How to fight back against rumors in the company?

However, this kind of gossip competition is very rampant in the workplace. Although he does not want to kill someone with a cold weapon, this kind of gossip can slowly kill people with one knife. If you say that in the workplace, you If you ignore such rumors, others will say that you have done something wrong, and everyone will look at your jokes. If you ignore the rumors, then the rumors will get worse and worse, and eventually your reputation will be ruined. Therefore, many people in the workplace I'm very distressed by rumors. It's not appropriate to fight back hard, nor is it appropriate to ignore them. So how should we deal with such rumors in the workplace?

One, show weakness and fight back. There are always some people in the workplace who deliberately try to take advantage of you. They seize on your weaknesses, deliberately squeeze on you, and ridicule you. If you have a bad temper at this time and quarrel with them, it will play into their hands. On the one hand, you may not necessarily argue with others. On the other hand, if you argue to protect your own face, you will give others the impression that you have a strong vanity, avoid mistakes, and cannot face your own problems. The more you argue, the worse you will show to others. The more problems arise, you must know that others can kill you with just one sentence. I am reminding you for your own good, so that you will not make mistakes at work in the future. In this way, you will be dumb and eat Coptis chinensis. You can't express your pain, you can only watch others bully you, so your correct way is to show weakness. If others say you are wrong, then you must admit your mistakes, thank him for his guidance, and praise him in public. You are a good person, but when you give in like this, everyone will focus on the person who said bad things, and everyone will say that the other person is mean. In this way, you not only show your own mind, but also completely expose the other person, killing two birds with one stone.

Two, fight back silently.

When faced with deliberate provocations from some people in the workplace, never face them head-on. You must know that there is no harm in bowing your head at the right time. You must know that bowing your head is a kind of ability. It is not inferiority or cowardice, it is sobriety. In the transformation of society, you can only stand out by bowing your head. You must know that your tolerance will allow you to avoid many unreasonable disasters, and your tolerance will completely expose others. The more obvious he is, the more he will be exposed, and the more he will be exposed, the more you will be exposed. The more handles you can use to catch him, and because you are forbearing enough, your colleagues will sympathize with you and think that you are more honest and easy to get along with.

Although they may not necessarily help you, at least they will not harm you. You must know that Chinese people sympathize with the weak. When you have tolerated it to a certain extent, you will find an opportunity to explode completely. , show your temper, seize the opponent's handle and press forward step by step, and your opponent will become the target of thousands of accusations because of your outburst. Therefore, in the workplace, the more you lower your head, the more humble you will be, and the more you raise your head. The more domineering you are, the more likely you are to lose everything in the end.

Silent response. When faced with deliberate provocations from some people in the workplace, never face them head-on. You must know that there is no harm in bowing your head at the right time. You must know that bowing your head is a kind of ability. It is not inferiority or cowardice. It is a transformation in sobriety. Only by bowing your head can you Come forward, you must know that your tolerance will allow you to avoid many unreasonable disasters, and your tolerance will completely expose others. The more obvious he is, the more he will be exposed. The more he is exposed, the more you can catch him. many.

Take good care of your emotions, clarify your thoughts, and consider solutions, because at the same time you maintain your face, you are like a peacock spreading its tail, showing your beauty but revealing your butt, so you are exposed. Not only will your temper not help you, but it will also harm you. There is a saying in Sun Tzu's Art of War: Don't be overjoyed when you win; don't be discouraged when you lose; those who have thunder in their chests and a flat lake in their faces can be worshiped as generals.