice or milk delicately, she orders a bottle of apple vinegar drink by herself.

During recess, girls go to the toilet and have dinner after class. Girls are used to being together in groups, but she has always been used to being alone, running around and walking faster than others 1.5 times.

On holidays, while other girls were enjoying the treatment of the little princess given by their boyfriends, she plunged into the library, and other girls just got back from a late-night date.

Later, when other girls were still traveling around with their boyfriends, she had already got the internship notice from the ideal unit.

When she graduated, when other students were still reluctant to go and confused about the future, she was hired as a regular employee by the unit.

Cai is still so unsociable after graduation.

She seldom chats with her classmates. Her circle of friends is full of pure chicken soup for the soul, a little boring philosophy of life, and some articles and quotations from top successful people in China and even the world, which are as boring as textbooks.

Occasionally posting some personal life content is also a corner of the airport, blue sky or a bright flower.

One day, a girl asked some knowledge about pregnant women in the group. Cai S suddenly appeared and answered a lot for this girl. Later, under everyone's questioning, she found that she had already given birth.

And one day, when a classmate complained in the group that the work was not smooth, the leadership was not harmonious, and the company was not atmospheric, Cai S came out again, criticizing and comforting this classmate from various aspects such as self-cultivation, workplace planning, employee literacy, and company development law. Later, she inadvertently revealed that she is now the team leader of more than 10 subordinates.

Look, gregarious doesn't mean anything. As Lu Xun said, cattle and sheep flock together, and all animals are lonely.

Loneliness never destroys a person, and more people are excellent because of loneliness.

If you can't find the right person, you probably can't change the wrong self. Welcome to pay attention to the amateur scholars of WeChat official account with the same name.