People with low eq will be said, do you think low eq is really low eq?

Nowadays, many people will measure a person by emotional intelligence and IQ. A person should not only have a high IQ, but also have a high EQ. However, the level of EQ is not as accurate as that of intelligence. It can only be judged according to the individual's comprehensive behavior, what he says and does in daily life, and the countermeasures he takes in some unexpected situations. Therefore, for a person, we need to have long-term contact with him to judge his emotional intelligence.

Most people like to live, work and study with people with high emotional intelligence, because people with high emotional intelligence can bring them a lot of happiness, and sometimes they feel comfortable watching people with high emotional intelligence do things. Big data shows that there are no more people with high emotional intelligence than those with low emotional intelligence. People with low emotional intelligence are often not loved by people, and even people with low emotional intelligence will be blamed by people around them when they do things. People with low EQ don't make others feel comfortable and seldom bring joy to the people around them like people with high EQ. People with low emotional intelligence are sometimes misunderstood by others because they don't quite understand what others say, and these things are easy for those with high emotional intelligence to understand.

Let's take a look at the performance of people with low emotional intelligence in daily life. First of all, people with low emotional intelligence are not good at communicating with others, especially when they may play jokes on others in some important social occasions, they will not hear them. Then they will express their dissatisfaction and express their anger at this time. Then this time will cause a very embarrassing scene, which will have a great impact on your social interaction and the mood of others. Then people like this will have fewer and fewer friends, and all these situations I just mentioned are some people's real low emotional intelligence. When some people don't want to negotiate with someone, he will show that he is a low emotional intelligence, and then let himself use these words to force others to avoid communication with these people.

For example, when you hate a person, you will use some words to stimulate the other person and keep others away from yourself to achieve your goals. Of course, this situation may be good for us, but if it is really low emotional intelligence as I just said, it will have a bad influence on ourselves and others. Let your friends become less and less, so that others will think that you are very incompetent. And think that you are so low-minded that you can't understand even the most basic social words, which will make your knowledge very simple.