How to be a happy woman, Yang Lan gave women 24 happiness lessons.

How to be a happy woman, Yang Lan gave women 24 happiness lessons.

(A) good upbringing is the premise of temperament beauty

1. Correct.

greedy

good and honest

4. Language civilization

5. Reasonable language expression

6. Not proud

7. Keep your promise

8. Care for others

9. considerate and generous

10. Kind-hearted and compassionate.

As long as you have a dream, choose the right stage and seize the opportunity, women can live as wonderful as men!

Work is not only a means to make a living, but also a carrier to enjoy life.

Be prepared to start from scratch for your dreams.

Excellent people also have shortcomings, even ordinary people have their bright spots. You always have one thing that you are good at, and you didn't succeed because you didn't find your own bright spot, or you didn't have the right to make good use of it.

Happiness is God's gift to those whose hearts are free. -Voltaire

To be a happy person, you must first be the master of your own thoughts and actions. In other words, you can only get what you want.

We need to set a clear goal. When we begin to do something, we might as well ask ourselves calmly: What do I want to do? What do I want?

Only you can judge whether you are successful or not. Never let others define your success. Only you can decide what you want to be and what you want to do. Only you know what makes you satisfied and what makes you feel fulfilled.

After knowing what you want to do, you should fully understand yourself, evaluate yourself objectively and know what you can do. Only in this way can you find your proper position in the social coordinate system when choosing a job, which can not only effectively play your talents, but also fully tap your potential, so as to maximize your dreams and self-worth. In short, you should have your own goals, know what you want to do, and then put it into action, so that you can succeed.

An optimistic woman always looks forward. They saw a beautiful life, a promising future and everyone's happiness. They believe that happiness belongs to everyone and everyone has their own happiness. Happiness lies in life. To find your own happiness, you have to live. They have a good habit of looking for happiness and always looking forward, so both life and work are happy and positive.

I believe our society is full of wealth. As long as I go to work, I will find wealth and get wealth. This is the secret of my success. Remember: as long as you always see the sunny side of food, the world will be brighter and better. If people know that it is their responsibility to stay happy and perform their duties happily, then the world will be better. Happiness should become our habit and live happily every day. Happiness is the best guarantee to make others happy.

If no one gives you encouragement, clap for yourself.

Ways to enhance confidence:

1. Just want to succeed, not fail.

2. Believe in yourself and be sure of yourself

3. Be ambitious.

Examine one's own shortcomings

1. Stop all criticism.

2. Don't scare yourself.

3. The relationship between management and itself

Educate yourself

5. Maintain integrity and commitment.

Looking for happiness

Love yourself, women are angels.

Believe that you can fly, then you can have wings.

Face up to your imperfect self and be your best self.

Sound the alarm for your happiness.

Happiness sometimes plays jokes on us and comes in disguise. Opportunity, friendship, success, league members ... they are all similar to happiness, but they are not the same as happiness. Happiness will come from their costumes, and it will get closer and closer. Only by unveiling the veil will we find its true appearance and connotation. Happiness is sometimes short-lived. If the suffering and happiness of life are divided at the two ends of the scale, the suffering is huge, and happiness may be just a small gem. But the pointer must be tilted to the side of happiness, because there is gold of life there.

It is no accident that people feel happy. Many details or personal habits in life largely determine whether people feel happy or not.

Pay attention to every detail of life, and don't let life leave too many regrets.

Life is full of details. Give a sweet word to your lover, give a phone call to your family, give a smile to people around you ..... Happiness is not always a sudden event, but actually exists in a little bit, in every detail that constitutes our daily life. Life is made up of trivial things, and every bit on this line is a button of happiness. Savor this little bit of stranger carefully, and you will feel that life is more colorful. A small move and a warm word are enough to understand the connotation and secret of a happy life.

Li Zhi in the Ming Dynasty said: "Those who are childlike are sincere; If childlike innocence is indispensable, so is sincerity. A child's heart is absolutely false and naive, and it is also the beginning of the first reading. If you lose your childlike innocence, you lose your sincerity; If you lose your heart, you lose a real person. " Childlike heart can't be lost. This is the need to be a true lover and a healthy, happy and long-lived person. For girls, childlike innocence cannot be lost, which is the need for girls to enjoy love, happiness and youth.

Man is one of the animals that make rubbish and pollute himself.

The ancients said: "Leisure is comfortable, and the cause is to read poems and flowers."

British essayist Stevenson wrote in his essay "Walking": "We are in such a hurry to do things, write things and earn money. We want our voice to be heard in the silence of eternal smile for a while, but we forget one important thing. In this major event, these things are just details, and that is life. "

Enjoying life is a way to enrich life and help it to be full of vitality.

High heels look shiny, but it's really not a happy thing to wear them on your feet during a long trip. Marriage is the same, not flashy but appropriate. But in any case, what kind of feet match what kind of shoes, what kind of women match what kind of men. If a woman wants to marry a good man, find herself a lifelong support. Don't forget that men also have brains. Will they marry anyone they want? No, they will also choose carefully and think twice before they act, and they will walk into the marriage hall with peace of mind until they meet the person they want.

Marriage should be cautious, and at the same time, it should be managed with care. Happiness is always hard-won, but as long as you can always think of each other and face life with a grateful heart, you are the happiest person in the world.

The more you want his love, the more you want him to stay with you, and the more he will stay away from you and turn his back on love. You can pull him to the left as much as you want, and he can swing him to the right.

Lovers often need to break free from the chains of love around their necks. We should believe that true love can transcend time and space. Therefore, as both sides of the marriage, please keep a certain distance. This distance includes not only the scale of space, but also the scale of mind. Leave your own unique personality and don't go with him; Keep your inner privacy, and don't let him think that you are a pale negative after exposure; Leave you a meaningful and hazy mystery, don't try to keep him away. Don't imagine that his eyes will always focus on you. Everything should be formed naturally, and there should be a distance between you and him so that each other can breathe freely.

Zheng Banqiao's famous saying "It's hard to be confused" makes the world understand that it's easier to be smart than to be confused, and it's almost impossible for people who are entangled in the world to have great wisdom and great achievements. Don't care too much. What's wrong with being confused? Only by being open-minded, letting go and looking forward can we break free from the entanglement of trivial matters. It is really neither good nor necessary to get to the bottom of everything that happens in life, and it also destroys the poetry of life.

The Bible says, "God can't come to everyone, so he has lost his mother." Mother is an angel sent by God.

Fame and fortune in life are like floating clouds. In fact, what is most worth cherishing is affection and affection.

No matter where the child goes and what he does in the future, he is from China, so we must let the excellent China culture permeate into his blood. The mother's biggest task is to cultivate her children's healthy personality and way of thinking.

In a family, parents who really love their children should not only meet their material needs, but also help their children ideologically, so that they can learn more, cultivate more, stand on their own feet, sweat and eat by themselves instead of sleeping in the comfort zone provided by their parents. Teaching children to learn the right path, take the right path and do the right thing will benefit them for life and grow up healthily.

Marx said: "Parents' occupation is to educate their children. "How to education? Mr. Lu Xun's answer is: "Cultivate their hard-working physical strength, pure and noble morality and broad and free spirit to accommodate the new trend, that is, the power to swim in the new trend of the world without being submerged." "Looking at today's world, it has become the main trend to cultivate children's self-reliance ability, cultivate children's endurance to be honed, and encourage children to be brave in competition.

No matter being a child's friend or a child's teacher, a mother is the most trustworthy person in the world. It is a mother's bounden duty to love and educate her children. Mother should integrate the three roles of teacher, friend and mother. When educating children, we should not neglect the care of children's hearts and emotions, nor forget the responsibility of education. Because the mother is not only the first mentor in the child's life, but also the mentor of the child's life.

When caring for children's growth, we should pay more attention to spiritual guidance rather than spiritual bondage.

Be a happy angel in your child's heart.

There are many things in this world worth our efforts, such as money, reputation, status, achievements ... but a person's energy is limited. Sometimes, you have to give yourself a position and choose what is most important to you.

A professional woman, no matter how much she participates in the society, even if she becomes a factory director, manager, county magistrate, mayor or even governor and minister, can't give up her traditional responsibilities in the family. A woman before marriage, a wife after marriage, and a mother after childbirth.

A woman should never forget her characteristics as a woman. Cherish what you have now, chat with your family, play games with your children, and experience heartfelt happiness in the laughter of your loved ones.

Career success can bring us the joy and satisfaction of success, but family happiness and harmony is my life's work. I am a greedy woman, and I hope I can have both.

We need bread and love. Love is a thread that needs management and care.

Man's existence is like a crab in a basket. You have me and I have you, criss-crossing, closely related, and hurting each other. But before we do things, we can think more about others and act with a kind heart, then the harm between people will be reduced and exempted, and more care and true love will flow down.

The most beautiful music of the soul is kindness.

When you are worried that no one cares about you and no one can bring you happiness and hope, think about what you can do for your happiness and try to create it yourself. If you are a kind woman, you must know what to do.

Kindness is a woman's charm and weapon. With kindness, women will not lose their way, their hearts will be broad, their eyes will be high, and they will gain more trust and popularity. This inner temperament can nourish you more than cosmetics and make your charm shine for a lifetime.

The most important reward in life is health. Abundant physical strength and energy are prerequisites for great achievements, which is an iron law.

For women, only health is beautiful, and women's beauty is spiritual and elastic. A healthy woman with a fresh body will become the most beautiful scenery in social life and have the capital to enjoy the happiness endowed by life.

Gold can come back after a thousand pounds, but health is like a river flowing eastward. Life and health are like entering the ocean and never coming back.

Give me a home and I will give you the whole world.

A really good man wants his wife to be an ambitious woman. So if women have dreams, men will fully support them. A woman can let her dreams follow her and marry a man. As long as he is willing to help you realize your dream, it shows that she is a man who appreciates you.

Happiness is not getting more, but caring less.

Some people want more things because of greed, but now they have lost everything.

The French philosopher Rousseau said: "10 is a snack at the age of 20, a lover at the age of 30, a joy at the age of 40, an ambition at the age of 40, and a captive of greed at the age of 50. When can people only pursue wisdom? "

Follow is not to follow, but to let nature take its course, without complaining, rashness, extravagance and importunity; Not casually, but seize the opportunity, not pessimistic, not rigid, not flustered, not carried away.

Reading can enrich people's thoughts, nourish people's hearts and make women live smarter and more elegant. Moreover, reading does not add rich cultural background and texture to female charm.

There may be many ways to become beautiful, but reading is an effective shortcut without asking others for help.

Women's healthy eating principles:

1. Less quantity

2. Better quality

3. More vegetables.

4. The food should be light.

5. The variety is a little mixed

Eat slowly

7. Breakfast is better

8. Have dinner early

Rest is part of work, and rest is mending. Only by ensuring physical health can we ensure the efficiency and quality of work.

Zhizuchanglexiao secret recipe

1. Overcome vanity

Don't expect money to buy happiness.

Give up perfectionism

4. Learn to like yourself

5. Treat public opinion correctly

Stop complaining at once

7. Don't worry about losing

8. Cherish every moment

9. Exercise

10. Get enough sleep

People's troubles mainly come from forgetting their own affairs, caring about other people's affairs and worrying about God's affairs. Therefore, relaxation is simple: mind your own business, don't worry about other people's business, and don't worry about God's business.

You are what you wear! -Western proverb

True beauty comes from the heart and from real life. It is very important for women to pay attention to inner cultivation. Our appearance and temperament are ultimately nourished by our hearts. Beauty needs years of cultivation. As the saying goes, looks before the age of 30 are born, and looks after the age of 30 are cultivated. Beauty will disappear, but the beauty from the heart and life will last forever.

Temperament is what women want most.

Methods for women to cultivate temperament:

1. Learn to enrich yourself. You should know how to appreciate yourself, but you can't be self-righteous and blindly worship yourself, which is more terrible than a woman with inferiority. To be a woman with precious temperament, the most important thing is to exude a cultural atmosphere from the inside out. This includes not only reading and studying, but also browsing and communicating online, enjoying a good movie, reading some excellent fashion magazines frequently, and learning computer and English. Only by constantly improving their self-cultivation, can women live a gorgeous life with ease, and their lives will be more colorful.

2. Learn to know yourself.

3. Show the gentleness of women. Gentleness is embodied in women's characters, such as being reasonable, compassionate, hard-working, kind and meticulous.

4. Cultivate elegant taste.

5. Show your truest self. You must learn to accept your appearance, be warm to others, be dignified and confident, keep a sense of humor, and don't be afraid of true feelings.

In order to dream, 18 years old, I am going to start from scratch.

Fully understand yourself and do what suits you best.

Happiness is God's gift to those whose hearts are free. -philosopher Voltaire

To be a happy person, you must first be the master of your own thoughts and actions. In other words, you can only get what you want.

You must have your own goals, know what you want to do, and then put it into action, so that you can succeed.

Life is not a aimless walk.

You must know how to plan your life. Although you may not expect future opportunities at first, you must know what you want.

Success lies not in the difficulty of things, but in "who really did it". If you have an idea, do it quickly. When you are fully prepared, you will be the next target of Fortune.

Keep your eyes open. Opportunity likes camouflage best.

Work hard and live a comfortable life; Live comfortably and live hard.

Everyone is growing, and this growth is a dynamic process of continuous development. Maybe you have reached a balance in a certain occasion and period, and this balance is short-lived, which may be fleeting and constantly broken. Growth is endless, many things in life are difficult to grasp, even love, you may change, that person will change, but growth can be grasped, which is a commitment to yourself.

The world is full of variables. You have flowers and applause today, but these may not follow you forever. What we can do is to control ourselves, work hard and make corresponding changes and adjustments according to the characteristics of this era. As long as we grow, we will succeed.

Diligence is the key to success.

Dedication, responsibility is better than ability

Happy work equals happy life.

1. Correct career orientation is the basis of happy work.

The efficiency of work is also the key factor for you to work happily.

3. Good interpersonal relationship is also the guarantee of happy work.

This is what women should do. The most important thing is that you should seek inner growth. Never treat men and the people around them as enemies. Older women should be responsible for their own growth. She doesn't think that their growth is something that men, their surroundings or others should do for themselves, but they should have a self-responsible attitude and manage themselves well.

Being the master of emotions can become the protagonist of life.

Methods of controlling emotions

1. objective thinking

Learn to vent.

3. Passion for life

4. Listen to music for half an hour every day

5. learn to control your anger

Arguing with others at the top of your lungs will not win the so-called self-esteem, but will make you lose it.

There is no perfection in birth, and fairness is only relative. What we have to do is to stop being serious about life, face life with a tolerant heart, thank what life has given and cherish what we have now.

A person's character often contains recklessness in boldness, hesitation in prudence, cunning in cleverness and firmness in stubbornness. Shyness will become a beautiful gentleness, and surliness will show a kind of strength and passion. In any case, modesty will give everyone a perfect color. Open-minded and peaceful is a healthy way to treat people and a higher realm of life.

What kind of people in life should get married? Someone who knows the true meaning of marriage choice. The essence of marriage choice is: when you decide to get married, you know there is probably a better person, but in this life, you chose him. Weak water is 3 thousand, just take a ladle to drink. The small happiness that can be grasped at present plays an unpredictable and unknowable opportunity in the future.

The secret of health and happiness

1. Do something you want to do but have no time to do.

2. Call an old friend who has lost contact.

3. Forget the people or things that made you angry at some time in the past, and squeeze out a happy segment instead of an unhappy one.

4. Read a joke with an unhappy person-a joke is a panacea.

5. Don't promise easily

6. Encourage others and help them.

7. Try to be with family and friends.

8. Praise others more, because this may be the gift he needs most.

9. Apologize immediately if you find something wrong. Apologizing is not a sign of weakness, but a symbol of courage; Don't brag, if you do good, someone will find out eventually.

10. Try to understand some ideas that are completely different from yours.

1 1. Relax. When you want to lose your temper, ask yourself how long it will affect you.

12. When others joke, you should laugh the loudest.

13. Making a friend is like showing a new century in front of you.

14. Don't say anything depressing to a desperate person. Optimism will help us achieve our goals.

15. Appreciating good things not only clarifies your own views, but also cultivates a good mood.

16. Read a good book and throw away those books.

17. When you need to be brave, ask yourself, "How many beats can life take?"

18. Take care of yourself. Choosing food will make you feel better and look more beautiful.

19. Don't let smoke pollute your space, and stop people around you from smoking in time.

20. Return the books you borrowed and tidy up the clothes in the closet.

2 1. Take the photos out of the drawer and put them in the album.

22. When you see a peel on the sidewalk, pick it up and throw it into the dustbin. Don't ignore it.

23. Don't say what you doubt is right or wrong, and don't do what you don't know is right or wrong.

24. Look at the surrounding scenery with delight.

25. Walk with your chest out and smile more. You look at least ten years younger.

Don't be afraid to say "I love you"-the most beautiful language in the world. If you have love in your life, you will get something.