Between brothers and sisters, will they be cut off from contact because of one thing?

On the morning of the eighth day of the first month of this year, a white-haired old man came to the house. As soon as I entered the door, I plopped on my knees and kept saying, sister, it's been more than 4 years, and I've come to apologize to you. When I was wondering who this man was, my mother rushed in to kick him out ...

When I was a child, I heard from my grandfather that he had four children, two sons and two daughters. But as long as I can remember, I've only met my aunt and my brother, and I've never seen the big brother my grandfather said.

My mother never mentioned Big Uncle in front of us. At that time, I was too young to understand, so I would pester my mother to say where Big Uncle went. Tired of being asked, my mother will say dead. At that time, we naively thought that my uncle was really dead.

later, when I was older, my mother told us. My uncle is still here and in good health. Then we wonder, since we are still here and brothers and sisters, why have we never seen our uncle come to our house and we have never been to his house?

not only my mother, but also my aunt, little brother and other cousins have never been to my uncle's house.

once, when my mother went to help someone else's house, my father secretly told us why their brothers and sisters almost never contacted each other.

At that time, my grandmother was still alive and my mother was only in her teens. Of the four brothers and sisters, my mother is the youngest and my grandmother loves her the most. Unfortunately, when my mother was 13, my grandmother got sick.

It's not a serious illness now, but that was before, when medical technology was underdeveloped and my family couldn't afford to treat it. It was difficult to borrow enough money to treat my grandmother. At that time, my uncle was already in his twenties. He patted his chest and vowed that he would pay the hospitalization fee for his grandmother.

who knows, he didn't come back after waiting all night! It turned out that after he got the money, he went out fooling around and spent all the money to save his grandmother's life in one night! With the money gone, he never dared to come back. The hospital urged him to pay the money, or he would let his family bring his grandmother home.

Desperate aunt and little brother couldn't help it, so they cried and pulled their grandmother back on the scooter all the way. A few days after I got home, my grandmother left! My mother couldn't cry at that time, and she was like a fool. She didn't eat or drink for several days.

Finally, the villagers thought that if she continued like this, she would die. They just let some older grandmothers feed her some rice soup spoonfuls before she recovered.

after that, my mother stopped talking to my uncle. But for the sake of brother and sister, aunt and little brother forgave this abrasive eldest brother. However, the later incident completely made the big sister and the little brother see through the big brother's helplessness and unrepentant, and broke off the relationship from then on.

At that time, my mother had been married for more than 1 years, but my grandfather's health was getting worse day by day. My grandfather died in the first grade of primary school.

I remember clearly that my grandfather was lying peacefully on the bed in his room. My mother cried and asked me to go out. They wanted to wipe my grandfather and change clothes.

after grandpa was sent up the mountain, everyone's inner grief was not calmed down, and Big Uncle began to be a demon again. Before all the guests from home left, he took all the gift money with the guests!

that's not enough. he also insisted that his little brother had secretly hidden money, so how could it be only this? The great aunt I met for the first time in my life is also like a bitch. Let my little brother take out all the hidden money, or turn the house upside down!

How could an honest little brother do such a thing? It's a dirty lie! The guests also stood on the side of the little brother and said that the old man was not right. Just after he was buried, his brothers were fighting over money, and they were not afraid of others' jokes!

Big Uncle doesn't care. In his eyes, apart from money, there is no kinship.

that day, he really went to my little uncle's room and rummaged around, with a stick in his hand. Whoever tried to stop him, he picked up the stick and waved it at him! Many guests were so scared that they didn't even eat, so they hurried back.

After that, Big Uncle and Little Uncle fell out completely! My sister was always upset about her grandmother, and this time she stopped seeing him completely!

it's been more than 4 years, but I didn't expect this white-haired old man to be the bastard uncle! No wonder my mother kicked him out as soon as she saw him.

I advised my mother to calm down and stop crying during the Chinese New Year. Looking at this 7-year-old man kneeling on the ground, my heart is really uncomfortable.

I helped him up and poured him a cup of hot water. When I reached for the water, I saw his hands shaking! He was accompanied by a man in his forties. It seems that it should be his son. I should call him cousin.

To calm his mood a little, he began to tell the purpose of coming to my house.

It turns out that he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer at the end of last year. He said it was God's punishment for him. He had done so many wrong things before, and now it's time to be punished. But he always felt sorry in his heart and owed too much to his brother and sister.

Although there are sons and daughters now, grandchildren are getting married and starting families soon. But he often feels lonely. Every time he is in the village, other old people are unwilling to talk to him. He knows that behind his back, others say that he is cruel and that he has done too much evil.

Last year, there was a boss in the village who invested in building a vegetable greenhouse. His house and fields were occupied and he received a lot of compensation. He has not been in contact with his brothers and sisters for more than 4 years, and he also regrets that he has agreed with several cousins that he will not give them a penny of the compensation this time. Give this money to his own brothers and sisters, which is also a compensation!

several children agreed, and then they came to apologize one by one. Because we've never been together, we don't know where we live at all, and we ask from house to house.

Seeing my mother wiping away tears all the time, I know that after so many years, the resentment in her heart has long been forgotten. No matter how big the hatred is, it can't stop the kinship connected by blood!

finally, my mother didn't ask for any money from my uncle, and she didn't leave my uncle for dinner at home when she arrived. But in the end, she said: I'll go back to see you with my sister another day ... < P > When I wrote this, my tears couldn't stop falling. It is gratifying and sad that the old man, who is nearly ancient and rare, finally got the understanding of his family at the end of his life. I'm glad I didn't leave with regrets, but I'm sad that there isn't much time left for this joy.

Therefore, I also want to tell my friends who read this article:

First, don't do anything that makes your family sad. It hurts your heart, but it hurts your feelings;

second, if you do something wrong, admit your mistake and repent in time, and never make a mistake again;

Third, home is always a shelter from the wind, so cherish this kinship, which is a blessing that was cultivated in my last life!