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Since we got married, my in-laws and I have been in constant conflict. There are three houses at home, which can be divided if conditions permit, but the old man just refuses to interfere in our lives

Since we got married, my in-laws and I have been in constant conflict. There are three houses at home, which can be divided if conditions permit, but the old man just refuses to interfere in our lives. 1, in fact, you shouldn't get married because you don't have the material conditions to get married. Imagine that at this consumption level, your total household income is only 1000. How can it be enough? Therefore, the small family you have established has hidden dangers from the beginning, that is, you must rely on external financial support to maintain it. Then, without economic independence, we can only submit to humiliation!

Now that you are married, you should face up to the reality: you can see that your in-laws are constantly putting pressure on you financially. I understand your feelings, but I don't sympathize with your experience. Because you two lack long-term life goals (from such blind marriage) and lack enterprise (from husband's salary 1000 or more and wife's unemployment), what will you do if you are not pressured? Forget about those houses. If it belongs to an old couple, you should be fully prepared. For various reasons (for example, the old couple needed high medical expenses and had to sell the house for money), and finally they all went away. What do we do? So, behind the pressure, it is actually forcing you to change!

3. You are pregnant (in fact, you really shouldn't ... well, what can I say). If it is urged by his parents, that's no problem; If they don't agree (don't mind if you don't speak well, they don't even want you to get married, so they are indifferent to the problem of children), aren't you even worse? I'm really worried about how you will be the parents of your children and who will support them. In-laws? Then you can only bear it!

I understand your situation very well. Your parents-in-law don't respect you. In fact, they are also helpless. Because you are their daughter-in-law, they have to take you with them, or others will accuse them. But at the same time, you also know that you are indefensible and can only rely on others, just as you said: I scold you for being ugly and dare not answer back, just like a mouse sees a cat ... Why? Why dare not talk back? Why ..... after all, I still ate the soft mouth of others and took the soft mouth of others!

What now?

1. Do you have any plans for financial independence? If not, if you still want to maintain the status quo (relying on your in-laws), then you can only bear it. If so, then act quickly! Don't mention any difficulties, everyone has difficulties, and your biggest difficulty now is that your husband and wife have no money! To change the status quo, to make money, and then economic independence! Don't think that 1000 yuan will not be turned over, and it is unrealistic to eat and drink for nothing;

2. You don't like children being taken care of by parents-in-law. What are you worried about? The most important thing is that you work hard to make money, so that you can have a stable source of income and stand on your own feet before your children go to primary school. At that time, take the children, even if you rent a house, see who can stop you! Only in this way, your parents-in-law won't let you take care of the children, so you have the face to go to the women's Federation or something;

3. Everyone's heart is meat. Which parent doesn't love children? Put yourself in your shoes, and I can understand your parents-in-law. Because that's how my parents raised me and my brother. As long as I leave school, I have to work. As long as you work, you have to pay, including meals, utilities and telephone charges at home (it used to cost thousands to install a fixed telephone, and I paid one third) until you have your own house and leave your parents' house. There's nothing wrong with it. I have a lot of say at home! Our two brothers have strong living ability and housework ability, and there is almost no housework that they can't do (hehe, I'm afraid that's how Shanghai men practice). I think, when you have a stable income and can be financially independent, I'm afraid all the problems will be solved.

I advise you not to be impulsive at present. Don't talk about real estate and salary income. You only talk about bringing shame on yourself. Now I have to swallow my pride and change my husband first. Of course, you can ask your husband to come forward and ask your father-in-law about his clothes. If my father-in-law really can't change, and your mother's family can unconditionally accept you to take your children back to live for a long time, then there must be a chance. Take your children. However, be sure to think clearly: if you go and come back, I'm afraid life will be even more sad!