I can’t communicate with my wife after I have a child, and I always quarrel.

I am not an experienced person, but I want to give you some sincere advice.

First of all, let’s see if the wife has any mental disorders before and after giving birth. Many women will have some emotional depression or instability under certain circumstances. This may be caused by your carelessness and lack of careful care. I hope you can first find out the reason from yourself, and then use your sincerity and true feelings to slowly ease her emotions. I believe it will be much better.

Then see if you are handling these things inappropriately. You yourself think that you have done many things well and communicated well in advance, but communication is not a one-sided expression. What you say must be understood by them. This is a complete expression. Moreover, even if there are some special circumstances, what you should do at this time should not be complaining and blaming, but find a way to solve it. This is what a man should do.

In the end, even if you are right but your wife is particularly wrong, you should learn to tolerate and understand, and even adapt and change. Instead of escaping! Yes, you now feel that leaving is an escape in itself. I believe that a man has the courage to face difficulties. Your parents and children are waiting for you.

I have to work and I don’t have time to persuade you. Let’s talk later!