Which do you love more, love at first sight or affectionate companionship?

? In my mind, love at first sight should be the psychological process of meeting each other for the first time, being attracted by each other's charm, having a good impression on each other, wanting to know each other first, communicating with each other, and then getting along. And affectionate companionship is a long-term companionship of each other's feelings after a period of getting along and getting to know each other.

? If I have to choose between the two, I prefer the latter.

? First of all, I think love at first sight is often when two people meet for the first time and fall in love because they are attracted by each other's appearance and temperament. Such feelings are often warm and sweet at first, but if you don't grasp the degree of getting along well in the later period, it is easy to have problems, and even the feelings break down and become old and dead.

As for affectionate companionship, I think both sides have known each other for a long time. Maybe at first, they didn't feel anything, didn't say they liked it, and didn't say they would hate it. However, after a period of getting along, the two developed a good impression, and their feelings gradually warmed up, becoming an enviable affectionate companion. It may not be the same as the passion of love at first sight. It may be dull at first, but the timeliness may be longer.

Secondly, when we fall in love at first sight, we often see each other's best side, but everyone has shortcomings. At first, we may try to keep our best side, but after being together for a long time, we will definitely expose some shortcomings. If the initial impression is too good, it will be difficult to accept the shortcomings exposed later, just like the seller show and buyer show in Taobao now, which often have unexpected results.

? And affectionate companionship is produced on the basis of knowing each other for a certain period of time. First of all, you should accompany each other and get to know each other, and then you will be treated by your family. It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession. Without the company of both parties, problems are often prone to occur. Like many long-distance relationships, I feel lonely when I need you, but you can't accompany me. In addition, I also think that time is actually a very magical thing, which can dilute everything and heal all the pain.

Finally, I always feel that affectionate company can warm people's hearts. There is a saying: start with face value, fall into talent, and be loyal to character. There is no denying that getting along with two people may be more or less because of appearance at first, not necessarily because of being amazing, as long as both sides are right about each other, but if they have no intrinsic value and bad temper, it is naturally difficult to get along with each other. At first, the affectionate companionship may be that both of them like each other very much and don't hate each other, but later, in the process of getting along, they realized each other's goodness and personality, and finally decided to be together for a lifetime. So in my opinion, although love at first sight may last forever, deep companionship is more in line with my wishes.