I broke up with my sister. We don't talk anymore.

problem description:

my brother-in-law and I had a quarrel more than ten days ago. I didn't expect him to be so poisonous. He tried to strangle me with a quilt. We've argued before. Because he likes to touch his hands when he talks. Really, our sisters really hate him. My sister A told my sister that my brother-in-law can't talk. Still do it. My sister just calls me sister a. It's nonsense to say that you are always talking. My sister A was so angry that she left without saying anything. Later, their contacts were much less. My brother-in-law and I also quarreled that day. I'll tell my family about it. I was really scared at that time. I don't know who else I can tell. How can I tell my friends when such things are being said? My mother called my brother-in-law. Scold him. And he's going to hit him. I really wanted to chop him to death with a knife, and I hated my sister for finding me such a brother-in-law. That day may be the saddest time I have cried in my life. I also want to ask my brother to have someone beat him. But my brother is not married. If this gets out, it may be helpful for him to find the right image in the future. I didn't scream after that. I told my sister about it that day. He said nothing. Just crying there. I remember when I said something bad about my brother-in-law. She always said, you don't have a mouth to talk about people yet, so you know that yours will not be so good in the future. I think what I'm doing. If it were mine. If you touch someone else. I will definitely scold him. Stand up and speak for others. Instead of crying there. No matter what I say about her home. She always said, you haven't said anything about people yet. When I was a child, my elder sister and I had a really good relationship. In the evening, my brother and I went to his house to get things. I dare not go alone. They all pull their faces so long. My brother said that he would never associate with people like them again. It seems that what is wrong is that we are. My sister didn't say a word when we got there. So embarrassed. I'll just talk to my sister. I won't recognize you anymore. I'm afraid of being killed by your family. Finally, I don't know how I died. She still doesn't talk. My mother and they don't agree with me going out with my sister's house either. Why is my sister so promising? Do I have to recognize such sisters? My sister A and my brother both said that they should not take anything with them in the future. Especially things like getting married. Afraid my brother-in-law will harm us. We did the right thing for me. No matter what you say. It's true that I don't recognize my sister. But I didn't expect my sister. . . . . . . . . . . . Hey

Analysis:

I think your whole family should talk to your sister, just as a family meeting. Ask your sister why she is so protective of your brother-in-law. Of course, you can't let your brother-in-law be there. Maybe your sister has some unavoidable difficulties! Otherwise, I feel that it is absolutely impossible for ordinary people to be like your elder sister. After all, they are all sisters.