Do you think it is necessary to have children to get married? What would happen if I didn’t have children?

You must have children after getting married! If you don't have children and the fruit of your love, it will be difficult to maintain the stability of a family. After all, there are relatively few stories like novels about staying in love without having children of your own throughout your life.

First of all, men and women form an independent family after marriage. The husband and wife participate in social activities as a family unit, and children are an important foundation for maintaining family stability. Marriage between a man and a woman is based on mutual consent and equality. Age does not hinder the right to marry at all. However, as a girl grows older, the advantage of choosing a partner may no longer be so prominent. It is necessary to find a satisfactory partner. Objects may be of some difficulty. Moreover, with the crystallization of love, the man will also have a responsibility and responsibility after choosing an older woman. There are many factors that affect the stability of a couple's relationship, such as income, housing prices, work, child rearing and education, parental relationship, etc. A harmonious, happy and sweet family requires the dedication and efforts of both husband and wife, and cannot be achieved by one party alone. The love story of the famous writer Qian Zhongshu and his wife Yang Jiang for decades has touched generations.

Secondly, when a family has children, there is more laughter and laughter in their life. The seventh national census in 2021 now shows that the average number of people per family is 2.62, indicating that everyone is still willing to have children. Children in childhood are innocent, lively and cute, which can enhance the relationship between husband and wife and reduce conflicts between husband and wife. Children are the buffer between parents, while adolescent children place their parents' expectations for a better future on them, for their future. , parents will definitely work harder, be more harmonious, and have a harmonious family; when parents are old, they will not feel lonely if they have their children as companions. Furthermore, a family without children cannot be happy, and happiness cannot last long. When you are young, you don’t want to have children for your own comfort. When you get older, you want to have children but you can’t. You should have a sense of what you should do at what age. It is impossible for people to wait until all conditions are met before doing something. That would be very difficult. It is natural to get married and have children when you are young. You should not regard having children as a burden and not want to get married. Instead, you should find ways to overcome difficulties and reduce the burden after getting married and having children. After marriage, without the buffer of children, as the age increases, the conflicts between husband and wife will gradually increase, and the relationship will gradually fade, making it difficult to return to the beauty of youth. China is a human society, where friendship, love, and family ties sustain our lives. The Dink family is only suitable for a few people with special thoughts, not for the general public. They will definitely regret it when they get old, and they will live a lonely, lonely and desolate life. Having children is not a burden, but an asset. In order to slow down the trend of population aging and increase the demographic dividend, the country has liberalized the three-child policy and made some relevant arrangements and preparations. It’s just that many young parents, considering their own circumstances, would rather have fewer and better children, and focus on raising them richly, rather than having more or no children.

Finally, I hope that if conditions permit, I still need to have a child to have a complete family...