Why are some boys not taking the initiative now?

Generally speaking, boys should be active in the process of love. ..... Take the initiative to pursue girls, take the initiative to be nice, take the initiative to express yourself enthusiastically, and take the initiative to love your girlfriend ... Only in this way can you gain the trust and favor of girls and finally be with your beloved.

However, some boys are not like this ... they are not active in love ... These boys behave like this for the following reasons:

1, don't want to fall in love.

This kind of boy doesn't want to fall in love at all, so he has no feeling at all about this kind of thing. Their focus is not here at all, so they will not take the initiative to do anything.

2. I haven't met the object I like yet.

Although this kind of boy wants to fall in love, he has never found a suitable object. ..... so, they won't do anything until they meet the right person.

3, lack of self-confidence.

This kind of boy also wants to fall in love. ..... but they have no confidence in themselves, so although they have ideas in their hearts, they dare not express them, so they are entangled and do not take the initiative to take action.

4. pretend to be reserved.

This kind of boy thinks highly of himself and feels that he is in good condition ... so they will not take the initiative to confess to the person they like, but wait for the other person to take the initiative to find themselves. ...

These situations are the thoughts of those boys who are not active. ..... It's hard to say whether these ideas are right or wrong ... Do your own thing and take action according to your own analysis and judgment. As long as it doesn't affect others, there will be no problem.