What is trust between friends?

First of all, I blame you for this matter. You can’t blame your friends, because the fact that you told your friends means that you don’t want to keep this matter secret, so you told others. You cannot ask others based on moral standards. After all, your purpose is to keep a secret, not to tell others your secret. If you want to keep a secret, then you must know it yourself. If the second person knows it, it is not necessarily a secret. , I once said that even a dead person cannot keep a secret, so you blame yourself for this matter, because you don’t want to keep a secret yourself, and you want others to keep a secret. Why?

Another thing is, if your friend is really like this, then you should be more careful with him. You tell him something, and then it happens. This time it is your secret, next time it may be someone else's secret, and he will tell others, so just be careful with such people, and don't tell him anything in the future, and such people may be There are various psychology, some may be out of showing off, some may be out of jealousy, and some may be out of venting anger. So no matter what the reason is for telling your secret to others, this is not a trustworthy person, so don't tell him if you have anything. Just listen to what he says. If it is true, then you know it. Well, don't spread it, because if you spread it, you will also become the person spreading secrets, and you will not be reliable, you know?

The third one is, how can you keep your secret? Just ask the other person if you can keep my secret? He said I can keep secrets, and so can I if you tell him. Although this is a joke and a paragraph, the true intention has been clearly expressed. If you want to keep a secret, don't tell others. If you tell others, it means that you don't keep secrets either. Don't ask others. The person who keeps secrets may be a friend or a relative, but such a person cannot keep secrets. This is a basic understanding in your heart, so if you have some secrets, don’t tell him, because He's a big mouth.

What’s the secret? A secret is something that cannot be said. This is called a secret. If it can be said, whether it comes from your mouth or from his mouth, it is not a secret, so don't say it.